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2006-12-26 23:07:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is easier said than done, one will never forget someone you truly loved.My love and I broke up after some small issue, he moved on and got married and I did the same, you know what we say here" if its not him it is somebody else", both our marriages lasted eight years, and let me remind you my love was working out of our country, so he happened to come home one holidays, and we met, for the first time in eight years, we greated, talked about ourselves, but not marriage. After some few days we met again and he dared ask me about my husband, I told him we are divorced, he narrated his marriage life story to me and it was like we were meant for each other, we started dating, but I was afraid that he could do what he had earlier done and this time I was more cautious. Since he was on vacation, after three months he had to go back and we were communicating. Another three months he called me and asked if I could be his wife, How could I not after eight years of his memories, believe me we are now husband and wife though he is still abroad and am working in my country, we are married for twelve good years now,
2006-12-27 00:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you ever truly forget those you love, whether it be boyfriend or friends or family ... your heart is filled with the memories of those who truly touch your life. The feelings change from say butterflies to just memories of what it was like, but you always hold a place for these people. Everyone seems to remember their "first love". The thoughts probably are less often but they'll exist.
2006-12-26 23:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chele 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can forget someone you love. Over time it just happens. You move on in life with new people, you get busy with new things and thoughts of new people and events. There's no way you can fixate on one person you're never with all of the time. If you do, then you have OCD and need prozac. Edit: P.S. , sorry you didn't like my answer. Lol. It seems some people romanticize their pasts and pretend it was better than it actually was. I don't. I remember how the people really were so that I can move forward. I suggest everyone try it sometime. If it was such a true love you would still be together.
2006-12-26 23:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I do no think that you can forget someone you truly love. Here I am in my almost 3 year of marriage in Feb and I still think about the guy who I truly love, and I keep telling myself and everyone that I do not love him anymore, but my heart says I do, he is married now also for almost 3 years in May. But he broke my heart, he dropped me like a rock! But I still love him and dont know why. (SIGH) But I do love my husband dont get me wrong I would have not married him if I did not love him, but this other guy who I no longer talk to, just his kids every now and then is sometimes always on my mind. And it is a different love I have for him. He and I was engaged to get married, but like I said he dropped me like a rock. Such is Life I suppose! Good Luck Girl!
2006-12-26 23:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle_204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about forget, but very rarely think about is possible. I found someone a while later and I found that i was glad that things went south in my last relationship then i wouldnt have been able to marry the great woman that i got now. Breakup always hurts but it is dulled by time and sometimes a new love interest.
2006-12-26 23:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by narblaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to forget about someone that you have truly Loved. Believe me I lost the Love of my life 13 years ago & to this day I still think of him, I still miss him, & I still Love him just like I did the 1st day I lost him. I thought I would NEVER love again or be loved like I was loved by him... I NEVER have .& I know I NEVER will be again. I'm sorry for what you are going thru now, Nobody can forget about someone who they have truly Loved & it's really to bad because LOVE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO HURT!!!!!! But it sure can hurt like hell!!
2006-12-26 23:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you never forget. But you do have to move on. I moved on with my life, But I know I will always love my ex wife. Even though I love my wife that I am married too right now. But I know that I will be with my wife of seven years for the rest of my life. Because she is my best friend, And lover. And we have two beautiful daughters. So you see sweetheart you can too.
2006-12-26 23:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Corrina, i have an extreme heartache when i'm writting this..
As the one i truly love, is also the one who hurt me most., felt my heart tearing apart every now & then...i think time will heal wound, but to me, its a memory with me forever, i will not forget, but can't forgive too.. as the scar will always be there.
2006-12-26 23:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. If you truly loved someone they remain in your mind and soul forever. I have been divorced from my soulmate for 9 years and even remarried(but I didn't love #2) and still think of my ex.
2006-12-26 23:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cant forget someone you truely love because you will always be reminded some way or another. It sucks alot but you will learn how to deal with it and you will cherish the memories and grow frm that.
you will feel alittle sad but in time when you learn more about your feeling, you will realize its just a faze and think back and smile.
2006-12-26 23:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by nay_nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋