well i know one girl about 3 years ago we meet and we have one good relation shes spent last cristemas with me. so far so good. but for we marry i was unployee and need to find a job. i find one in were in england .. so i came from portugal alone and shes was with her parents in yeman. about one mouth her parent forbid her to talk to me ... take her mobil phone and internet and every thing. and shes do what her father tell her to do becouse shes arabic, shes 25 but she never will hurt her father that i am sure . but i think that he force her to maryy to another guy one of this days. i cant contac her, i am verry misery to think that he do it to her just becouse of me . so what should i do? go to yeman and take her with me? or what? whait until she can contact me? pls help me i cant stand like this. thanks
2006-12-09 08:11:25 · 4 answers · asked by Night_Wolf_PT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are in a very unfortunate position! The Arabic laws are very different to ours! Her father can make her marry and probably will. I know she may be the love of your life, but I think you only have one real option .... her father will expect her to marry within her culture, and unfortunately, it's not you as such, but the fact that you are European!! There is a saying 'if you love someone set them free, if they come back, it's meant to be' Good luck!!
2006-12-09 09:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're hurting. Unfortunately, you'll just have to sit tight and let her contact you. If she is like an obedient puppy to her parents, no matter what you do, that will not change. She has to take the initiative to do what SHE wants. She may never have the courage.......you need to be prepared for that.
2006-12-09 16:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wait long enough maybe u;ll never gonna see her again,maybe her father will move her in another town,they can do this too.so i think u should go after her and take her with u if u love eatch other and than get married and his father wont do anything as long as she agree with u
2006-12-09 16:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this internet camel rider, look closer to home for a woman who has a life style akin to your own
2006-12-09 22:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋