My boyfriend and I got in this huge argument on whether I would save him or my children ( we share one child, my other children are from a previous marriage) ,if I were put in that sort of situation (God Forbid!!). I told him that there wasn't even a choice and I would save my children before anyone!! He was totally ticked off... he told me he would chose me. Seriously though.. if he were to choose me over my children, I would be ticked!! I would want my children to experience life like I did... I want to know what you think... Thanks!!
2006-12-26 16:53:16 · 13 answers · asked by ~*JustSomeGirl*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget him and come to me in Indiana. You are hot!
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2006-12-26 16:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by always_up2001 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Your are in the right path, It is the true nature of all humans to save their child before anybody else. No question about that. Keeping looking after our kids is a gift from the MERCIFUL GOD.
Greetings to your spirit.
2006-12-26 17:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it ever came to it i would choose my children,but i hope never to be in a situation that warranted that kind of thought.i would expect my partner to choose the children also,kids deserve a good shot at life and when it comes down to stark cold reality my kids always come first,always
2006-12-27 05:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by delboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry its a question that just about every couple fight about. Of cause you have to save your kids, both of you have lived your lives. Just tell him that you love him but no matter how much you love him you gave birth to your kids and thats just something he'll always be second too.
2006-12-26 18:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you 100%!!! I would definitely save my children first! Men just don't understand the bond between mother & child. they haven't the first clue,about unconditional love,the kind of love you have for your child(ren)!!!
2006-12-26 17:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by baby_gail68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're totally right. no man will ever be as important as my child and if he were to save me and let my child die i would be devastated. i would feel like he was responsible for the child's death and i would probably never want to see him again. i don't know why so many men seem to have so much trouble grasping that concept, but i think it's fairly common for them to feel as your bf does. i don't get it. maybe it's a man thing.
2006-12-26 17:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have had this discussion and its the kids, hands down. Without a seconds hesitation they should come before everyone!
2006-12-26 17:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, I'd save my children 1st.
Our children are part of us, they have our blood running thru their veins.
You can replace a husband or wife, but you can not replace your children.
2006-12-26 17:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by iwish40 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE SO RIGHT THERE NO CHOICE IN THE MATTER
MY CHILDREN WILL COME BEFORE ANY MAN. MEN COME
AND GO. CHILDREN DO NOT.
2006-12-26 17:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAN ! What a man !!!! There would be no 0 zilch question, my kids 1st !!!!!! Period !!!! Is he jealous of your kids that aren't his?? Because------ I had a man that constantly said, I came 1st in his life, above and beyond his sister parents ect...... He wanted me to say, yes hunny, you come 1st, before my kids , parents ect....... I never would, so he left, and I gladly let him go !
2006-12-26 19:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completly agree. I would save my babies, I dont care who is there. NO one comes before my daughter. NO ONE
2006-12-26 16:59:27 · answer #11 · answered by CherryRed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋