I'm going out with this boy and he's really sweet and all, but lately I've felt like there's nothing there between us anymore, because though he's quite attractive I'm not too keen on his personality, and I just dont have feelings for him, but the problem is that lately I've fell out with my best friend, and I don't want to end it with him because I'll have lost another person and I'll be more lonely, and I still want to be good friends with him..
I just dont know what to do :'( I really want to be single because I love it, I'm still only young :) But I dont want to hurt his feeling or lose another mate...... What do I do ??? Help me ???? :'(
2007-01-14 08:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by SeaSide,x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you think you should other people. This way the dump is less forcefull and hes more likely to stay friends with u.
2007-01-14 08:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by KevZilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 be honest hun
as u say ur only young- and u only live once so u gota be as happy as pos, theres no point bein in a lovless relationship thats not goin anywhere.
let him down gently & try 2 stay friends
u need 2 make way 4 the love of ur life!
go out, make new mates & meet new ppl
good luck & have fun
2007-01-18 07:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by jls_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i think you already know the answer to your own question-firstly you are young like you say, and secondly you dont actually want to be in a relationship-so therefore you shouldnt go against your wishes :)
You should never go into a relationship just to please another person, as you will just be going in it for the wrong reasons.
Be single whilst your fun and experiement and have fun :)
If you are only attracted to this guy because of his looks-but you arnt attracted to his personality, then you would just be going into a relationship on false pretences anyway-i.e it would be obvious that you were only with him for his looks? :)
Think seriously about what you want in a relationship and the qualities that you would like to see in a partner before you go head first into something just for fear of hurting someones feelings :)
Think of yourself first!:)
Good luck xx
2007-01-14 08:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk, let him know how you feel. I have been in a relationship like this before and the longer you wait the worse you feel. if you do decide to break it off end on a good note. don't burn your bridges, later on you may get the spark. It's all right to be Friends. there are 6,569,812,688 as of 4 PM there will be one for you I assure you!
2007-01-14 08:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by BigTom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be open and honest with him. The longer you let this go on,the more hurt he'll end up feeling. Tell him you value his friendship-but you just don't feel that the two of you work as a couple. He'll be upset at first,but in time he'll accept it.
2007-01-14 08:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 03:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by oberlander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have those feeling for him then you need to let him go! It isnt fair or nice to let somone hang on when you cant return their feelings! Just treat them the way you would want to be treated!!
Good Luck
2007-01-14 08:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by a_blueeyedblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to yourself and know the difference between what you want and what you need for the moment and for the long run. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 08:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by aspersonalasitgets05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel anything for your boyfriend, you need to let both of you go your own way.
Is it really fair to keep him in a relationship when his feelings aren't returned for your own selfish needs? (no offense)
Go out and find yourself some more friends, or spend some time with family and coworkers/classmates, whatever.
2007-01-14 08:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by kttm :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use this boy as a tool to stop you from being lonely! Be true to yourself.
There are other friends you can make, other boyfrineds you'll have..
let him go and see what happens.
2007-01-14 08:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋