I have a friend(male) in an extra marital affair with my best friend (female).....lately he and i have become much better friends, as we speak up our hearts out to each other. Besides which something thats scaring me is, i am getting too fond of him......and probably liking him.....as in love the way he thinks and sees the world......but dont know whether what he thinks about me, even though he treats me like his best friend.......m too confused, and dont even want to hurt my best friend (female).......just thoughtful of how to make out wat is this guy thinking of me, lately??
2006-12-09 07:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by EVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let me get this straight. You like your Friends boyfriend. The boyfriend is married to someone else and is cheating on his wife with your friend..... Sounds like a dead end relationship.
Save yourself the heart ache and walk away. Even if he did leave your Friend for you, there is still wifey in the picture. Even if he left BOTH wife and mistress for you, could you ever TRUST him not to cheat on you??
2006-12-09 07:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D.R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like your a little bit too far into it emotionally to be "don't even want to hurt my best friend..." Obviously your secretly fallin in love with this guy, or at least the idea of him and I'm sure your best freind won't like that. Figure out whats more important your gonna have to make a choice.
And I'm with Leslie... he's a guy who is already cheating on one woman...he'd cheat on 2 no problem.
2006-12-09 07:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by BOISE_DD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 00:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Lesley here. This guy is two-timing. Obviously he can't seem to be satisfied with one woman. Well that's his choice, but you seem to be in a pickle already. Getting out of this messy situation is the ony option you have. Otherwise you risk getting emotionally hurt from a couple of important people in your life.
2006-12-09 13:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by elfworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mess with him. Is he the one married? and he's seeing your best friend? I wouldn't trust him. I think he just wants to sleep around and you're his next target. He probably says the same stuff to all his women.
2006-12-09 07:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by -- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's married and making out with your friend, and your wondering if maybe he's interested in what? leaving his wife and your friend to be with you in what capacity? perhaps he can find some time for you. and you seem to be ok with his integrity and feelings towards commitment. just ask your friend is she willing to share him with one more person.
2006-12-09 07:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to start dating other guys and get away from this one.....
2006-12-09 15:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Riddhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a distance.
2006-12-09 07:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with lesley she is right dont fall for it...why are you even hangin with that guy anywayz??!!
2006-12-09 07:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking abt him.
2006-12-09 19:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by sneha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋