Other - Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

a few days before Christmas i was using my fiancees computer and i found and was searching for one of my files and i found around 37 porn videos. That have recently been used, i dont mind that much but we havent had sex for almost 2 weeks. My fiancee has also been biteing my head/snapping at me more and more lately. It just does not seem right are these things connected, i dont know why this is?

I have never been a huge fan of porn but i dont mind but the website he got it off he didnt leave on his history, which i would prefer as it seems more honest to me then.

Does anyone know why these things are happening?????? He has been working over Christmas except bank holidays, which has not been easy. Please can someone help me understand why these things have happened?????? we have also been engaged for 10 months now.....

2006-12-26 23:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wrote yesterday about my husband changing a lot since we got married 3 months ago. More controlling, telling me 2 shut the f*c* up and calling me names quite often, also nothing is ever his fault and if I bring something up, he says I'm trying 2 start an argument. Last night we were watching a movie on 2 seperate couches (always snuggled during a movie b4 we got married), I asked him 2 come lay on the couch with me and he sayed he might get 2 comfy and fall asleep. Then, when it came time 2 go 2 bed he was extremely awake & ready for sex. I said no, I was too tired ( just hurt from him not snuggling w/ me). I told him he doesn't spend time with me like he did b4 we got married. I told him that I come home from work and try 2 talk 2 him but, he just watches T.V. or plays PS2, he said that I start talking 2 him while he is trying 2 watch something. I told him that I don't care about T.V. I've missed him all day and would like 2 talk 2 him. He said that I can talk to him on commercials.

2006-12-26 23:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1

I have a residency order and prohibited steps order awarded to me in place for my 2 children and need to know if this would stop me from moving abroad to start a new life. I live in the UK and want to move to the USA.

2006-12-26 23:50:28 · 2 answers · asked by Nichola R 1

2006-12-26 23:10:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

...even if you say so? ...even if you find someone new?...tell me about you :)

2006-12-26 23:07:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wanting the best for my kid and this is not the answer for a happy life for him. I am not here to slight people with this lifestyle but I cannot accept this.

2006-12-26 23:06:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are in the relationship now for 2,5 years, I want to break-up with him saveral times because he is selfish and disrespect at me all the time, but he knows how to make up with me again, and i buy it. But then, I can not take it anymore, i want to leave him, but I dont know how....I always feel sorry for him, who gonna take care of him etc...help i dont know what to do, i want to move on with my life...better life i guess...

2006-12-26 22:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Blue 2

2006-12-26 22:17:53 · 29 answers · asked by xlottyxx 1

Everytime my african boy and I walk past a group of white men they stare and smirk. I don't understand because white guys aren't attracted to me anyway as I am petite size 6-8 with very feminine curves and big booty )which probably answers my question why africans approach me its a lil unusual a girl my size to have a stick out duck butt as it is fondly called by many), tanned olive coloured skin with very dark brown hair and brown eyes ... i notice white guys like their tall white girls but anyway when i walk with him they just stare. I heard that white guys are feeling threatened these days in many ways (including jealousy over a black mans "package") and that they feel black guys are taking most of the women and these white men can't compete... or is it racism that their laughing at my boy???

2006-12-26 21:56:50 · 19 answers · asked by Miss A 1

2006-12-26 21:56:08 · 13 answers · asked by Ratt 2

I went christmas shopping and now everyone opened there gifts and christmas is over, but I didnt realize a check had been deposited in my account but that money was supposed to be given to my cousin from a favor that she did and I spent it on my christmas shopping and I seen it in my account summary today, I didnt realize it had even came through, and now my cousin is calling me harrasing me with mean voicemails because she thinks im trying to keep it and that never was my intention, im scared to tell her what should i do?

2006-12-26 21:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by abella_03 1

Well sometimes he is so crazy and just melt with his hipnotic, intense and seducing gaze but at other times he is so cold that he forget even to reply the sms, but he never denied his love with HIS pisces. how to understand this complicated species ( sometimes I doubt if he belong to homosapience, bcoz he's such a sweet angel, IS HE ???)

2006-12-26 21:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Teenagers, we were best friends. Young adults, we were soul mates… until I decided to travel around the world and leave him behind. We both got married and had kids – separately. Briefly exchanged calls and e-mails during the past 10 years – but in mid-2007, we are invited to a "get together party" from our old school. I love him (as in truly care for him) and missed him so much, but after 10 years, we are more like strangers. If you were him, how would you react?

2006-12-26 21:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by Voy P 1

This is a question i have been dying to ask why do black guys go for white girls and do they see them as serious relationships because almost every black male friend i have wouldn't commit to a white girl. And why is it that they also like mixed girls, im half malaysian half english but my culture is strongly malay and not the western culture of a white woman and i know that as soon as i step into a club or im out shopping these guys will turn and often approach and when i get into a relationship with them they get very serious...these have been questions i been wanting to ask for sooo long ...

Look forward to your feedback
Thanks All!!

2006-12-26 21:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by Miss A 1

I am told by many people including my so's family that I should just accept his demands and accept a subservient position because my so (signif other) goes to work to "support me and my child" lately.

The thing is that I run a small buisness and am well off financially.
I pay fr my half of exspences and 90% of my child exspenses plus have money left over for him to borrow. I am getting sick of people telling me he is working for me and my child.

He has even discounted my money because he says its not areal job. ( I make and sell jewelry). How do i tell or ask these people to stop telling me that he works for me and my child. I have a job i just work from home. I am really getting sick of the you dont really work attitude. ( I am never broke , i always have money pay more than my half of expenses).

2006-12-26 21:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently learned my Grandfather was not my biological Grandfather. I learned my Mother's Father was married and died 3 years after she was born from lung damage due to a fire aboard ship in WW2. He never had any kids (or so were told) and his wife died shortly after he did. But he does have a brother an elderly man living in Maine. I would like to contact him and learn more about my Grandfather and our family history.

My Grandmother doesn't want this. She wants to continue keeping it a secret but at the same time refuses to give us more information about him. She said her brothers would be upset if this came to light because one of them still lives in the small rural town. I think after this many years it's time to let the secret go. It's not like we are still living in that era.

I want to contact him before it's too late and we don't have a chance to speak to him. What would you do?

2006-12-26 20:47:10 · 10 answers · asked by Proud to be APBT 5

2006-12-26 20:24:22 · 3 answers · asked by pinky 1

i know this guy whos my friend... at start he was the one who noticed me and he introduced me to all his guy friends... but after a while we fought a lot and i started hating him... we fight everyday...but nowaday he s avoiding me.. only if i talk to him he talks to me and that too only for a while.. i dont know why but ever since he avoided me.. i feel in love with him and i hate the fact that he s not talking to me... is there any chance that he will have the same feelings as i do?

2006-12-26 20:10:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does size matter?

2006-12-26 20:02:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 19:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with this guy off and on since August.... Over the way I disipline my kids, he left.... ( meaning* I didn't beat the snot out of them when he thought they needed a spanking )..... He said sorry he was out of line, and we got back together...... He lives 45m away from me, and the drive for me is hard with kids....... He asked me to come on a week day (night), and I couldn't make it, so he texted me and said, dont try to cover up-- things happen-- I know its hard to keep up with all the men.... I dont cheat** So, we havent talked now for a week or so...... My grandpa just died at 11:30p (12/26)..... I texted him and was crying and said... MY GPA JUST DIED !!!! 10m AGO !!!! He texted back and said Im so sorry ! Thats it !!! Its 3:45a and he still hasn't called me ! Am I just being emotional because my grandpa just died, or am I right in thinking he should've at least called......???? He is mad at me, but still !!!! If Im just being emotional tell me ! Please !

2006-12-26 19:47:55 · 18 answers · asked by Missy 4

Does it lessen the quality somehow? Does it make sex or love any worse? I really don't understand why it matters at all, but obviously, there are a lot of people out there who do seem to know, as they follow this practice. Please explain!

2006-12-26 19:41:37 · 9 answers · asked by Nyara 4

2006-12-26 19:30:55 · 2 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2

He's Protestant and I'm Roman Catholic.
He told me we were too different and that it was impossible to be together.
A week before Christmas, he finally told me the "real" reason why we could never be -- he said I was a temptation, and that in his religion you should avoid temptations.

2006-12-26 19:11:08 · 14 answers · asked by mmmfilipino 2

A woman in distress,from all walks of life,with dependents on her.The man loving her isnt sure of marrying her,but has confirmed he would in coming months ,a little too late for the dramatic sequences happening in her life.He is away from her in another country.Another person comes in her life as a samaritan to save her from being wrongly defamed,and to regain her selfrespect and secure future.He confesses his love and respect for her,she is already burdened with his goodness and being a great support and cant say no to him,despite knowing he as a married man with a kid.However,she is transparent both ways to admit she is falllen for the married man to the man loving her.Her lover is cruelly hurt by her supposed disloyalty towards him,but still wants to marry her.She too doesnt want to ruin the helping mans family life,but cant openly end the ties with him.At the same time she is feeling guilty of hurting the man loving her.

2006-12-26 18:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by aquarian 4

Maybe answering this question of course, but what do you WISH you we're doing. Were im at it's almost 3am. I can't sleep and im bored. So What do YOU wish you were doing?

2006-12-26 18:55:37 · 16 answers · asked by Candy_T 2

ok i like this guy and he told me he liked me back and were a perfect couple but our religion is different and i dont know what to do his mom told him to never talk to me but hes willing to get in trouble for me what do i do?

2006-12-26 18:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by love g 1

I was told by a male friend that men who have been sexually promiscuous in the past will be less likely to cheat in the future, because they experienced what they wanted sexually and now can settle down. Is this true? Is there more to it?

2006-12-26 18:22:02 · 20 answers · asked by Kritikopoula 1

he's told me that he is comming out here in april 2 see me but im not shore if he's just playing or if he's 100% telling the truth

2006-12-26 18:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-26 17:53:08 · 1 answers · asked by kurt cobains gun 1