My mom is a drug addict and continues to hurt me. i try to have little contact with her, but on birthdays and holidays, i feel compelled to see her. Last week was her birthday, so i took a gift to her and introduced her to my fiance...made a mistake and gave her my phone number. now shes trying to cause probs for me...what do i do?
2007-03-10 16:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by anngeez2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it costs like 30 dollars to change your phone number...i suggest you do it.
2007-03-10 16:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by <3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her and wish that she would get help.. but if she does not agree to you need to tell her not to call you until she gets help.. if she still calls causing trouble have the phone company block her number from calling your cell phone, and tell her to look you up and write you a letter if she ever decides to change. As sad as it is to have to do that to your own mother you need to live your own life. You can't be controlled by her problems especially now that you are older. You need to be your own person and hopefully if your mom wants to be in your life she will realize that she needs to change.
I had a similiar problem with my sister, who refuses to change and thus my mother and i can no longer speak to her because we never help her no matter how much we try to, and she always causes a lot of trouble for us. My mom's blood pressure got so high from stress that she had to be hospitalized because of all the stuff she was doing to our family.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you, have a nice wedding as well!
2007-03-11 00:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by xoxoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay it on the line say to mom that you dont want a relationship with some one that has a drug problem. Explain to her that if she cleans herself up at that point then you would consider to let her into your life. If she is just doing mallicious act of what ever and however that is plainly not exceptable if that is how she is going to be get her out of your life by the sounds of it you are going to start your own family with your to be husband and whom ever you decide to let into your life. You adopt another older lady into your life that is like a mom should be to you.
2007-03-11 01:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by jhdjkhblpk;mvhyf nbjhghbmnbjgb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and and go on with your new life ..your Mom has made her choices and caused you much pain... ..Do not let her ruin another day of your life ...Lucky you have found someone to Love ..
2007-03-11 00:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by connie b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and move far away from her.
People with drug addiction are manipulative. they will cause all kind of problem and take money away from you. They become your worst nightmare. I have a sister like that so trust me......Change your number and move far away.
2007-03-11 00:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by ewf20612 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's very sad, I hate to say it but change your phone number still see her on those special days you never know when she may respond to you reaching out. If she calls you it will always be on her terms & she will suck you dry, visits & calls need to be on your terms. Good luck.
2007-03-11 00:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what she's your mom just try to remember that. my mom died from drug related problems and we lived in cars our whole life so i know what you're talkin about but now i'd give anything for just a hug from her or to just be able to tell her i love her. remember its not your mom doing this to you its the drugs.................hope i help.
2007-03-11 00:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by brandih1121 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it makes you really uncomfortable when she cause the problems, try filing a harrasment form. Or, you should always tell someone you think will help. im a kid so its best if you tell your dad or relative. its best for you and maybe your mom.
2007-03-11 00:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by phinkpink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to be firm with her and tell her that this must stop. If she won't stop calling, you may have to change your number.
2007-03-11 00:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just change ur number
2007-03-11 00:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by nivya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋