Everytime my african boy and I walk past a group of white men they stare and smirk. I don't understand because white guys aren't attracted to me anyway as I am petite size 6-8 with very feminine curves and big booty )which probably answers my question why africans approach me its a lil unusual a girl my size to have a stick out duck butt as it is fondly called by many), tanned olive coloured skin with very dark brown hair and brown eyes ... i notice white guys like their tall white girls but anyway when i walk with him they just stare. I heard that white guys are feeling threatened these days in many ways (including jealousy over a black mans "package") and that they feel black guys are taking most of the women and these white men can't compete... or is it racism that their laughing at my boy???
2006-12-26 21:56:50 · 19 answers · asked by Miss A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
one word: ignorance.
2006-12-26 21:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Smiddy 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Never say "boy" when talking about your male friend.
White men seemed to be into tall and thin women.
Too boyish looking. Then they learned some about
having a booty not being a bad thing. The young
males, that is.
2006-12-26 22:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by elliebear 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
♥ they're just ignorant & ur probably right: they're most likely jealous. if they're racist, let them be stupid becuz we're all the same. if the only thing that's different is our skin tone, then what's the big deal? i'm not an african american, but i don't have n/e problem AT ALL with them. o.0...so they have different coloring then me? so what? some people get all crazy over one little thing. ignore them. they probably just want u & know that they'll never have u & that ur bf has u so they're jealous. guys r like that sometimes...lol...trust me. i've been with some that r like that. ♥
2006-12-27 13:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you really not know why? I'm sure some white guys are attracted to you. Immature people do that there's nothing you can do about it. They either like you and are a little jealous of your boyfriend, or they just have nothing better to do. Either way don't wouldn't spend all your time worrying about it as long as you and your boyfriend are happy together.
2006-12-26 22:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They're probably thinking what a gorgeous girl you are, and what a lucky guy he is. You know, it's not just African guys who find 'very feminine curves and a big booty' attractive.
2006-12-26 22:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i myself experience like your buddy! I stay in north Italy the place i replaced into born, my mothers and fathers are from Africa (Camerun) so I actually have a incredibly-dark complexion, as Nutella, and that i myself experience guy do no longer date me with the aid of fact of that. i'm candy, clever, sensible and additionally exceptionally (I gained a attractiveness opposition) yet in information i've got in no way had a boyfriend, as my whites friends who substitute very usually adult men... C'est la vie...
2016-10-06 01:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by fritch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far every one that has answered has bounced around and really not answered your question. I will answer you. It may not be pretty' it will be the truth. I don't mean to be mean but here it is. Most white men that i see and know laff and snicker at a white girl with a black man because they know that with most black men it is the drugs. Also they see a white girl with a black man they think there must be something wrong with the girl. She has low self esteem and thinks she can't get a white man so she settled for less. Don't get mad at me' you asked. Also there are a lot of white men out there that when they see a white girl with a black man they think that she is most likely dirty because they know that drugs are deep in the black neighbor hood. And 1 other thing. They also see it as another white girl gone. In other words they are a lot of good white men out there just looking for the right girl no matter size or shape. They figure another girl wasted. Again' don't be mad at me' You asked' I told the truth.
2006-12-26 22:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Jeaslousy and ignorance..remember that there is always a bit of an envy when people from different races date...you know the curiosity "what must it be like to be with an african or something"..ignore them!!!
2006-12-26 22:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by nirvana 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have said it before... and I'll say it again!
"inter racial dating is not for the faint hearted"
You've got to learn to ignore those "smirks" and enjoy your life. Live in the moment. Just don't let it bother you. I don't know where you live at, but in Canada... Interracial dating is so not a biggie!
Good luck.
2006-12-27 01:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by venom! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, thank your stars, you got that body girl, because
"hoot hoot!"
[im female myself and i come accross a hell of a lot of problems]
I'm asian, and I have a white boy boyfriend, i get stared down a lot, smirked at a lot and it used to disturb me in the begining, but i've learned to not let it get to me, why should i be affected by some weirdo's perceptive racist need to express himself?I chose to enjoy the time i have with my boyfriend, and each time someone smirks- I smirk back.
It could be jealousy too...because you're attractive, anyone would be.Think of it as a gift..
Some of them may genuinely think you look like a good couple,
try not to judge them as they're judging you, and besides, focus on your boyfriend, and if it doesnt bother him, it shouldnt bother you, he's african, a big boy, and he can definately take care of himself!
Don't worry about what other people think, it's your life, your choice, be yourself, be strong and look foward.
GOOD LUCK
Rave
2006-12-26 22:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Jealousy and may be a bit of racism too. But, judging from the description of your physique, who wouldn't turn to look at that beauty!! Any man would. I would! So, tell the lucky sod that he is very very lucky! Being an African, myself, I know, not only what is beauty, but also how to appreciate it when I see it! Ignore them, baby!
2006-12-26 22:09:17 · answer #11 · answered by Ebby 6 · 4⤊ 3⤋