Other - Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

ones special needs? I am in my mid 30’s. Worked very hard and done well for myself and my family. I am tired of taking care of everyone who happens to have some special needs. I know that some are born this way, some do it to themselves by doing stupid things, some are just lazy, and some just fake it. I see the negative effects of this philosophy in my children’s schools, my work place, stores, and many other places. I am sorry but why should their problems affect my life so much. Why should my child get less one on one attention from the teacher because we are mainstreaming mentally handicapped children who take up 3 times as much time as a normal kid? They are now trying to change our paper money so the blind have trouble using it. Why cant they use debit cards or coins. 10% of poplulation is gay so they want everything changed to make them happy. Ladies want to be able to breast feed thier kids at work. Where does it end.

2006-12-18 13:57:55 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 5

I have cried pleaded and screamed about keeping the house dirt and dust free but I can't get the point across without being mean. I need to find a new approach before he desides to leave me...Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-18 13:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. I am an 8th grader in high school. A person offered me a ciggerette, and i was stupid enough to take it. i only had one. it has ben 2 weeks since that happend. But i am feeling guilty not telling my parents. im afraid what their going to think. they wont like ground me. but im afraid what their going to think about me. how should i tell them? PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-18 13:53:35 · 10 answers · asked by jOe RuLeS!!! 2

2006-12-18 13:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by sean d 1

It has come to my attention that I never hear about single dad's..Why is that? Why do we only always hear about struggling mother's and all they do. How wonderful they are? But never the single fathers? Or the men in general who take care of their families. Does the male population have little respect? Are we hated that much? Someone?

2006-12-18 13:42:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 3 kids raging from 11 years old to 8 years old 2 girls and 1 boy the boy has his own room and the 2 girls share a room i have a problem every night getting them to go to bed when i tell them i have tryed everything grounding them timeouts ect...but nothing seems to work.for example last night i put them to bed at 8pm because they all go to school and they wouldnt shut up and go to sleep till about 1am this morning and this is after me and my husband both went in there numerious times.it is causing me and my husband to have numuios fights and stress can someone help please...

2006-12-18 13:36:13 · 12 answers · asked by karin c 1

why can't people tell the truth?
My family was told that they would be adopted for christmas just to be told 2 days later that the christmas angel picked another family who doesn't have as many children.
It's not right.

2006-12-18 13:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by rositha520 2

Where do i get one? i heard it can come out of me. is this true? what do i do?

2006-12-18 13:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, im not trying to brag but im a very "intelligent" high school senior, and all of my best friends are the same way .. kinda the "smart kid" group. anyway, all my friends applied to ivy league colleges, and i applied to the colleges one step below the ivys. however, while all of my friends are getting into these IVY LEAGUE schools, i got deferred (wait-listed) for one of my non-ivy colleges.

being deferred, especially to anything other than an ivy, suggests to my group of friends that i'm not on their level of intelligence, even tho it was only one school that deferred me. im afraid of them thinking that i'm not as smart bc of this.

so do i lie and say i got in? bc there is no way they can verify if i got accepted or deferred..

or do i just tell them i got deferred? if i do this, how can i put it so i dont sound like im stupid?

2006-12-18 13:33:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am working in a company where all the important duties and responsibilities on me but as I have expressed to my boss that after 6 month I want to resign and I was allowed also now after 6 month my boss is forcing me to continue till the end of 2007 which I am not completely agreed.

Also I feel that there is lack of trust in between us and that is what making me thinks more and more. I cannot tell him that I am going just like that and he will not accept if I say that I will leave after one month so what the best is at present.

He is old man but I had lots of trust on him but he let me down very badly on many things and always keep quiet. But he tells me directly what he feels on my face, he told me that I am letting him down, this and that. In relation he is my uncle to but that’s not the issue here.

Please tell me how I should do now, should I leave when the time is to leave without telling him or I should talk to him again. but I have talked to him many times and every time I talk about leaving him, it turns to a big misunderstanding between us.

2006-12-18 13:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Zenon 2

Even since when I was young, I feel like alot of people especially boys seems to ignore me--yeah, you have the ones that do talk but not anything big. I'm not a bad person at all. I alot of people consider me as the quiet and smart girl, and so many people have considered me as a very nice person. I'm the type of person who seems to be quiet at first, but if you talk to me, i'll definitely start up a conversation with you. I'm definitely an innocent and good girl--I've never even kissed a guy. I'm actually a very funny person, and I love laughing. I enjoy lots of sports and could careless about makeup because I like my natural look. I'm actually pretty short (5'1") though I wish I was taller, and alot of people say I have a good body. My hair is actually really dark brown. I love rock music, couldn't live without it. I just don't know why guys seem to overlook it and pay attention to the others. I'm a nice girl, and it just stinks when this always happens to me. Any advice? Thanks!

2006-12-18 13:28:05 · 10 answers · asked by Stefanie 1

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

2006-12-18 13:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by Linda C 1

there is this guy at my school and he likes another gal who is taken but i like him. what should i do. and another guy likes me but my friend likes him. what should i do.

2006-12-18 13:26:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A cpl of months ago I began school & met w/my financial advisor. We hit it off well from t/beginning, & after a few visits he began to call me & taking me out of class often. I like t/guy, but t/thing is I don't know what he wants from me exactly. I know he's divorced & has a daughter, or so he SAID. This one day after I left his office he took me downstairs and surprised me w/ a kiss before leaving. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it & has become a usual thing right after I leave his office (under t/stairs, don't exactly know why) NOW I'm confused & a bit upset. I feel as if he's using me, but he doesn't seem like t/type. One night (as silly as it sounds) I asked God to give me a sign & help me turn to t/right direction, & dreamt that he was getting married & I was invited, I sat in t/last pewter alone, w/a baby in my arms & crying my eyes off. It upset me a bit, but it just gave me t/impression that I need to distance myself from him, but it's hard!.. Any suggestions as on what to do?

2006-12-18 13:18:21 · 21 answers · asked by ☆Karma☆ 6

2006-12-18 13:17:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

And plus when you have friends who dislike this person too, it really sucks.

2006-12-18 13:14:51 · 4 answers · asked by susie cue 2

I loved this girl a ton but we broke up and it was a living hell to me for a while but i learn a lot. I have become a ver y strong person and it is really hard for stuff to bring me down. I only really have one weakness and its my ex whenever I am around her I feel like i am coming off weak so what can i do around her her to show her how strong i am. Not mean stuff but just things that kind of shove it in her face in a positive way beacuse it makes me feel good haha :)

2006-12-18 13:12:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 13:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by tripcrs 1

How do you deal when your child is in an interracial relationship?

2006-12-18 13:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of my mum's thinks I'm 24, when I'm actually 22. I'm will be 23 in a few months. I never said I was 24. Is it a bad thing not telling her my real
age. I want to look mature.

2006-12-18 12:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to get over it??!!?
So, I have known this boy since i was little { 6 or 7} and we were friends till i was 11. Then we started dating. We dated for almost a year and then I broke up with him. The reason I broke up with him is because i felt i deserved better. Im 15 now, so we have been friends for 2 years. He tells me he loves me all the time and i can't say it back. { i have in the past though} Well, 6 months ago he went to the juvinile center and I was the only one that wrote him and accepted his calls. He got out a month ago and ever since he has not been the same. He acts like he is too busy to call me or stop by for a few minutes. 2 weeks ago he came over for 2 days straight then didnt talk to him for 5 days. And thats how its been. I have no idea what i did wrong but im sick of this! How do i get over him and stop worrying about the little asshole? Please help and thanks.
Also, yesterday when i came home he was walking down the street and he did not say one word to me

2006-12-18 12:41:45 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4

i'm with this girl for already 1 yr and we had some prob like 4 mothes ago and we broke up.. then she start going out with a other guy and making out after 1 mothe she broke up with him to get back with me and and she say that she love me and that i'm the only guy that have make him the happiest girl on this world..
and to day she told me the guy asked her out.. and she ask him where and do guy say just go out (i know that the guy want to get back with her) and i say to her dont take me bad baby i dont want to hear that u wen out with him or that u went out with him with out tell me and she sad i can't tell her with who she can go out... bc she never do that with me but i never wen out with a other girl
and my prob is i dunno what to do and wat can i do to controle her

2006-12-18 12:40:04 · 14 answers · asked by Backnight 1

2006-12-18 12:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance lives in England and i live in the U.S. and we've met each other twice and stuff but to get to the point, sometimes we have phone sex and just like in the middle of my orgasm i start crying and i don't know why i think it might be because i cant really make love to him, or that I miss him but i really want some other suggestions if that's not it. It's happened 3 times once like 8 months ago or 7 even and like the second time was like 6 months ago, and the other was 2 days ago. Just give me some suggestions please.

2006-12-18 12:36:03 · 11 answers · asked by katie_4_aaron 1

I am a single mom with an eighteen year old that will not get up and go to school. She just won't get up in the morning, she does work part time but not much and doesn't do anything to help out around the house. She has started coming and going as she pleases. I have talked, argued, yelled some, threatened to make her move out, but she just is not facing reality. I lost my other child five years ago and it has been a struggle for a long time. Counseling is not a choice here as she will not go and if she doesn't go to school full time my insurance will cancel her.

Any ideas , I feel like I have failed as a mom. She is a good person, but like I said is just not facing reality here and now that she is eighteen I just don't know what to do.

2006-12-18 12:33:30 · 15 answers · asked by tootaloo sue 1

I deleted all my photos from flicker but the frames stay on my Yahoo360. How can I remove all 6 frames from my page?

2006-12-18 12:33:19 · 2 answers · asked by anne 3

We are married and we have a son.We were saying some really mean things to each other like divorce and he was saying its over and he was threatening to take my son and through all that I ended up kissing my ex.Im not making excuses but my ex was saying all this stuff and thats why I kissed him.My husband was in Hawaii jobless at the time while I was at my mom's home working.I dont know why I did it.My ex was trying so hard to win me back and I kissed him.He did want sex but I said No.I dont know why I said no to sex but ended up kissing.My man says he forgives me but I dont beleive him because he brought it up again recently.

2006-12-18 12:22:16 · 16 answers · asked by Kat 1

On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?

2006-12-18 12:20:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even though I am making presents for people and playing Christmas Carols at parties, I still feel that I am just eating and smoking (fortunately not drinking although I want to) during the holidays. Who are these people who put lights up and totally decorate their homes, not to mention cook and buy millions of presents for every single person in their life. I feel so inadequate and feel I am missing out on the joy of companionship and community over the holidays. Please connect with me. Thanks. alicia

2006-12-18 12:18:36 · 10 answers · asked by arpage2005 1

I had to visit the home of a colleague for work purposes. When I arrived he asked me to help him carry some files from his bedroom. He lives alone and his house is generally very tasteful. But he had a bed in the shape of a race car. He's 43. Is this normal?

2006-12-18 12:12:56 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous