Please explain why or why not.
I usually trust my man about 99%, but that is about 89% of the time. He keeps some secrets that make me wonder but he's never ever given me a good reason NOT to trust him. BUT, there are always those SECRETS, you know? I'm of the mind that couples don't know 100% about one another but you know, I think he DOES know all my stuff. But that's just me. So, tell my why don't you, how much do you trust him and WHY? Thank you for sharing!
Sincerely, Sleek
2007-01-14 05:10:26 · 17 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I couldn't trust my man 100% I never would have married him. Without trust, there is no love. He feels the same about me.
I KNOW my man is more than happy at home, so I need not worry. Oh, he "looks" at other women. (Find me a man who doesn't and I think I'd call him a liar) BUT, my man tells me he looks. I don't care. Look all you want. I know where he is at night.
I know who he is with in the bedroom. I know who he brings his paycheck home to. GET THE IDEA?
2007-01-14 05:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my husband to an extent. I learned along time ago not to trust anyone 100%. I think I can trust him about cheating on me but sometimes it is not the man whom I have to worry about, it is the other woman who is a home wrecker or just do not care about the wife or girlfriends feelings.
It is impossible for a man or woman to know everything about their mate. We have been married for 2 years and we are still finding out things about each other everyday. That is the fun part. Everyone has skeltons in the closet may be 2-3 but it depends on what those or how important those secrets are to the relationship. Like if the mate has a criminal record, I think that would be a bug secret that would cause alarm for not trusting, but a secret like I used to date a girl in school for 2 years, then that is a little one.
2007-01-14 13:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my man 100%, I know that I can always trust him to be faithful. I just wish he trusted me as much as I trust him. He's insecure, sensitive, and never had a girlfriend before. He always thought he'd never be in a relationship because of his appearance. He absolutely hates unfaithful people and liars. He won't speak to his birth mother because she cheated on his father and left him for another man abandoning them both. He refuses to speak to her and its be well over 18 years. I think this is why I can trust him. There always has to be the one person in the relationship that can't be trusted, that person is me. Sad, how I ended up with a faithful man that so many woman long for, yet I was unfaithful to him. He's an amazing guy but he's also jealous from day one, controlling, angry, verbally abusive, immature...well I guess in someway his good qualities are suppose to make up for the bad. Some days I'm not so sure they do. I can always trust him to be faithful 100%, but having 20% trust in him not to abuse me when he's livid about something.
I guess there never is 100% trust in a relationship.
Hope that helps.
-.-'
2007-01-14 13:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in order to have a healthy relationship, there needs to be a level of trust in the relationship. ...the question for most people is "How much should I trust my mate?" In a utopia, we would know everything about our partner...but as you know usually we don't. As long as both people have the answers to those questions that would in their head change their mind about the relationship then that is all you can wish for.
There is also a difference between trusting your partner and being naive. I trust my husband. We share almost everything. But I am wise enough to know that he is human therefore he is not perfect. I keep a saving account for myself for example. I don't place items in my name that I know I could not pay for if he couldn't. With 50% of all marriages ending up in divorce these days...my mantra is " Trust your partner but don't be stupid."
2007-01-14 13:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my man 100% all of the time. After about 100 failed relationships you learn that trust is the foundation of a solid one. Without trust a relationship will crumble and fail.
2007-01-14 13:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humans are fallible, so I doubt I'd ever trust ANYone 100%, but I also wouldn't be involved with someone romantically (or as a good friend) if there weren't a high level of trust.
2007-01-14 13:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is built on trust so if yo dont trust him 100% then there is something wrong i trust my husband full with all my hart he has never given me anything to ever question him about either you should sit down with your man and tell him how you feel!!!
2007-01-14 13:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by MARRIED GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust my bf of 3 years 100% when it comes to being faithful. But when it comes to doing stupid boyish things- I trust him 70% of the time.
2007-01-14 13:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 100 per cent!
He was brought up on the farm, and he was brought up to have high moral standards. He would "tell on himself", if he ever cheated on me.
There are a multitude of "little ways" that a man tells on himself, if he cheats. Of course, this doesn't apply to those womanizers who do not have a conscience.
2007-01-14 15:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never trust a man...he only tells you what you want to hear.
When he knows you trust him that is when he is free to do what ever he wants becase he knows you are not looking.
I am sure we all do not need to know everyhing about our man/woman...Just love them and have a happy honest relationship from the time you meet them...the past is the past...leave it there.
2007-01-14 13:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋