Why do women think that loud, rude men are "sexy bad boys"?

Question

On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?

Answer 1

I always liked the nice guy and never the loud obnoxious ones.

Answer 2

I never have and never will see loud rude men as sexy bad boys. The sexy men are not loud and rude. There's plenty of good women who'll appreciate a healthy, well-adjusted and confident man. I'll even go further than that, because there's plenty of good women who'll love and appreciate what some people call a nerd. I call them a wonderful, well-adjusted, sexy guy. Well-adjusted, confident men knows not all women sees loud, rude men as sexy bad boys. Only the kind of women that you're around does.

Answer 3

Are we talking Andrew Dice-Clay or Colin Ferrell? Because I can guarantee there is a difference!!

I personally happen to really be attracted to the strong silent types....i.e. officers of the law. They come across very cool and confident and that is so hot.

I see the loud, obnoxious ones coming and walk the other way.

Answer 4

do we (women) all need to dye our hair blond, do we all need to lose 20 pounds because otherwise were not sexy and no guys will find us attractive? And now you're probably thinking "but im not like that". My point exactly. Not all women "fit" the description you just gave. Im gonna sound very after school special, but you just haven't found the right one.

Answer 5

we don't always think they are sexy-bad boys most of them are just plain a..holes

Answer 6

they don't!
sounds like you are hangin around the wrong women.