Other - Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

If you are in a relationship, do you have a lot of outside friendships that are separate from your spouse?

Do you, or would you be bothered if your spouse was jealous acting about your outside friends and acted like you did not need them because you are in a relationship with him or her?

2006-12-26 17:51:39 · 3 answers · asked by Middy S 2

2006-12-26 17:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Navulam 3

it's like i am one person when i am outside my house and another when i am inside. why am i so scared to act the same in both places?

2006-12-26 17:39:39 · 7 answers · asked by doctorhockey18 3

no it is not the girl that said it,but she doesnt know who or when
so what do you make of this

2006-12-26 17:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think its weird, or unneccisary to give your lover presents on half year- or year anniversaires?
i usually make my lover just one special gift on half year and year anniversaries...
he appreciates it lots - but i never get one in return. (well not on half years)
would you guys apreciate it on half year and year anniversaires or is it just a waste of time? id love to get lots of presents from the heart.

2006-12-26 17:27:03 · 3 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2

my boyfriend and i are falling apart but then when i go to do something about it, he sorta does something that makes me remember why i loved him in the first place. somehow we just keep coming back to each other.Does this mean something? What do i do?

2006-12-26 17:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by LR 1

Please help me get in touch with my Fience' Joti Rogas, she lives in : Zone 1, Ayala, Zamboanga 7000...she was in a cras a week ago & have not heard from her ! If someone knows this address & can go there & tell Joti or her Momma ( Rosita ) to call me COLLECT at : 281 855 9465 ! I PROMISE TO PAY $50.00 U.S. to te person that gets this message to them & they contact me ! PLEAZZZZ, help me ? PROMISE I WILL SEND THE MONEY via WESTERN UNION as soon asthey contact me ! The only way that I have contact with Joti is therough the internet, but I believe she is in Hospital & has no way to contact me ! I can be reached at either the # above or 832 492 2395 or at : alfrmny@yahoo.com ! SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME ?????? Thank you ! GOD BLESS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-26 17:08:10 · 1 answers · asked by alfrmny 1

my cousin and his wife are always asking my daughter to keep her youngest girl for long weekends and never invite of ask for the oldest girl. They are 3 and 6 yrs. I am concerned over the impact this is having on the girls, and my daughter becomes defensive whenever I try to talk to her about it. I have spoken to them all about this situation and they all try to make me feel like I am wrong about how I think on it. They all say that favoritism is acceptable and everyone does it. I am very upset and annoyed about how selfish and cruel they all are and I don't know what else to say or do (if anything) I wish I could get custody of my grandgirls and put a stop to this. What impact do you think this will have on them?

2006-12-26 17:07:24 · 9 answers · asked by sissytwo 3

i was in a serious relationship for 5 years and we have one child together, he is a crackhead that is currently in jail but set to get out soon, i dont want anythign to do with him, but he is her dad, how do i portray my feelings to her, how do i deal with him and all his faults that i dealt with, without making my daughter bitter or unknowing of her father, do i just keep up with my i hate him, and i want him to be as miserable additude, do i just not talk about him and hope for the best, how do i deal with the future, with him maybe or maybe not in her life, i want him to have nothing to do with her, part of that is because of my feelings for him, but mostly because i dont want her to see his addictions, or have the very poor relationship that he has with his other 2 children that he abandoned to come here,
he left them to come to me, to leave his problems in N.Y and then left us to go to TN to live with anouther woman, again running away, how do i hate him and her not hate me?

2006-12-26 17:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by lookingforthepines 1

when i see them they scare me but its soo sad 2 see them there!!

2006-12-26 16:53:39 · 30 answers · asked by <@>:**MIrAndA**:><@ 1

My boyfriend and I got in this huge argument on whether I would save him or my children ( we share one child, my other children are from a previous marriage) ,if I were put in that sort of situation (God Forbid!!). I told him that there wasn't even a choice and I would save my children before anyone!! He was totally ticked off... he told me he would chose me. Seriously though.. if he were to choose me over my children, I would be ticked!! I would want my children to experience life like I did... I want to know what you think... Thanks!!

2006-12-26 16:53:16 · 13 answers · asked by ~*JustSomeGirl*~ 1

I feel very sad and i am i sleep alot and eat alot because im so sad and nothing else to do w/ my life how do u feel when u loose someone??

2006-12-26 16:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by <@>:**MIrAndA**:><@ 1

2006-12-26 16:48:22 · 2 answers · asked by baby boo 1

2006-12-26 16:43:59 · 9 answers · asked by syrag 1

2006-12-26 16:35:35 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1

ok, ill name things

1.My bf keeps on ignoring me and i dont think that he loves me anymore
2.I dont think that anyone likes me
3.I wish that i had someone to talk to
4.i have no one to spend the holidays with
5.I have been depressed for a really long time and i dont even know why,seems like anything i do i cant get over it.

i want to know why im so depressed and sad all the time...this is a serious case because one of you might even here it on the news that a 13yr old girl has just shot herself with a 22'

please dont say that im too young for love because it is really pissing me off....i just want someone to love me too

and no jokes because im not in the mood and it will just make it worse..
thanks...........

2006-12-26 16:33:19 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa 2

My dad and my brother use to beat me. Men have tried to rape me. Every guy I've ever dated cheated on me or made me the "girl on the side" or second to first girlfriend. I've tried to date a wide range of guys with different personalities and professions, but they all treat me like sh*t in the end.
Today, I had to call the police to get a restraining order on a guy I barely even knew who has been stalking and sexually harrassing me for months.
I don't think I've deserved any of this, because I've done nothing wrong. I've come to the point where I can barely even look at a guy or even start any sort of relatioinship with. What do I do? I don't want to end up alone.

2006-12-26 16:30:53 · 14 answers · asked by Tulip 3

Because things don't usually happen the way you wanted to be.And sometimes you feel desperate in some situations that you didn't though of.

2006-12-26 16:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by djoune 1

Am Alpha conserv. (?rigid) male. Oldest son - ditto so little time w/ 2 presch. 2nd son Alpha lib. w/ earlier vs. on sexuality Daughter adores uncle, ignores me (no tatoos?), youngest son in culture so foreign can only e=mail. Suggestions for improving relationships?

2006-12-26 16:29:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf seems to not have a sex drive a all. When we finally do have sex, it's amazing. I only wish we had it more often. Once or twice a day is what I would consider normal. I have asked him, and he tells me that he'll make it up to me when he's not so stressed out....but this is ridiculous and it's driving me crazy. I feel like I have tried everything - the weird part, is that he loves watching porn, which I do too, but even with that, he doesn't even touch me. Is there something I can do or suggest that he does? I hate to say this, cause I do love him, but if those needs are not being met with him, should I be trying to find them somewhere else?

2006-12-26 16:27:52 · 10 answers · asked by gabster 3

2006-12-26 16:24:58 · 33 answers · asked by vicky b 1

I've been w/ my bf since I was 16, I'm 21 now and I love him to death, but sometimes I find myself thinking about other guys or actually cheating on him. The 2nd year of our relationship he did cheat on me, it was a one night thing and I forgave him. I'm not saying that gives me grounds or anything, but I'm just really freaking out. Is what I'm thinking really bad or is it normal. He's out of town working during the weekdays, I'm usually home by myself and when he's off he's usually with his friends while I'm still stuck at our house waiting for him. We share a house w/ his sister and her family so I feel even weirder when I start thinking like this. I know he loves me, he takes care of me, pays most of our bills and my tuition, he tries to be home when he can. What's wrong w/ me?!

2006-12-26 16:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle 1

My sister has always had a perception of our parents being very strict and traditional, even though I think they are very open to and supportive of what we do and want. She is dating someone now, and thinks that she is some martyr-rebel since she believes my parents would disapprove of dating someone from a different background. I know that they do not object to this, but rather to the rude attitude she has to them (not telling them where she is going, when she is coming home, out right lying to them, extreme sense of entitlement to things that they are paying for (like a second cell phone so that she can talk to her friends (ie her boyfriend) for free, and constant and condescending yelling). To me, it seems like my sister is acting out some delayed-rebel phase, but this is really hurting my parents, and they don't know how to handle her since she is an adult now (even though completely financially dependent on them). Any suggestions for me on how to cope with/change this situation?

2006-12-26 16:19:38 · 7 answers · asked by annoyed sister 1

2006-12-26 16:08:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The two best friends parted ways without saying anything if they love each other more than a friend. They belong to two different culture. The girl got married, but the guy remained unmarried. Then, the guy after a decade communicated to the girl. The girl got separated from the previous marriage partner.

2006-12-26 16:04:14 · 17 answers · asked by Code Tiger 2

I'm talking a little over 25k. My husband and I have good credit 630's (not great, not poor-we manage). He makes 28k a year, I make 18k. We have no housing payments as we live with my parents (planning to move to rent/purchase a home in August). We have about 25k in debt (not including our vehicles) that we are looking to consolidate. Right now, we are making minimum payments on our credit cards and I feel like we will never ever be rid of them...I'm hoping that maybe someone will give us a loan around 11 percent for 12 - 24 mos. (obviously longer is okay too)...we will be able to pay more than the minimums, but we just want to be rid of it quickly. If they won't accept our credit, I will swear on my life that they will get every penny of it back -on time, monthly.
We are Christian, and a very young couple--if that helps!

Thanks so much for reading and trying to help!

2006-12-26 15:57:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm planning to "chuck it all" and start somewhere else in the US, probably in several different places over the next few years (I'll visit from time to time, though) . I don't plan to take up permanent residence in any of these places or have just one job during this time (I'll take day labor and temp jobs as needed to get by), but I prefer to have a ready-made cover story to tell friends and relatives (who, being stable sorts, tend to pooh-pooh this sort of "throwing caution to the wind" activity). I don't want to tell them anything as trite as "secret agent," though; it has to be something believable that no one has any reason to object to. I don't have a trade per se (like a medical degree), so something like "volunteering at a travelling clinic for the poor" is out, too. It has to be pretty generic. Thanks.

2006-12-26 15:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by someyoungguy123 1

im just curious. just know someone who cheated on their partner but he lies to her about it and she believes him and not the girl. Is that really love?

2006-12-26 15:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by sarah s 2

I'm thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. I am fifteen and he is sixteen. We have been together for a year and three months. I want to know from virgins or non-virgins what your opinions are. Like what should I consider before losing it. He isn't pressuring me and never has. If we do we will be using protection. I just need some opinions and comments from people about how they felt after they lost it. Its not like I come from a broken home and am doing this for attention. If you are going to answer by just saying "You are too young don't do it" with no reasioning behind it then don't answer at all unless you give me a reason why.

2006-12-26 15:11:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy i like said he wanted to come to my house for one week of winter break. I thought it was a sweet gesture. I bought his return ticket before the coming ticket because it was only 60 bux. I did not want to miss that deal. plus i was waiting for my parents to say yes. if they said no it was only 60.

i figured a coming ticket would be 100 bux. Mind u i was gonna pay cuz hes on a money shortage. So i thought id be losing 160 only. i dint mind. cuz my monthy allowance is 480. well my parents took a long time. in that time the tickets went way up!

now they are in 300 range. im gonna use credit and i asked him to help me pay. he said he would. i orignally told him 120. but i want him to pay more now cuz hes not even my boyfriend. should i pay this much for someone whos not even my man?

2006-12-26 15:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Tian 3