there r 2 guys in my school that think they r the best well1 they have HORRIBLE grades one can barely read and i help them all the time well i recently found out that they were talking about me behind my back what can i do im only in8th grade and im not that popular i dont care about what they said but how do i get them to stop
2007-01-14 06:38:41 · 15 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im sure he was joking but one just called and asked me out...EWWW!!!!
2007-01-14 06:47:07 · update #1
How do you know he's joking? I find nice/smart girls sexy too, I've got one in the back of my head, maybe he really wants to date.
Secondly, how do you know he was talking behind your back? Peer pressure and all could make them say things they don't really want to say. This whole situation makes no sense I mean, people with bad grades and who can't read don't go asking for help.
There is a small chance they're just messin around w/ you for kicks, but thats a w/e thing, doesn't make a difference (you could go to the date and leave early/ditch him)
2007-01-14 06:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep helping them. When they ask for help, just refuse and tell them that you don't appreciate their rudeness
I have found that if someone is annoying you, just ignoring them will get them to stop. People who bully and annoy others feed off of the responses and attention that they get. If you stop giving these jerks attention, they will eventually stop.
If for some reason they keep harassing you, talk to a school official about it. There's no reason for you to keep suffering because of a couple of idiots who never learned manners or how to behave properly.
2007-01-14 14:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sybelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time worring about these immature imbeciles. You are way ahead of the game with these guys. However, I do recommend you stop and say hello 15 years from now as you drive by in your BMW while they're loading up the garbage truck.
2007-01-14 14:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by radarjet67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i deal with this all the time (i'm in 7th grade)
one: show them who is in charge in the classroom, the brains or the idiots
two: if they ask for help dont help them
three: try asking your teacher to change your seat or your counselor to change classes
four: when all else fails, kick their butts (or do the right thing and turn them in)
2007-01-14 14:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Erin Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop helping them and surround yourself with your friends.
Whatever you do don't resort to their tactics. If it gets worse report to someone you can trust at the school to give you a hand with the situation.
2007-01-14 14:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically, let them now if they have something to say, say it toy our face..most people are chicken and rather talk behind your back and number 2- don't worry about it.. be the best you can be in school and go on.. friends are a dime to a dozen and will change throught your life!
2007-01-14 14:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by shelly v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well : see there's two things ! for yourself to understand clearly
is
1make an deciding point were they must be talked to
2 if those 2 guys can't agree with you then ."Just walk away
and never see them "Again ok? best choice get family help
2007-01-14 14:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol do what this girl did to me...Smack them behind the head and throw a text book over 600 pages at them..It hurts..But ive stop messing with the grl.But sometimes she asks for it so......yeah....try it..It should stop
2007-01-14 14:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Gregory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop helping them out. They are using you.
2007-01-14 14:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by beeda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
face htem upfront battle it out, tell them that there grades stink worse than rotten cheese in trash! or u cud be subtle and tell the teacher, or do the right thing and ignore them
PS: I LIKE THE BATTLE PART!
2007-01-14 14:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋