Other - Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

First of all i hate cigarettes they are so nasty.....whats even more nastier is when i kiss my gf only to find out she taste like an ash tray its so freaking gross blah yuck!!!! I have gotten her to quit before but then she started back up and i was like that makes no sense and then she quit again and then started sneaking them again behind my back its so freaking gross i just wanna take the whole pack and chuck it out the window when im with her!!! It really bothers me and i dont know what esle to do about it can someone give me ideas or what to do???? I have already just tried to sit down and talk to her, and i know its hard cuz her friends smoke and her mom buys them for her so what to do??

2006-12-18 09:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by chs200619 2

my babies' father (yes, they have 1 father) has had like 6 jobs in the last 4 months. i know this because i get a piece of paper every time he switches jobs to allow at 4-6 weeks to receive my child support. the sorry sob has 5 kids, ages 1 to 16. he is not going to hold a steady job so why won't they just go ahead and lock him up for nonpayment? he's over 3 grand behind on just my oldest son. i can imagine how far behind he is on his 16 year old.

p.s-- when i got with him, i only thought he had one child. by the time i found out about the others, i was already hooked.

2006-12-18 09:01:58 · 2 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3

I am about to leave for the Navy on Jan 13. I am graduating early (in three days) and mom is taking it hard. She asked me to finish my year out and just stay at home until the summer. She is getting very sad. What should I do, I care about her feelings very much.

2006-12-18 08:55:33 · 6 answers · asked by danvil11 2

Well.I went to sign up with a gym, and the trainer was kinda cute, I mean he was decent, and we talked for along time about health, and he made an appointment, and at the end of the conversation, he gave me his cell phone number in case I wanted to reschedule and told me that if I needed help with anything let him know....okay as an update, he called me liek a few days later, to remind me to come in, So I showed up, and we went through some exercises,and I told him that I couldn't really afford a trainer, and he's says he's going to give me sessions until I can, so then he asks me when can I come in and see him again, I said sometime the beggining of January, and he's like well, I'll give you free sessions, can you come in next week, and I was like okay, if it's free, and then he was like well you have me cell phone number..just in case..so do you think he was flirting or doing his job?Honestly

2006-12-18 08:50:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mum died in1999 but I just cant live without her , she smells a bit but I can live with that , I still like to go to sleep with her but recently people have started to comment on the smell , what shall I do .

2006-12-18 08:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are a proper loner like me how did you convince your parents you are content alone and don't want or need friends or a girlfriend or to get married one day? I have tried telling my parents I prefer my own company to most other peoples but they can't understand it. They believe I honestly want a girlfriend to settle with eventually and that i don't REALLY like being alone all the time. Nothing could be further from the truth if I had my own house I would not have anyone living with me and I am bored mostly by socialising and yeah a lot of people don't really interest me. I'm not arrogant either because I feel I am boring myself, I find I enjoy little and don't get excited much that even includes my own Birthday or Christmas. Can any of you guys relate this because I know there are more people out there that prefer being with there own more. I have honestly been a loner most of my life (I just turned 22) I don't get lonely (seriously) I could go without seeing people for years.

2006-12-18 08:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is there something even more usefull it could be used for?

2006-12-18 08:31:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you knew it was your last day to live what would you do?

2006-12-18 08:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Furture Inlaws have all means made my life and the life of my family a nightmare. They come to visit once every 3-4 months and stay for an hour at most. I am not really sure of the reason for this since they only live 30 minutes away and are by NO WAY unable to come visit. They have caused tons of problems regarding my Fiance's exwife and their two daughters. They have even thrown past girlfriends in our face. They Lie and talk bad abou the absent parents to the children and just LOVE to play games and start trouble. THis past weekend they INSISTED we attend the "family Christmas" knowing my fiance's ex wife and their girls would be there. This would have been a disaster if we attended due to a court order stating that at the moment my fiance is to have no contact with his exwife and his daughters. I am finished playing their games. My Fiance says that it isnt right to keep our son away from his parents. I dont understand this because they are not in our sons life BY CHOICE.

2006-12-18 08:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me your problems

2006-12-18 08:11:55 · 22 answers · asked by True101 4

Anything good to you

2006-12-18 08:10:06 · 27 answers · asked by True101 4

Before my Mom's stepfather died, he all but told her he was setting something up for her kids (My Brother and Sister and I) he asked for our SSN's and personal info, but he never gave her any details. After his death her mother and siblings became very hateful and she decided that the best thing for everyone would be to not associate with that side of our family anymore. She never asked about any inheritance for her, or for us, and though I respect ehr decision, I'm still curious. Is there a way for me to check into something like that without spending any money? Should I just leave well enough alone? I am open to your opinions.

2006-12-18 08:08:35 · 3 answers · asked by Greg B 4

I have been paying my gf's bills now for 3 months while out of work. I have my son for the holidays this week and I had to work saturday night on overtime. My mother was in the hospital for nothing major but I had noone to watch my son while I worked. I asked my gf and she told me she had other plans. I am pissed at my gf right now because I am working overtime everymonth to pay her rent,phone, power food etc... But she couldnt help me when I had nowhere else to turn. She thinks I am wrong since she already had plans made. What do you think?

2006-12-18 08:05:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I meet her and flirt, flirt more and she responds and changes her looks to dress prettier and all that.
Then some other jerk notices the same day and she gives him all her attention for the next week.

Then he loses interest and she turns back to me some more but now im turned off because of the behaviour.

Now she gets mad at me and acts crappy and ignores me because i dont respond.

LOL

I hope you get it, i cant figure out what makes her think she has the right to act MAD after her opportunistic behaviour.

2006-12-18 08:02:36 · 8 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2

I don't even know all the details...just that she is Persian like him, so why am I jumping to conclusions like this? Should I trust my own instinct? I'm afraid it has always proven to be right in the past.

2006-12-18 08:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by one2nikki 2

We moved from Baghdad to the Us 2 months ago and My husband family very abuse me but now only my husband abuse me
He said he would be nice to me after we got here to the
United States but is very mad because because we just found out I am pregnant with a girl not a boy and he thinks and that is why he thinks i cheated on him and i don't know what to do...... I never cheat before in my life how can i make him believe me?

2006-12-18 07:57:35 · 15 answers · asked by Mira 1

be able to get here from the parking lot where everyone else parks too? In today’s world it incorrect to teat them any different than anyone else in every other aspect of life. They have pushed for these laws and wanting to be treated equal. Well, why do they get these special parking places? I could see having parking spaces up front for older people. They have lived long enough to earn a little consideration. Anyone else feel this way?

2006-12-18 07:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 5

you know when you find that person who shows you what its like to love?...well i found him i know im young but i really did think he was the "one" we were going on strong for a year he always told me how he wanted to be with me forever and then one day he told me he didnt love me anymore that he wanted to be "free", "its not you its me" etc i begged him not to leave me told him we could work it out but no..i mean i know he cares he cried the whole time..said what a horrable person he was..i dont if he was lrying or not.

its been 4 months now and im still not over him..i just cant no matter what i do..i tried to hate him but that didnt work...everyday he is all thats in my head i cant even concentrate on school work..
im even losing friends over this..because i "cant get over him" and its bugging them.

and now he is with one of my best friends and seeing them together kills me..i really need to forget him..PLEASE help me please =[

2006-12-18 07:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is outdoorsy and has everything he could ever want. any ideas?

2006-12-18 07:46:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

records of employers dates ETC. How can I obtain a detailed work history and if I cant what do I do when creating a resume' or filling out applications

2006-12-18 07:45:34 · 10 answers · asked by tarnak70 1

i have something i want to give to my boyfriend and it's really little. but i don't have a tiny box to put it in . i don't even know if they make them that small. what could i use? could i make a box of my own? how? I don't want to put it in just like.. a bag or something

2006-12-18 07:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by mindi 4

Okay, I am so in love with my hubby-and I LOVE "love" stories- so tell me about that moment! Tell me exactly when you fell in love with your other half. Sometimes, it is good to remember!

2006-12-18 07:31:01 · 3 answers · asked by big mommasweeta 3

I have been with my BF for 3 years now and we have done everything together and i kinda feel like i have lost myself.well the problem is that when we get upset with each other i cave in and he doesn't he could care less and before i wasn't like that ....how do i get my strength back. i mean he was the one calling me and now i'm calling him .... what do i do ??

2006-12-18 07:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by Princess84 1

I have found several suspicious substances and pieces of paraphanalia in my house that suggest my fiance may be using something stronger than pot. What symptoms would someone exhibit if they were using crack or Ecstacy?


Okay, let me elaborate. I know that he sometimes sells stuff. I don't like it, but, hell, what can I REALLY do about it? Anyway...The other day, when I emptied the bathroom trash, I found a spoon that was blackened on the underside w/ residue on the front side, as well as several pennies that had a hardened residue around the edges. This of course screams CRACK, right? I suspect that he may be using E because of some pills that I saw him with, but don't know what E really looks like. The closest I could find to compare it to on the web was a pill that looks like Klonapin (sp?) I'm just asking what the symptoms of somebody using either or both of these drugs may be.

2006-12-18 07:11:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ask this question..not because I dunno what to get.. but, I want the perfect gift...not something that she woul like 2-3 days..somethig that she will like and keep forever :)

2006-12-18 07:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by speed_uhh 1

Well I said something that my gf took the wrong way and now she is ok, but I still need to prove how much I'm sorry, any ideas on what I can do/get/say/make/anything?

2006-12-18 07:06:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

they say you werent nothin but p*ssy and a paycheck to them

2006-12-18 07:02:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and fed up with life. My wfe gives me strife about her family everyday in India...I should look for husbands for them, sponsor them to Canada...I don't care about her feelings..I will smile, but I am sad and dead in inside. what to do????

2006-12-18 06:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anil P 2

this guy has been in contact with me for over a year. even when i was in my past serious relationship.

we have only kissed eachother.

he always texts me when hes out in town and i do the same. nothing is planned. if we are not out we always say so.

i was out in town this weekend and i text him to see if he was out. he didnt reply. this has happened before.

once we have met up, i dont hear from him for a while and he ignores my texts. i then dont text him anymore and he comes back texting me again as normal.

what does this mean???

i really like this guy.

he is 29 and single.

i have heard that he has never had a girlfriend before and that he likes the chase.

when we are together he always wants to be with me and he always pays me compliments.

he does know that i came out of a serious 6 year relationship with my fiance 9 months ago.

2006-12-18 06:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1

My ex broke up with me after 7 years together, when i was going through a hard time, possible redundancy at work and my nan had just had a stroke.He told me that he didn't love me and that he wanted to stay friends, then he started to blame me for the break up, that i didn't do enough for him and that he didn't want this anymore (all said nastily), and even though he was still attracted to me he saw me like a sister. Yet we are due to go on holiday abroad with my family and he still wanted to go!. I can't stay friends, as it hurts. Am i right in telling him not to come on holiday, even though he will lose money??

2006-12-18 06:22:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous