Other - Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

my girlfriend and i have had our disputes over the months but this is something that we had never experienced...she gets really angry at any of my jokes and she quickly talks about breaking up ...i tell her everytime that we have to much love to just breake up and she agrees and we cry beacause not even her knows whats wrong...she just told me that she really doesn't know she is at the age of 18 i heard that she can have some issues with her mind..i don't know please :((((((((((

2006-12-09 08:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i know one girl about 3 years ago we meet and we have one good relation shes spent last cristemas with me. so far so good. but for we marry i was unployee and need to find a job. i find one in were in england .. so i came from portugal alone and shes was with her parents in yeman. about one mouth her parent forbid her to talk to me ... take her mobil phone and internet and every thing. and shes do what her father tell her to do becouse shes arabic, shes 25 but she never will hurt her father that i am sure . but i think that he force her to maryy to another guy one of this days. i cant contac her, i am verry misery to think that he do it to her just becouse of me . so what should i do? go to yeman and take her with me? or what? whait until she can contact me? pls help me i cant stand like this. thanks

2006-12-09 08:11:25 · 4 answers · asked by Night_Wolf_PT 1

My kid has just broken his bunk bed. I thought I'd lay it on real thick, u know, hands on head job, WHAT HAVE U DONE !! u know, to wind him up a bit!
It's a slat, ok I can get another from homebase He He He He But HE doesn't know that !!!! Is it a bit mean?

2006-12-09 08:07:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

His father is dead, so, I never met him. The relationship with my ex was really bad. I didn't steal the pictures by the way. I just happen to have them because they got mixed with my stuff. I'm getting married in January to a wonderful man. I need to get rid of those photos but I don't know what to do with them. I know an address where I can return them but at the same time I want nothing to do with my ex. What should I do?

2006-12-09 08:04:55 · 34 answers · asked by Lady Di 3

this guy and I r all close and stuff, we're super good friends, and all my friends think that somthin more than just being friends is goin on his mind, but I can't tell. like, he asks lotsa Q's about my fam, and wants to meet them, calls me for no reason, somhow always ends up being my dance partner, etc. but I think that we r just friends, and that's what friends do, ya know? is that how u would do it if u like a girl, or what would u do to drop hints?

2006-12-09 08:03:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 08:00:32 · 4 answers · asked by MJ 6

I have never met my in-laws as they live in a different country. I would like to send them a simple gift for Christmas, but my husband is giving me a hard time about it by saying "Why? They're not going to send you anything". Despite that I would like to. Any suggestions?

2006-12-09 07:57:03 · 6 answers · asked by Akyaas 2

Should he tell his wife?

Like it will *never* happen again as he's normally allways a sensible drinker. It's just that the students were teasing him last night and telling him he had to stay longer, and he gave in a stayed [against his better judgement].

2006-12-09 07:44:26 · 3 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4

Should he tell his wife?

Like it will *never* happen again as he's normally allways a sensible drinker. It's just that the students were teasing him l;ast night and telling him he had to stay longer, and he gave in a stayed [against his better judgement].

2006-12-09 07:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4

I dont know what's happening to me but I cant stop feeling somewhat depressed lately.

I'm usually hanging out with friends a couple of nights during the week but now I dont feel like being around anyone so I'm at home a lot more but then I get so bored and I get frustrated because I dont know what I feel like doing anymore. I tried to keep myself busy by making cookies or something fun like that that I used to love but it's all just so boring for me now. And then today my mom went to give me a hug and I pulled away and just broke down crying telling her I didnt want to be around anybody anymore. She wanted me to go calm down a little and then talk to her about it but instead I went into our basement, left the lights off, and just lied down on the couch thinking for a couple of hours.
I have an appointment with a therapist on Monday but it doesnt feel like thats what I need right now...


And please no smart as-s answers. Im serious about this.

2006-12-09 07:40:22 · 2 answers · asked by addictedpf 1

My mom is 53 years old and doesnt work. She is into gardening, reading, antiques, cooking, and she can sometimes be old-fasioned. I am at a complete loss as to what to get her this year for Christmas. Any ideas would be helpful. I am on a limited budget so under $30 dollars would be nice. =]

2006-12-09 07:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by jengator17 1

I have a friend(male) in an extra marital affair with my best friend (female).....lately he and i have become much better friends, as we speak up our hearts out to each other. Besides which something thats scaring me is, i am getting too fond of him......and probably liking him.....as in love the way he thinks and sees the world......but dont know whether what he thinks about me, even though he treats me like his best friend.......m too confused, and dont even want to hurt my best friend (female).......just thoughtful of how to make out wat is this guy thinking of me, lately??

2006-12-09 07:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by EVA 1

My guy is presently working out of town for another 2 weeks, my birthday is coming up next weekend and a bunch of friends of mine are throwing a party for me at the club which im so looking forward, but my guy texted me that he doesnt want me to go cause he knows my friends will get me very drunk, i just told him i just wanna have a good time, but he is so upset!! So what should I do?? I really really wanna go to celebrate for my bday....sighs..what a relationship!

2006-12-09 07:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by Confused kitty 1

2006-12-09 07:24:50 · 4 answers · asked by volleygirl 2

My dad is racist and always has been . I met my Jamaican partner 13 yrs ago and have been together ever since . We have two daughter 11 and 9. Whom are a mix of Jamaican and White British .
My father constantly makes racist jokes about others and constantly goes on about how bad people of all colours other than white are .
I HATE it and its causing me nothing but stress and pain . I dont want to cut my dad out of my life as I have a very small family and lost my mum at 16 . But as you can see its wrong for my kids to be around although he never directs comments to them .
Recently their father stated he doesnt want the kids to visit him anymore and suggested I do the same but I dont think I can .
I always tell him about my feelings but he doesnt care .
Please help .

2006-12-09 07:05:01 · 14 answers · asked by C 3

2006-12-09 06:59:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 06:53:28 · 8 answers · asked by chiduhere 1

we are about to buy our eleven year old son a laptop for Christmas but are concerned he will spend too much time on it. What would be a reasonable time limit to set each day? He will use it for school work as well as play and it will be internt connected. I would welcome other people's thoughts and experiences of children with their own personal computer and what impact it has on them. he has set his heart on this present.

2006-12-09 06:34:51 · 38 answers · asked by Lizangel 2

Recently, I have told this guy (who has told me he likes me and all) that I have no interest in him romantically. I was pretty subtle about it when letting him know I don't want a boyfriend right now, and that we should be friends first.

It seems he couldn't take it like an adult. This guy is 35-year-old, and apparently, after I told him, he stops talking to me. We work together and that his brother is my boss. What should I do with this? Should I put up with his immaturity?

2006-12-09 06:31:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister came out of the closet five months ago and my father basically disowned her. she is 17 and she couldnt bare living there. my father is a christian! what to do? she moved out and that was that.

2006-12-09 06:29:07 · 14 answers · asked by jrs wife! 3

2006-12-09 06:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by caz 2

the problem is that she had coming more proporsals still now.
but she loves me very much......
she told me that she had told her father that she don't need marriage now , but her father is not supporting with her......
PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS HELP ME.............................

2006-12-09 06:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by chiduhere 1

you never know you might just get your wish

2006-12-09 06:13:09 · 12 answers · asked by lovj 2

My gf and I were trying to come up with ways to save money for our wedding. She suggested I stopped drinking beer. We were at the mall and she wanted to get makeup. It wasnt cheap, so I sugguested she stop wearing makeup. She said, "Dont you want me to look pretty for you?".... I said, "That is what the beer was for." She the store, and I havent heard from her since. Do you think she is ever coming back?

2006-12-09 06:08:52 · 22 answers · asked by mstr_gekko 3

I loved her so much and I've been with her and taking care of he until last week when she got pnamoia. I have kid and I could be with when she died. I can't seem to cry but so far I eaten 3 breakfasts and now I'm about to go to a lunch with my family. I guess what I'm trying to ask is how do I stop eating and how do start to let it go and maybe cry a little. She was 97 and had 13 children, 30 grand children, 86 great grand children, 11 great great grand children, 1 great great great grand child on the way in may.

2006-12-09 06:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by emily b 2

I'm looking for serious answers here. Nothing along the lines of "duh" or "of course".

I'm just wondering, because I haven't been able to find a woman who thinks that it's important for a man to live his life with integrity. Most women that I know think that it's great when a man is unfaithful, lazy, bullying, and dishonest in general. They view him as being a "bad boy" who has "edge" and is a "challenge".

On the other hand, a man who is confident, mentally and physically healthy, a community leader, intelligent, romantic, honest, and would be a devoted husband and father, is seen as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do these women have low self-esteem and think that they don't deserve better . . . or, do men of integrity have to start being losers in order for women to appreciate them?

I look forward to your intelligent and well-thought-out answers

2006-12-09 06:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

about love, relationships sex and life

2006-12-09 05:53:35 · 1 answers · asked by seek 1

she knows me frm her childhood and calls be brother.......because of the age difference......should i tell her abt my love 4 her?if yes,how?

2006-12-09 05:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by shah rukh 1

Ok so I have a duaghter with this guy who i have been on and off for 3 1/2 years. (mostly on) And he has been gone at college for about 9 mos he grads in 2 weeks and is moving back in with us...but a couple months ago he had took off for a WHOLE MONTH wihout, calling,txting, anything, it was like he had fallen off the face of the earth. He didnt even call the daycare to check on her. Anywho so when he showed back up he had her name tatooed on his arm taken up smoking AND started talking about when me and him are getting married!?!?!?!? what the hell?!?!? i havent the sligtest clue what to do...me and him have been through ALOT together and he has stuck with me (and me with him) through thick and thin. please help. and FAST. feel free to email me if your message is too long.

2006-12-09 05:44:27 · 6 answers · asked by cutie 2

Why do people attracted to a person who don't or won't feel the same for them?

2006-12-09 05:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine23511 5