an hour later she wasnt making anysense like it was almost stress cause i did my best to just take it like a man you know SUCK IT UP even if we have been together awhile now she was like i think we should just be friends and i was like okay but then she started crying and wanted to go out again and was being closer with me than she has in a while so it wasnt guilt or anything almost like she realized she loved me after us being just friends even if only hour after she dumped me an told me to pretend that it never happend its the weirdest thing ever can someone please tell me why she was like we should just be good friends then cry cause she did it even though i tried to be okay and just respect her wants and then she wanted us to be a couple again an answer would be very appreciated and i hope ive been detailed enough thanks
2007-03-10 14:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by will B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like your gf is looking for validation. People that do that kind of thing are looking for a reaction. If you had pled and cried she probably would have waited a week or so and enjoy you wanting her back, but since you didn't give her that reaction and 'sucked it up' she realized that she couldn't play that game with you.
2007-03-10 14:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by lxl_serendipity_lxl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing i dont know why i did it to him cause i really did love him i just got mad at him and said some things i didnt mean to say i was head over heals for him and i was stupid and lost him so if you really love her get back with her the chances are she still loves you too at least she has a great guy like you he dont even want to talk to me every time i call him he says he is on the phone with his new girl friend i guess i never knew what i had until he was gone and i would do almost anything just to be able to be in his arms again. Please dont let love slip you by too.
2007-03-10 22:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by cassie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny thing is, I've done that before.
well it took me a day to get back with my boyfriend.
It was a misunderstanding and I dont see him as much like i used to so i was stressin out and i missed him alot so I said if this is how its going to be im not gonna stay in this so i decided to dump my boyfriend and he was very sad and still tried to talk to me about it. Every couple of hours he calls me and ask how im doing then the next day he called again and told me things are not gonna change and I realize how miserable I was the night before because I let him go..so I said i cant do this i want you back and he was so relief and happy and i was too. And 7 months later we're still strong and in love and this wednesday is our year anniversary. I think your girlfriend felt the same way maybe she realize she cant do and its the same without you. Thats just how we feel sometimes. we think we can do it but we really cant. Its like trying to breath without air .
2007-03-10 22:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably not going to like my answer but here it goes. Women are emotional creatures, especially if you have had sex with them. She probably wants and needs more of a commitment from you than you are willing to give at this point (or she might think she's pregnant and need that commitment). Talk to her and tell her that you want to know how she is feeling and that you won't say a word (mean it) until she is finished telling you what is going on.
2007-03-10 22:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is this crazy LEAVE HER ALONE!!!!!
2007-03-10 22:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Punkin04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋