I have been with my BF for 3 years now and we have done everything together and i kinda feel like i have lost myself.well the problem is that when we get upset with each other i cave in and he doesn't he could care less and before i wasn't like that ....how do i get my strength back. i mean he was the one calling me and now i'm calling him .... what do i do ??
2006-12-18 07:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by Princess84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The person less interested in maintaining the realtionship is going to control the realationship becuase they're less likely to comprimise.
2006-12-18 07:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard after 3 years. I am with my man now for almost 5 years and we have a 2 year old son together. Trust me, its hard. Sit down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel.
Honestly, if he doesn't take seriously what you have to say, and you have no important assets involved (joint car, bank account, children) leave and start over. If a man shows no interest in your well being or no caring about what it is that you need... run. It will only get worse..
Hopefully he listens and things change for the better.
Good luck to ya!
2006-12-18 07:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok..... First off... You already recognize the problem. You have to be STRONGER.... STOP CALLING HIM ALL TOGETHER... Not sure if you two live together or not, but this wont really work if you do. Stop telling him you love him, stop everything. In fact, start making plans with your friends for nights out with JUST them and no boys. You need to distance yourself and while its GOING TO SUCK... Do it and get it over with. Dont call him, or text him... NOTHING. Once he realizes that YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT HIM... He will start being more compassionate.
2006-12-18 07:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to take your power back is to not care as much or at least not show it like before. You have to stop calling. Once you stop he will start.
2006-12-18 07:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold back in the bedroom. Its work for thousands of years.
2006-12-18 07:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have sex with his best freind and then call him aand tell him
2006-12-18 07:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋