Other - Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

my biggest fear is being put down, looked a funny, talked bad about by my peers. it sucks but its high school. i want to be on my own and not care what others think. theres a girl i kinda like but the only thing holdin me back it what others would think of her. my friends would rag on me forever, and i dont think i could take it. shes not the prettiest or the best or hottest so i wanna try and make it work and not worry about others. plz help me out here.

2007-01-14 05:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by Jake W 2

Don't be retarded and say "for the first 15-16 years." What's the longest you've gone after you popped your cherry? Was is unbearable?

2007-01-14 05:30:58 · 6 answers · asked by The GREAT Cornholio 1

28 yr. old who had it all. Good job, house, car, lots of friends, close family, money, college education. Lets man who just got out of prison, for several arsons, move in with her and becomes pregnant. He was previously married and has 2 kids. Her personality changed immediately and she gets a tattoo, quits her job, and stops paying her bills. Is about to lose her house and car, creditors are calling her (and me), and she takes yet another pay cut at her job. The guy has 2 kids from a previous marriage and works in a business that he started but can't have in his name. So there is probably some illegal activity regarding that. He never gives her money for the bills and now they have a baby. He pays for nothing and buys them nothing. He refuses to visit with her family, but yet, they see his family at least daily. His mother babysits and charges to do it. She has quit seeing her friends and rarely talks to her family. What would make her become so totally different now?

2007-01-14 05:20:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 05:18:47 · 6 answers · asked by fredy s 1

All these people are up in arms about how abortion should be illegal. WHY? Where are these millions of people when children are in foster homes without the care of a family? Where are you PEOPLE? Why do you not adopt these kids? Where are you PRO-LIFERS when the masses are abused and left to die every night? Where are you? Why should a woman not have the right to control what sprouts inside of her? The pain and suffering of carring a child should not be FORCED! Why are yu PRO-LIFERS not begging to take in the ragged and worn children, black, white, spanish, and asian, that are otherwise born with no other future than to take up just a little bit more air. Not to say no one deserves a chance. But where are the PRO-Lifers to give it to them? Shut the hell up about adoption because it is almost impossible to get rid of older children. They merely get taken into group and foster homes for the government check! But instead u blow up clinics and condemn women. That is all you ppl are good 4.

2007-01-14 05:13:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please explain why or why not.
I usually trust my man about 99%, but that is about 89% of the time. He keeps some secrets that make me wonder but he's never ever given me a good reason NOT to trust him. BUT, there are always those SECRETS, you know? I'm of the mind that couples don't know 100% about one another but you know, I think he DOES know all my stuff. But that's just me. So, tell my why don't you, how much do you trust him and WHY? Thank you for sharing!
Sincerely, Sleek

2007-01-14 05:10:26 · 17 answers · asked by Sleek 7

My boyfriend never wants to speak about our problems. he thinks when he s not saying anything, than I will forget and everythings just fine. But it kills me inside. I just can relax when i talk about my problems.
He never wants to cuddle with me. When we are watching T.V. and I try to cuddle up he s like "I need my own space on the sofa" I want to watch the news.. " and so on
Then he goes to bed very early. but not for a good time in bed, cause once there, he wants to sleep. Whenever I want to have sex, he gets a bit annoyed. sometimes we have sex for about 4 minutes. than he turns over and sleeps.
Is this realtionship leading to a good future?

what do you think? what would you do?

Ps: whenever I try to talk about any of those things, he s telling me, that i m going on about things and that i should relax.

I dont know what to do. please give me some advice. thanks a lot

2007-01-14 05:08:15 · 26 answers · asked by andi m 2

Every year I usually arrive at her home in the mornings to exchange gifts, last year I gave her my gift, but she didn't have mine. She claims she has it- last weekend I was going to go over again for the exchange(per her request), but she then said she was too busy.Till this day- she would talk about exchanging the gift- but now I think it's a little silly considering it's been too long. I personally think she never got me a present. Am I wrong? What do you think is the case? Should I go over to her house again? Or have her come to mine since I'd made so many attempts. Should I call it quit or take the gift if she really has it? Sorry so many questions- she'd never done this to me before. Thanks.

2007-01-14 05:02:19 · 14 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4

come on.......get it off your chest..............i think we've all done it at some point

2007-01-14 05:00:19 · 3 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

I'm just a shy girl looking for love.I've battled with depression for a while, i was quite silly and allowed my self to fall into a depression after a few disasterously failed relationships but realise that i deserved to be loved just like anyone else.I have not been hugged in a while so i wondered if you would send me a hug please!!

2007-01-14 04:48:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a baby 3 months ago but im doing everything i can to lose it. if he is worried about body image then he would take better care of himself. he is nasty nasty nasty. i cant stand the way he smells because he wont shower, he wont brush his teeth, he wears dirty clothes. if he is worried about a little baby fat on me then i can complain about his tiny dick or jacked up teeth. i hope you wouldnt cheat on your wife if she gained weight!!! your awful!

2007-01-14 04:46:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

partner that you love them?

2007-01-14 04:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

she is:

very beautiful
highly educated
professional
sober
humble
sweet natured
extrmely affectionate
financially totally independent
cherishes conventional family values
...and is not a tart...whatever may be the temptation....even a billion dollars.........one or two attributes may be missed and filled by others...includin negative ones

2007-01-14 04:41:09 · 29 answers · asked by s g 3

If u really like him...

2007-01-14 04:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by Charlotte's mom 2

in response to my previous question 'I live in my boyfriends house'

I do most of the cleaning day in day out, even thought I'm up from 4am daily.

2007-01-14 04:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by leffers55 1

I met this girl and frankly this is my second time feeling to go for it, well, this ain't any ordinary cases...I only get the chance to see her for 3 hours each day and I don't really get the chance to talk to her since she is always busy with her work and all...And the most frustrating part is, she is going to leave for another 3 weeks!
Looks like luck isn't on my side at all!Anybody please....

2007-01-14 04:35:25 · 4 answers · asked by Nivek 1

My boyfriend is in the highest level of choir at our school. He has to dance with this girl during one of the songs they sing. A slow-dance type of dancing but a little more difficult then that, with added movements that you have to memorize. So he's going to be working with this girl for a few weeks and it makes me really uneasy, even though I trust him. Whenever I think about him and some other girl touching while dancing it makes my stomach hurt plus I have this pain in the side of my head. I know nothings going to happen(we've been together for 6 1/2 years) but I hate it when I know some other girl gets to touch him, especially dance with him in that manner! And the fact that he will be touching her. I don't care who she is, or how innocent it is, it just disgusts me to the point of actually being physically ill.

2007-01-14 04:33:25 · 4 answers · asked by tranquil.dream 2

If there could be a song written for you and all you've been through what would be the title of the song?

2007-01-14 04:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was w/my kids father for over 5 yrs. He was talking to this girl from online which was no biggie. Until i happen to read im's they were writeing to eachother. I love u& cant wait to you come here for 2 weeks so we can have sex ect....So I emailed her saying we were together & stuff, but she can have him cuz I dont deserve to be disrespected like this.She wrote back thanks but I dont need your permission anyways. Anyways they are planning on moveing in together they never met. I dont think it will last she is 18 hes 30. She is very immature I can tell by the way she talks over the mic & the stuff she does on webcam. What gets me mad is she dont know me & is running her mouth about me. Yeah I am alittle overweight I had 4 kids she is about same weight. My point is I gained all my weight from my kids. Whats her reason. She will say over mic or whatever that I am 4 ft. 200 lbs im not close. I try not 2 let her bother me cuz she is immature. Do U think she has low esteem? or think her?

2007-01-14 04:27:47 · 3 answers · asked by missy e 1

okay at the third year of high school I was a shy,quiet girl who becomes friends with another quiet,shy girl lets name her monica.After a while we were like best friends forever,but she became really annoying she was really negative and she basically ditched me and when she wanted to go home because she didnt feel good I told her to go home but then she said I dont want too and ditched me,shes so insecure and negative!well I stopped talking to her,and the fourth year of high school I became depressed because of some personal stuff and I always feel depressed and lonely eventhough I have more than 15 friends and are always with me.Is this karma?

2007-01-14 04:24:55 · 2 answers · asked by Blueoctober M 1

10 year old live-in Step Daughter moved in w/me and her dad . We met at that time b/c she was in another country, culture, religion and spoke zero English. Now she's been here 1 year and here's a sampling of her questions: When given a gift “Where did you get this? How much did it cost?” She sees your prescription meds “What are these for?” Or “Why do you have a Dr appt.?” Seeing a picture of your best friend who's heavy-set and weighs apprx. 300 LBS, “Oh my God why is she so BIG?! (In disgust). She asks “Why don’t you have a job?” if you work “How much do you make?” When you are on the PC she’s constantly trying to see what you're typing and/or read your email. The new-agey parents who claim that I do owe her answesr to these intrusive questions, b/c she has a right to know why I don’t work (outside the home) or what meds I take. I tend to disagree b/c an adult asking me these things would get cussed out. Her father won't address it and says no counseling. How would you handle this?

2007-01-14 04:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

lately my husband has been trying really hard to go fishing with one of his buddies (who is a jerk to his own wife and always cheats on her) and he finally went this morning. he never goes out becouse we usually do things together. he was being very rude to me this morning when i asked him not to drink (he is still underaged). he didnt even say bye when he left. lately we havent been intimate ever, and even if i try i get the sholder. he is such a lier. he always lies but i catch him because guys are bad liers. what is your opnion? i have tried talking but i just get mocked because he never takes me serisisoly...

2007-01-14 04:18:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have a language student staying through a language school. We get paid for it and provide half board. He is from Korea, 26 and is pleasant enough. However, in 3 months in Brighton he has hardly been out apart from going to lessons in the mornings. He sits in his room and does not go out to do anything. I have asked him why he does not go out but he just shrugs and said he would go sightseeing in summer! Is this normal behaviour? Why doesn't he go out and enjoy being here? Should I not bother? I find it annoying as feel it is a waste of money him being here and not taking any interest in the culture or what the country has to offer. Should I say something or just leave him be?

2007-01-14 04:17:17 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3

I live with my boyfriend in his house.
I don't pay my way simply becuase he doesn't let me have a say in decorating etc. It has to be his way.
He always states that its his house. He paid for it, and won't ever put me on the mortgage.
I've bought brand new appliances i.e kitchen untensils, new fridge freezer etc. and now he wants me out because I occasionally forget to pick up the jumper on the floor or decide to rest because I work from 4 in the morning instead of constantly cleaning up.
What should I do?

2007-01-14 04:15:32 · 25 answers · asked by leffers55 1

2007-01-14 04:12:33 · 27 answers · asked by frankie 2

UT pharmacist

IV experience

great team worker

2007-01-14 04:07:54 · 2 answers · asked by redford 2

2007-01-14 04:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and i were engaged he bought me a $1,300 ring and a laptop.Before he moved in with me i was supporting myself and my daughter. he started working and i stayed home and cleaned and cooked and made sure all the bills were paid he stopped working because his friends made fun of his job (he worked on a farm) he made damn good money and when he quit working i was left paying all the bills my bills alone were pretty high but with his car payment and insurance and phone bill they were just too much so i told him he needed to help out he got mad and we got into an arguement and we broke up he signed the ring and the computer over to me and than he left he left all of his crap at my house after 2 months of calling him to come get it i loaded it up and took it to where he stayed and dumped it on the lawn.I sold the ring and laptop with the money paid off his bills he found out, that i sold the ring and laptop said he wanted them back and said he was going to sue.was i acting immature?

2007-01-14 04:04:28 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

I 16 and im worried I might be a lesbian. I'v been seeing this guy for three months wev only kissed but then I was at this party and I kind of got it on with a chick. I was drunk and im not sure if it means anything or not, do you think I'm a lezza?

2007-01-14 04:03:28 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend and we have a 18 month old child. He told me a month ago he was not happy. We wrote a list of things we are not happy with about eachother and then made a resolution list of steps we were going to take to make our relationship work. I just found out that the same time he told me he was not happy he has been sending poems and conversing with another girl. I have since broke-up with him. I just need to pick up my belongs as well as my sons to make it official. He is begging me back.

2007-01-14 03:55:11 · 4 answers · asked by tredaze 1