How do I tell her that I love and respect then as freinds without adding complexity to our friendship?? She is coming over in a few to drop off some things and I'm afraid that she'll flirt again..
What do I say?? How do I handle the situation?
2006-12-09 03:00:14 · 10 answers · asked by slink H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her some of the things she says and does make you uncomfortable, and you wish she would keep them to herself. Tell her you like her only as a friend, and want to keep it that way.
2006-12-09 03:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything. Dont lead her on. Dont act any differently. Eventually she will get the message that you are not interested. If she brings it up, then tell her straight that their friendship is important to you and you have no intention of ruining it, and hope that she respects your decision. Just be straight up front. She cant argue with that.
2006-12-09 11:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kevon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act uninterested. Dont give "hey what a nice surprise", thank you for dropping by, you look gorgeous* *im so excited/happy to see you* and *hey i hope i make your day* kinda look or expression. Just be uninterested with the please and thank you but nothing more than that, If they flirt, you just act dumb and respond with a cliche like "ouh okie" and "thank you" (if they compliment). Dont give em any chance to flirt.. heh
2006-12-09 11:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight Diyar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, but ignore her flirting. If it get's heavy ask if her husband is aware of her feelings.
2006-12-09 11:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by c.arsenault 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be firm in ur answer and do everything u can not to lead her on try hanging out with her hubby more
2006-12-09 11:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by himhum03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her.
2006-12-09 11:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probaly tell her firmly but not unrespectfully do you get it
2006-12-09 11:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by felicadc_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're not interested.. or
bang her! bang her! bang her!
2006-12-09 11:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey man take what you can get
2006-12-09 11:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I WOULD TELL YOUR FRIEND OR NEIGHBORS ABOUT IT
2006-12-09 11:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by michael f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋