Other - Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

My boyfriend wants his son to move in with us, but there is NO WAY I will allow this. My relationship with boy, 12, is not good.My BF thinks everything would be great if the kid moved in, but I know it would not. My BF has a tendency to ignore problems, thinking that will make them go away.The kid has emotional, learning and behavoiral problems, and is VERY VERY selfish AND lazy.He has gotten physically agressive with me (shoving), his mom (swung at her), and kids at school(fights). Emotionally, and academically, he is at the level of a 7 or 8 year old.He is also very big for his age. The mom is has pretty much given up and lets him do what he wants because he is physically stronger than her and she cannot stop him. He goes to therapy on and off. My BF says I am wrong not to let him move in, and that it is MY fault he has problems because I am stopping him from helping his son. Then he said it might his own fault for living somewhere that his son cannot move into.

2006-12-09 05:22:39 · 5 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3

we split up about 4 months ago and we have baby boy. We both started seeing other peopl i know that she slept with another guy her ex . I did with this other girl too. I want to make things work for the sake of my son and because i love her i was with this girl for 3 years and we split up becaue i think of not being able to adapt to the new baby more than anything. What should i do she is being really rood to me but at times she is nice and part of me wants her bad and part of me is dicusted by the fact she did her dirt but in the other hand i did the same!! So help me out with your input.

2006-12-09 05:07:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my dad this year and so it is going to be the first Christmas without him. I feel like I am missing someone when I have bought all the Christmas gifts. Do you put anything on the grave to help you get through the holidays without the loved one? Please be nice on this one.

2006-12-09 05:04:01 · 15 answers · asked by ougal 2

It is hard to show my husband that i love him because i had a bad child hood.What can i do i don't want to loose him.I do love him but sometimes have a hard time showing it.My child hood as well as my adult hood was hard for me.I don't know what to talk about i feel angry at times.I take it out on my kids and my husband i pray and ask for a change but i don't know if i would ever change and i need help.

2006-12-09 04:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by school_chili_blue 1

It's just a Christmas party our youth group is having. I'll have at least 2 of my best friends w/ me, but the guy who is really mean to me will MOSY LIKELY be there. (if you've seen my previous ?'s, he's the guy I turned in for sexual comments to me, and now he follows me around sometimes. He's always been mean to me, since middle school and we're in high school now.) So should I go? I can't let him contol my life and chase me away, right? thanks!

2006-12-09 04:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by 77684 3

what should i do help!!! We lost track of time. We never get time for ourselves and when we did they poped in. Our kids are 10 and 5 and 3 now they are always asking us about what we were doing and my mother-in law hasn't talked to us even though it was only thursday. HELP!!

2006-12-09 04:12:39 · 28 answers · asked by boyconfused 1

I am looking for a girl named Kristie Erin Reed. She is 22 years old and she used to live in Manassas, VA. She moves around alot and the last known address I had was in Ohio. Her mom is Lorraine Reed. Please, if anyone knows her or knows where she is, please help me to find her. Thank you.

2006-12-09 04:12:25 · 3 answers · asked by bucfaninva 1

2006-12-09 04:11:26 · 16 answers · asked by Reo 5

This happened two years ago: my boyfriend wanted to have anal sex, but I didn't. I said no several times and tried to escape from the bed, but he grabbed me and forced himself into me. I was bleeding afterward.
Is this rape, even though I let him into bed with me?
It's been two years and I noticed I have not been with other men ever since, I have become more timid and I tend to isolate my self. What type of help can I look for?

Thank you.

2006-12-09 04:01:05 · 21 answers · asked by Undiscolsed 1

This is my middle grown child of 5 and oldest son. The one I have always felt the closest to as far as sharing,understanding,helping,closeness and etc. He is the one I refered to as my rock and his Dad and I felt good knowing we had him to call on in an emergency. I am 76, husband is 80 an we are still active. Son's wife got offended at me after son borrowed $85,000. to get himself out of debt. I said she didn't need a housekeeper, I never had one, and now we arn't welcome in her house and in defense of her he has drug up every slight she can think of to mention in an email to me in hopes that the relationship be mended. I no longer see this son in the same light, I have been a good Mother and I don't deserve to be put down. I have a good personality and meant no harm, only a way to save. This Son is the trustee of our Living Trust. We are changing that. It hurts to write this but we never know how life will turn out.
God Bless You All and Have a Wonderful Christmas & 2007

2006-12-09 04:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7

(a) inbreeding..(b) missing teeth...(c) uncle buck violating small farm animals

2006-12-09 03:50:54 · 15 answers · asked by dave v 2

a family member coming into your bed at night and messing with you
how do I deal with it
what do I do to help my mind
and how do I get back to normal
and no calling the police is not the answer
it is a long time ago but it comes back and hurts me still
but I am still afraid it may happen now too

2006-12-09 03:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by david s 2

What was your first impression of your current significant other - boyfrend/husband/girlfriend/wife? How correct or waaaaay off base were you? Explain

2006-12-09 03:46:37 · 5 answers · asked by nana 3

I'm in a relationship with a very nice, beautiful and smart girl for almost 5 years now - a couple of months ago, we got engaged.

Just recently, i've been getting this urge to have a one time affair with another girl when she hinted that she liked me. I don't have any feelings for her and i love my fiancee very much but i feel that i should atleast have another experience before tying the knot. I'm 24 right now and haven't had any other sexual relationship with other girls aside from my fiancee. She, on the other hand, have had several relationships before me.

Am i being a stupid #&@^%# idiot? Is this a normal urge?

2006-12-09 03:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by System_ID 1

i am only fifteen(my mom uses this screen name too) but i miss being able to flirt with all the guys that i like not just one. and now it seems like he really likes me alot. i was supposed to break it off yesterday and chickend out. b/c i just would rather him be a crush not a b/f. i dont think he would understand that. especially if he likes me as much as i think he does.

2006-12-09 03:39:05 · 6 answers · asked by summer girl 3

I go to class everyday and I kind of sorta like this guy who sites behind me. He is always staring at me, or laughing at me when I am talknig to my friends about funny joke, he is always talking about how nice I look that day, and smiles when i pass him in the hallways on Campus. the only thing is he has this girlfriend of his. Do you think that he likes me?

2006-12-09 03:33:08 · 10 answers · asked by nonestopchick 2

What is your family origins? Where did they originate from?

2006-12-09 03:31:06 · 12 answers · asked by arsenalthierry 2

We have been together 4 years, but the last two have been horrible. When we met I was 6 months pregnant and he had a little girl. Everything was wonderful until we found out that his little girl wasnt biologically his. He became distant and eventually even cheated. I cheated and even had a baby outside of our relationship. We had broke up earlier this year, but got back together in July. I just found out that he has been cheating on me since September and even had a ring on this girls finger. Worst of all he had manipulated me into believing that we could have a polyamorous relationship (I am bi) and had the girl living in our home for a few days. I recently heard someone say that love is as love does and love doesnt hurt. So if we love each other so much why do we keep hurting each other. Is it possible for us to find our way back to each other. We had such a profound love for each other at one time and lost sight of that due to poor communication. I miss us. Is all this fixable?

2006-12-09 03:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuddly teddy bears that you just want to squeeze and hold when its cold and dark out?????


sheesh what did you think i was going to say???

2006-12-09 03:20:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

in a 400 metre race tomorrow she will be upset if she loses...............again

2006-12-09 03:12:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I tell her that I love and respect then as freinds without adding complexity to our friendship?? She is coming over in a few to drop off some things and I'm afraid that she'll flirt again..

What do I say?? How do I handle the situation?

2006-12-09 03:00:14 · 10 answers · asked by slink H 1

plz hlp me

2006-12-09 02:51:52 · 16 answers · asked by champhaine04 1

finish the question and answer it.

2006-12-09 02:45:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

we will play poker and the winner goes out with the lads or lasses
AS she went out Wednesday and Yesterday i will cheat so i win and go out tonight,
I know if i don't cheat she will let me win anyway.

Have you ever cheated at anything???


PS we went out together on Thursday we always make time to go out 1 night a week together.

2006-12-09 02:45:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some men who are in perfectly happy, so they say, relationships spend hours looking at porn on the Internet. Is it just a man thing or do these men actually wish they were living a life with one of those females who don't mind if the whole world sees their ASSets. Answers from men would be appreciated or women who have solved this problem in their own lives.

2006-12-09 02:38:26 · 21 answers · asked by A B 3

i m madly in love with my classmate.

2006-12-09 02:28:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 14 years old and my ex-girlfriend is 13. We broke up a few weeks ago, but we have both vaguely hinted at wanting to get back together at one point or another. The only problem is that to me, you can never know whats going on in a girls head so I dont know if she would say yes. My question is: whats the best way to approach her? Should I just go ahead and ask, or be more careful?

2006-12-09 02:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by skinnerpride 2

Ive shaved my head so i look bald i have gained weight so i look fat and i have spent all my money so i am skint plus i wear a wedding ring on my finger.
What else have i got to do to keep these women away from me???




god it's hard being a man!!!

2006-12-09 02:20:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm am going to my significant others work party tonight..and I'm a little freaked out. I'm usually a very fun and outgoing person but for some reason this has me so nervous! These are all not only his co workers, but good friends.... I'm just scared I wont know what to say/how to act. ughhhh. I know how first impressions are so important. I don't want to ruion it! Any advice?

2006-12-09 02:09:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I bet my nose is bigger than any of yours, and I've got a video to prove it. Just be sure to watch till the end, that's where you can see it at it's absolute biggest.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rz12EmZu0a8

2006-12-09 02:09:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jason M 1