Other - Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

what would that special song be? imagine that you will never see him/her again..and this song will be your last words..

2007-01-14 08:27:09 · 11 answers · asked by rseny 3

My husband get pissed off and goes on a rant at least once an hour while he's awake and it's over anything and everything. Then he's over it until something new pisses him off. It takes something bigtime to make me mad and as a result I only get mad about once every 3 months. BUT when I do, I tell the offender off in a "take no prisoners" way and then storm off. I don't scream, yell or curse. Then I withdraw and barely speak to anyone for about 3 days before i can get over it. After that, the subject is off limits and I do everything I can to avoid the situation again, because I don't want to get that angry and upset again. My husband says his way is healthier and my anger would not be as intense if I just spouted off everytime I became irritated (which I rarely get and he usually is and I can't understand how anyone could be SO irritated SO much! ). Who's way is healthier?

2007-01-14 08:22:40 · 3 answers · asked by Ni-K 2

I'm going out with this boy and he's really sweet and all, but lately I've felt like there's nothing there between us anymore, because though he's quite attractive I'm not too keen on his personality, and I just dont have feelings for him, but the problem is that lately I've fell out with my best friend, and I don't want to end it with him because I'll have lost another person and I'll be more lonely, and I still want to be good friends with him..

I just dont know what to do :'( I really want to be single because I love it, I'm still only young :) But I dont want to hurt his feeling or lose another mate...... What do I do ??? Help me ???? :'(

2007-01-14 08:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by SeaSide,x 2

Women claim that they want men who are confident, healthy, intelligent, hard-working, romantic, honest, and appreciative. Those same women intentionally date and marry men who are the exact opposite. Then they have the nerve to feel sorry for themselves, even though they are 100% to blame for their choices.

Why is this?

2007-01-14 08:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 07:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd like to know how Indian Malaysians guys look like?

Can u please send me pictures of Malaysian men just to have an idea? I know the look is not the most important thing but I'm curious to know if they look like Chinese or are dark tanned like Indians from India... Thank u in advance.

2007-01-14 07:16:55 · 3 answers · asked by Lolly 1

I mean he already is, but he just doesn't get it, his idea of romance, is, going to dinner, seeing a movie and coming home and going to bed. Which is nice, don't get me wrong, but, I would like to be surprised with candles on the table at the restaruant, and not telling me where he is taking me, or something to that effect. Or taking me by the hand, lead me into the bathroom after dinner, push me up against the wall and making mad passionate love to me. (stuff like that)
Please help,
desperate kitten

2007-01-14 07:11:47 · 12 answers · asked by KiTtEn 1

Im 14 ok just dont juge me. i just had twinns Summer and Samantha. My Boyfriend wants kids he loves them but i kinda want to slow down since im only 14. ive told him that i dont want any more but at night all he wants to do is make love. he dosent use condoms though and i wish he would. I dont want him to leave cuze i dont want a broken home with my girls. HELP!

2007-01-14 07:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by MUSICGIRL 1

I am currently writing a novel for teens but can't think of where I should take the book. I would like it to be really sad at the end and the two main characters are madly in love. Should someone die? I don't know where to go. Please help. The setting is near San Diego, present time. The girl just moved there and now school is starting. She is a sophmore. Troy, the other protaganist, is a junior and star of the football team. Thank you! Everything helps.

2007-01-14 07:09:49 · 13 answers · asked by writersblock9 1

I have 2 teenage sons, almost 14 and 16.. I have raised them right, they know right from wrong. They are intelligent boys but over the past 2 years they have turned into children I don't even know.. They have turned into theives and liars and unmanageable punks.. I am just so tired of never having peace around them. Neither of them care about school, they couldn't care any less about homework or grades. Its murder even getting them up to go. They used to have dreams and ambitions and now nothing.. It breaks my heart to see the two beautiful boys turn into their father..who cares about hardly anything. They want to live with him and i am to the point of saying.. GO!! I have raised them all alone this far, he can do the rest of it.. The problem is that I am scared they will not be aken care of properly. I know there are fed and clothed and have everything they need when they are with me. Should I show tough love and not worry and let them make this choice?

2007-01-14 07:05:10 · 4 answers · asked by dolphinchick 2

Good men are everywhere. The real question is, when will women grow up and start to appreciate good men? Instead, women would rather date insecure, rude "bad boys" in an attempt to change them.

Why is this?

2007-01-14 07:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm physically disabled...
No one has ever liked me...
I mean, no one has ever asked me out or anything...
I REALLY want a girlfriend...
I really do :-(
But, all that I try doesn't work...

Extra Information:
I can't talk that well to people who haven't been around me as long, so I use my laptop to talk, meaning, I type or write things to talk...
Also, I have a slight drooling problem, so I can't, should I say don't, want to eat or do anything like where I open my mouth with ANY girl by me...

That's my situation...
I don't know what to do...
Please help me...

2007-01-14 06:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by The Dynasty 2

He tells u 2 go 2 ************* on a subject so not related 2 that i think he is like YAHOO SPAMMER X or something and he's saying that its not a scam well he's getting on my nerves who else is with me

2007-01-14 06:49:15 · 3 answers · asked by softballchick_4348 1

there r 2 guys in my school that think they r the best well1 they have HORRIBLE grades one can barely read and i help them all the time well i recently found out that they were talking about me behind my back what can i do im only in8th grade and im not that popular i dont care about what they said but how do i get them to stop

2007-01-14 06:38:41 · 15 answers · asked by female football player 1

2007-01-14 06:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so this guy i like told me that he thought i was a great person, blah blah blah, and that he wasnt ready for a girlfriend yet
does that mean he likes me or not?
also he keeps staring at me during class and smiling so i dont know what that means either
pls help me!!

2007-01-14 06:29:27 · 7 answers · asked by Erin Nicole 2

My son is 11 starting highschool in sept. I want to know is he allowed to travel on his own.

2007-01-14 06:17:27 · 18 answers · asked by Jill B 1

2007-01-14 06:16:21 · 6 answers · asked by lasufrida 1

Me and my girlfriend were going to have sex last week. I tried to put my penis in her, but it would not go in. I think this is because she was not wet at all, because we sort of rushed in to it. Is it ESSENTIAL for the girl to get wet before sex? Also, is there a simple way to put it in easily, like position wise?

Thanks.

2007-01-14 06:14:07 · 6 answers · asked by Pink Cake 1

Does it depend on how much they are earning or how much they do in the house? Any suggestions would be helpfull

2007-01-14 06:14:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went on my husbands old email account to print some pics and found a unread email from his old gf kate.he never uses this email account thats why it was unread.i opened it and this is what it said-how are you? it was good to see you even if you did give me the cold shoulder.your girls are so big! kate my husband never told me he ran into her and i don't want to tell him she sent him a email.kate is not just any old gf they have a long history together to long to explain here plus he left his last wife and child for her.as far as i know he has not had any contact with her since we got married 2yrs ago but shes still local and single(looked up her myspace account)my questions are why did she send this email to my husband after they just ran into each other most likely in a store?why did she make a coment about him giving her the cold shoulder,i know my husband hes nice to everyone what was she looking for a kiss?

2007-01-14 06:13:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we live together and have an otherwise fantastic relationship - he's my best friend as well as my partner. The only issue is our sex life, which in the last 6 to 8 months has slowed down considerably. It's still pretty great, not quite as electrifying as before, but he's the best lover I've ever been with. All that said, we're now down to only having sex 1 or 2 times a week, and I find that's just not enough for me (I know this is common enough in other relationships, but you can only measure your own by your own standards, right?) I'd prefer it to be more like 5 or 6 times a week, if not more, but so often these days when I try to initiate sex my partner turns away, or falls asleep, or openly says he's not in the mood. We spend so much time together I'm pretty much sure he's not cheating. I find myself stealing opportunities to masturbate when he's not around and almost feel like I'm cheating. Help! How do I deal with this?

2007-01-14 06:07:24 · 17 answers · asked by worried chica 1

One of my coworkers was telling me that he was really happy that he had all females and that he got them (all three) out of the house before they were 21. Even though only one is still sucessfully married, they still they are all on thier own (the other two divorcees are living with their boyfriends). He said he was doing way better than his brother who has two adult sons in their thirties living in the basement. His theory (which I find a bit old fashioned and suspect) is that girls have an easier time finding a mate and getting taken care of by someone else. He said that if a boy is passive or not too motivated that no woman would want them, whereas a woman just has to "put out" (in his words). I wasn't really comfortable with what he said, but what do you think? Is easier to get girls out of the house ???

2007-01-14 06:07:19 · 3 answers · asked by LanceMiller77 2

My bofriend told me that his parents are not agree with our relation ship,after 10 months.And my bf ,after he told me that,he stopped talking to me that much.

2007-01-14 06:04:51 · 11 answers · asked by Samy 1

A tempting of something such as ) (a) he ask to be left alone for he was mad enought too kill or (b) The smell of her made me madly in love with the wife too be?

2007-01-14 05:59:45 · 1 answers · asked by bobo 2

I finally confronted my husband about his phone sex addiction last April. He said he would stop. As far as I could tell he did until October/November. He had a few slip ups but overall it looks like he is try from what I can tell. He says he feels like an alcoholic. We have been married for over 13 years/together about 15 and have 3 children together(9,5, and 1 yr). I just wonder if anyone else out there feels hurt like I do. I use to think he was a "just a guy" and it "was a guy thing". but it 15 years later and he's still up to it. I confronted him and he said he would stop. I know he is trying but its hard not to forget. I just wonder if he ever met anyone thru the phone sex chat lines or had any ongoing phone relations. I finally just had enough last April and told him to knock it off. We have a family and I want his attention. I called the lines to see what was so interesting and it just made me sick to think I just brushed it off for so long. I am still so upset.

2007-01-14 05:58:28 · 39 answers · asked by scrapqueen 1

2007-01-14 05:47:29 · 20 answers · asked by izuma4 2

i was sooo much happoier still a little miserable (but tht i think was from just having no friends which i was always miserable for) but now i feel so much much happier!!! when my mom moved out away from my dad. even then though he still was and is trying to control us but didn't really get the chance to since he wasn't living w/ us. and yes my mom would let him she's so weak. but still i was happoer being away from tht asshole(even though we saw hi, evberyday at my grandma's) but she's feeling so lonely and depressed liek her usual self she says we're going back! (i can't help crying as i write this). i was so happy and now it's all just crushed down. even if he wud change it's not the same (even if he wasn't mean he'd still control like now and i still feel more free in this house no home) if u want info on my dad look at all my old quests. and i'm not an adult so i can't move out. i wish my mom foudn sum1else wut do i do? oh and how do i make tht 2nd additonal detil box *** up to wrin our old house everytime i used to hear the garage i would feel sad and scared becuz he was cumin, everytime he comes in i feel like that and i even fee; abnormal for the way i feel (especialy how i feel when i cry like now) i feel like i'me happy but not it's being crushed and like i said even if he did change i still wudn't wanna go bak. especially since my mom wud nevet leave then. i know tht sounds stupid but u don't understand. and i'm all alone! cuz he's mr. nice guy ro my ext. fam so they'll be happy and they know he is or was! u know be4 my mom married him she never dated him or knew him personally! she just saw him at places w/ fam. and liked him 4 his looks! (she doesn't know i know tht my grandma told me) (and he cheated on her b4!) i wana kill myself and i wud if i wasn't afraid of death or burning in hell) yea he had a bad childhood incase ur wonderin. wut shud i do?
if my mom were to do this i could never forgive her why do ppl have to be married? why do women feel so alone w/o someone? she says she's afraid of being alone and sick especially when she's old and i will take care of her i said i would but no she has to go back to him how could my mom do this to me? just thinking about our old house (bot even him) makes me feel 'ughh' even when i lived htere and he wasn't there it seemed bad. especially on the weekends it just felt like such a sick feeling i felt like that when i woke up. but i don't feel like tht here. i know this all probably soudns abnormal but my dad was an *** to me my whole life. even my aunt who visited us says i'm much more confident this time(which isn't true) and happier(thts true 4sure). if she goes back it's like idk there'll be no life 4 me. sad at home and no friends to make me feel better or understand. at least i'm a lot happuer at homw now. i don't get picked on this yr but still ui'm a loser w/ only one friend andi don't even know if she likes me sometimes. well skools totoally out of the situation. sry this is really long. i wish my mom was never stupid enough to marry my dad in the 1st place. why would you marry sum2 u know nothing about! and y wud let it happen if u know how my dad is (my uncle on my dad's side proposed it). i cud go to my grandma's house and she said i cud live with her. she sympathisez w/ me eeven though she relly likes my dad blindly like every1 else knwoing how he's treated me especially when i was a little kid. u know wut when i heard sotries like when all ym older cuz's (even the one on my mom's side!) were little they would be afraid of him and would become quiet and scared and **** when anything concerning him wud happen. my cuz used to (idk if she still does) hates him and she's not tht little she's a teen! she's the onyl one who saw him 4 wut he really was. see wut i mean even if he did change i'd be miserable.
my mom sayts if he becumes mean again she'll leave him. i can believe tht cuz she did this time but she said 4ever and i don't belive tht. cuzz at the beginnign when we moved out she said she had NO intentions of going back and she felt lonely then too i bet u. (i know her). sumtimes i wish i cud go bak in time and make sure my mom wudn't do this. even if she didn't get married and me & my bro wudn't exist. (God i feel so abnormall for the way i feel inside mayb cuz i've been told tht so much 4om my mom for ahting my dad and other famiyl ppl) if she were to go back i swear i'd never e happy agian as long as i'm there and i'd probably never ever talk again either to any1 or hardly to show my mom wut she's done to me (well i'd be sad naturllay anyways no need to fake it) and i'd never fprgive her for it. i'd rather forgive my dad. i won't hate her but i'll be mad at her 4ever. i just wish i could die right now and go to heaven..i don't ever wanna live w/ him again wut should i doif you don't wanna read everything at least read the first part

2007-01-14 05:42:58 · 7 answers · asked by mamama 2

With a man who is 39? Becaws that is my husbands age and i am 28?

2007-01-14 05:39:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was taking a swim at a local community pool last weekend and whilst I was swimming, this girl that I usually see there took a HUGE belly flop into the water on the deep end. When she got back up, her arms were folded across her chest and it looked like she had lost her bikini top. Anyway, I spotted it not too far away from me, grabbed it, and handed it back to her. But, when she took it, she said, "YOU SICK PERVERT!" and grabbed it and went back under the water to put it back on. Then she got out of the pool and stormed away.

I had no intention of being perverted...I was just trying to be a nice guy, but she probably thought I wanted to see her topless and put it back on. I see her there frequently, so how can I explain to her that I wasn't trying to be perverted and she's mad as hell at me?

2007-01-14 05:39:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous