I don't even know all the details...just that she is Persian like him, so why am I jumping to conclusions like this? Should I trust my own instinct? I'm afraid it has always proven to be right in the past.
2006-12-18 08:00:57 · 9 answers · asked by one2nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He was showing an interest in me and wrote me the most beautiful poems and I really thught we had something but then all of a sudden he turned his answers to someone else.
2006-12-18 12:58:45 · update #1
Have you asked 'this man' about this woman? Are you his 'DIVA' ? Another woman's attention is nothing to be jealous of provided he LOVES you. It is like asking HIM not to feel JEALOUS when other men pay attention to you....
This type of SENTIMENT is natural and healthy if it stays in control or else miscommunications can destroy any and all you have worked for so long....
Do not ask strangers to solve your personal problems. They may be well intended, but mis-informed. Have your instincts always been right? If you are that psychic, then you know better....
Do you really love him? Does he know? Have you told him ?
With lots of love from far away land....
2006-12-18 21:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by legacybiographers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the priority is you and your reaction to him observing different women individuals and it reasons you sense decrease than.you could administration your reaction. Its a decision you're making. understand that this is shame based habit and has no longer something to do with him. whilst your feeling that way attempt to appreciate the unique of the shameful thoughts and the place they got here from. Take all your clothing off and stand in front of a finished length replicate and thank God for all his reward. supply your self effective affirmations at each danger. possibly get some team or inner maximum scientific care to construct up your self image. study self help books and hear tapes flow to seminars. tell that little baby interior you what you could tell any baby or guy or woman with your subject's
2016-12-11 11:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to trust. Not all beings are the same. You should confront and clear any doubts rather than imagine things. Instincts are a good measure if you are living together or at least in close proximity. Have you asked your lover if this is true....What if she is a relative ? What if this is all in your mind because of past experiences? To base currents events solely on the experiences of the past is not a healthy practice.
If you ask me, you should ask him ans see how he responds.
I wish you the best....just remember,,,,sometimes the mind plays tricks on us....we need to trust....
HAVE you professed your love to him (and him to you) ?
Keep us posted...thanks
2006-12-18 21:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common for a woman to get jealous over a man she loves, be honest and tell him how you feel, he probaly wont stop talking to her but at least then you would have brought the problem to his attention and he may be able to make sure not to have as much contact with her, he will be reasonable if he loves you.honesty is the best policy.
2006-12-18 08:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this a problem? Is it that you want this man, or that you are jealous that someone else is happier than you?
You need to focus on yourself. Don't go around interfering in other people's happiness just because it is better than yours. Improve your own lot in life.
2006-12-18 08:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would help if you could add more details. Like how are you & this male involved and what role does this other woman play? you need to narrow your question down because it's hard to give any advice as is...
2006-12-18 08:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it's natual, woman just like attention. Women like to be notice in front of a men they like.
2006-12-18 08:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know all the details either ..Like are you married ? in a relationship... etc... until then, I will have trouble answering your question.
Jealousy will really get you no where in life,so please put away those horns they really make you look ugly...
2006-12-18 08:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, trust your own instinct but dont let it over power you completley. good luck :)
2006-12-18 08:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋