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I 16 and im worried I might be a lesbian. I'v been seeing this guy for three months wev only kissed but then I was at this party and I kind of got it on with a chick. I was drunk and im not sure if it means anything or not, do you think I'm a lezza?

2007-01-14 04:03:28 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

35 answers

Yes , you are a lesbian now

2007-01-14 04:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I think you're a 16-year old. No one here is going to be able to answer this question for you. You should use this time in your life to figure out how you feel, and what kinds of relationships make you happy. Think about who you envision yourself being with, and know that life is meant for exploring the world as much as it is for exploring yourself. You've got plenty of time to sort this out.

Remember also that "straight" and "lesbian" are just labels that people use to categorize certain behavior. Ultimately, you are the one who can decide what she does and does not do. Find the things and people that make you happy and enjoy being yourself.

2007-01-14 04:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by JD 2 · 0 0

I think you should avoid unsupervised parties and all alcohol.

Study harder than ever
Spend an hour a day in the library
Spend an hour a day at the gym
Honor your parents and your teachers
Get involved in a worthy school function
Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
Help someone every day
Go to Church
Invite your friends to Church

Let us know how things are in 6 months.

Good Luck

2007-01-14 04:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0 0

It all depends on what you choose and how you got it on, but mostly what you choose. If you choose to fall in love with guys more than girls, you are most definitely straight. If you love girls more than you do guys, you can consider yourself to be a lesbian. Don't worry about this if this is the first time. If you choose to fall in love with guys, that's your choice. If you choose to be a lesbian, well, you might get some grief every now and then, but you won't be a sore loser.

2007-01-14 04:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well if you got some real feelings for the girl maibe. but you tend to do some pretty crazy stuff when ur drunk i mean when i was 5 i saw a pic of my mom and her friend kissing with like a really big bottle of beeer and stuff so but she isnt a lez i mean she hasnt done nething else that crazy so u were probably just really drunk and thot itll be fun

2007-01-14 04:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 2 · 0 0

You use the word "worried" so I would assume that you are not a lesbian. I think you got drunk, let your inhibitions down, you were curious about "sucking face" with another female, and you went for it. I just think you are young and experimenting, that's all.

2007-01-14 04:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0 0

When you are drunk your inhibitions are lowered. If you were sober and attracted to a girl, you might be bisexual because you are also attracted to a guy.

BTW: Sixteen year olds shouldn't be drinking alcohol, and they should NEVER be getting drunk - alcohol kills every kind of cell in the body - keep that in mind before you drink alcohol again.

2007-01-14 04:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0 0

It depends on how you felt when you did it. We all do weird things when we are drunk but if you get more excitment out of kissing women, than with men or your boyfriend than you might be. If you often dream about other women or feel a sexual attraction to them then most likely you are.

2007-01-14 04:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

im 16 too and im still trying to figure out wether im Bi sexual or not, dont worry if you are these things will all come in time, and dont label your self yet, you have plenty of time to figure it out. ask your slef these questions
Do i like girls?
Do i think sexual thoughts about girls?
are most of my friends girls?
Do i fancy any of them/
Do i fancy any fellas? obviously you could say no to most of them and still be a lesbian. but you know your slef in all due course whether you will or not, dont worry im sorta in the same position as you,its hard i know pet, but eveything will work out even though it doesnt feel like it right now, im still VERY confused my self.
Good look and if you ever need to talk more just email me ok
xoxox

2007-01-14 04:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Denise 2 · 0 0

At 16 it can be quite normal to experiment with your own sex. I would not worry about it. You will know . Drinking can alter the mind in many cruel ways and make you do things you normally would not. Just be yourself and be happy whatever the outcome. You are not alone.

2007-01-14 04:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0 0

Na, granted woman are hot! But sex is meaningless without proper conflict that an egotistical man can give ya. I know many lesbians and half of them are named Butch and try to think like pig men. So find a egotistical pig man that will trip your hormones and ya will be fine.

2007-01-14 04:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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