Okay i liked this guy forever, but now that i am with him i dont want him?

Question

i am only fifteen(my mom uses this screen name too) but i miss being able to flirt with all the guys that i like not just one. and now it seems like he really likes me alot. i was supposed to break it off yesterday and chickend out. b/c i just would rather him be a crush not a b/f. i dont think he would understand that. especially if he likes me as much as i think he does.

Answer 1

Well I just got out of a simailar realtionship and I am from the boy's perspective. You should tell him how you feel he'll be upset for a little while but it's for the best.

Answer 2

You learned a valuable lesson: Having is not always as attractive as wanting! Be careful from now on what you wish for, you might get it...you're young enough to correct your behavior, but try and remember that other people have feelings and wishes, too. They just don't happen or necessarily coincide with yours; and sometimes, people can be downright vindictive about being hurt like you're about to do to him, so be nice and next time know your feelings and express them clearly before you get somebody all wound up. Good luck!

Answer 3

Sounds like you weren't ready for the relationship in the first place. I doubt he will understand you want to flirt around.

Answer 4

If you don't want to be with him tell him. You can still be friends. You're fifteen. You don't need a steady, especially one you don't want.

Answer 5

you all ways want what you can not have and when you get it no more fun, you find that it stinks.

Answer 6

GRIL,YOU AER TOO YOUNG TOO BE THINKING ABOUT BOYZ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1