Other - Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

For the past 3 years my wifes relatives have come over for thanksgiving and I seem to end up in jail. I cannot stand my wifes side of the family they are the reason I drink and get loose. I told my wife I will be on my best behavior this year but I said that the last 3 too. Words are exchanged on our marriage and it always seems to end in a altercation with me shoving her mother or sister. I cant afford to go back to jail and I am paying for this meal so where should i drink at tomorrow?

2006-11-22 20:13:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought I was a happily married man, but then I met a girl from work 6 years ago. It started out as friends, but a year and a half ago she moved to another state to be with her family. I couldn't bring myself to ending what I have at home, for both women gave me something I wanted. I thought I could get over the mistress, but I still keep thinking of her, fantasize about her, and even have dreams of her. I know it's not right to be with both, I'm just a greedy man who wants the best of both worlds. I don't think I'll ever be caught, unless I confess, but guilt has taken the best of me lately and I keep wondering if I am just lusting over this other woman or am I really in love with her. I don't think I have been in the right state of mind to make any right choices lately and do not want make any more mistakes that I will regret later, I just want to hear what you, all have to say about it, even if I don't like any answers. Is it love or lust?

2006-11-22 20:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by lou 1

how can i changed? i fetl in love with her but she in her past had too many men, i know that this sounds stupid but i have been thinking in her past since i felt in love. I love her and she loves me, just i need help i dont want to think in her past. She told everything about her past even details in bed and now i just see her in her past. thanks

2006-11-22 20:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by jyawatavargas 1

2006-11-22 18:46:01 · 25 answers · asked by kiss me. 3

I had a friend who died 3 years ago. We met each other seven years ago. I met her at the secondary school where we studied. she had been sufferd alot of having cancer..one day she had a blood analysis, she called me and her voice was throaty, so I couldn't understand any word she was saying to me. Then I realized that she was very happy and crying at the same time because the doctor told her that she was getting better and there is a hope in the few coming months she would be recovered. She couldn't believe that.

After that call, I went to her family's house to wait for her. While we were waiting, someone called her father and told him that his daughter had a dire accident and she passed away right after the accident. Everybody got shocked. At that moment, I even forgot how to cry. I did not talk or cry. I just remembered my friend's feelings and the words she was telling me on the phone before she died. I had already known that I lost her forever and she would not come back to my life. I did not even think that she would leave me alone after the all past years that we had spent together. I had been waiting for years to find an honest friend like her and finally the death took her away from us in a moment.

2006-11-22 18:40:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started going to church with my grandma on Sundays two weeks ago. The first week I went, I was sitting in the pew and looked over and saw my english teacher. I about died. She is not one of my favorite teachers but shes not evil or anything. I hoped she wouldn't see me but after church she came over and talked to me. She said "You lucky girl! You get to see me six days this week!" Then she gave me a hug. I was thinking O yeah, lucky me! And what with the hugs? She doesn't do that at school! Anyway the second week I pretended like I didn't see her and did't tallk to her. The last thing I want to do is see my teacher on the weekend. I know I am going to have to get used to her being there but how should I act. Should I pretend I don't see her every week or do I go and tell her hi. I don't want to be rude but I don't really want to just go up and give her a hug every week. What do I do? This is REALLY awkward.

2006-11-22 18:32:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know anything . iam not much educated .i am not so smart .i am not rich. i don,t have gf . what should in do in future

2006-11-22 17:49:09 · 13 answers · asked by s.y.j.c_mumbai_chembur_boy g 1

I have a bit of a pipedream to just pack up and leave one day - I'm taking one step at a time and steadily working towards this goal. The reason I can't leave straight away is my family have given me money provided I stay married so I would need to finance a new place to live and just day to day stuff from my own earnings (which ain't big) But what I hav realised is having all the money in the world means nothing if everyone around you belittles you all the time. Is anyone else in the same boat and how are you handling it?

2006-11-22 17:40:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think. my bf is getting better at saying it.

2006-11-22 17:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by cutemay1 2

What is your favorite time of day and why? What do you like to do during this time?

2006-11-22 17:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i steal love my ex
she left me for anouther guy =\
should i go beat the guy up ?
and how about if she whants to get back
my ex dumped me for her ex...
do you think if i have a chanse com 2gether again almost 5 month of relationshipz :[

2006-11-22 17:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends b/f has been distant... When they are together, he doesn't want to be close, sits on the other couch... He's probably freaking out, been together on & off for 2 & 1/2 years, seems like he thinks its all too serious. Sex drive has gone down is never romantic, acts like shes just some other friend... Is there any point hanging on?

2006-11-22 17:17:13 · 3 answers · asked by idk 3

Do a hundred things for a Female. 99 good things and 1 that she thinks is bad, and she will go on and on and on about that one thing
until the 'Cows come home'.

2006-11-22 17:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What has been your experience with the reunion and the aftermath?

2006-11-22 16:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by Sicilian Godmother 7

sometimes i just wanna know what other people think over this matter....or is it just me too much analyzing

2006-11-22 16:49:24 · 7 answers · asked by K L 1

2006-11-22 16:43:12 · 16 answers · asked by sexigurl63 1

When my wife and i got married My 2 boys were 1 year olds.& 2 months ago she told me that before she met me she had a baby and let her aunt adopt it Then her aunt fell ill...So now my wife is regaining custody of her son who is 3 1/2 ..Question>>while I was at work the kid was bit by one of My two Dobermans the bite was not severe but required stitches. My wifes kid has hit/slapped Troy & Mike (the dogs) and was told never to ever do that again And I told my wife to NEVER EVER leave her kid/boy alone with my boys while i'm at WORK..
For the protection of...... Troy& Mike .And my wife fail to listen after she agreed to it.
After the biting incident my wife and i agreed that it was a valuable lesson for the kid to never hit helpless animals
Now she wants me to get rid of my boys(that will never happen) ....She has the nerve to ask me to get rid of my boys after she lied to me about having a secret child.....Should i get rid of my wife.. Or will she relize how selfish she is????

2006-11-22 16:30:22 · 27 answers · asked by Buda B 3

How do you build the trust again once it has been broken?

2006-11-22 16:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by noga 3

I have so many things that are pissing me off, I have addressed them to the right people, and they don't give 2 shits, and I can't stop these things from pissing me off and bringing me down...what should I do? SERIOUS answers only please

2006-11-22 16:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why???

2006-11-22 15:59:34 · 9 answers · asked by ♥~miley~♥ 2

me and my mom have been arguing nonstop for almost a year-its getting ridiculous and she still doesnt get that their can never be anything between us. i sick of her crap and just dont know how to deal...help? but ya just know i do love her and appreciate everyting she does for me, but just dont know what to do anymore

2006-11-22 15:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 15:38:10 · 8 answers · asked by kelkkie3 1

so i peirced my cartiledge and i didnt do it to hurt myself that much i know i dont think its cause i wanted to rebel or cause it lookes cool either and i know i will get into trouble for it why then did i do it i just cant tell?!

2006-11-22 15:27:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 14:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

there this guy i like jake. i asked him out on friday but wasn't shure if said yes or no cuz he put a star on yes!and the guy i use to like jesse he coming back wen i'm just barely moving on andgetting ova him but he coming back on dec. 1plzz help me wat should i do?

2006-11-22 14:50:17 · 8 answers · asked by tanya 1

for her birthday that just recently passed i made her a scrap book of all of her seven children she thought that was the sweetest kindest thing she had ever gotten

whats a present that would be sweeter than that? and that she would think is just as sweet or sweeter than the scrap book??

2006-11-22 14:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by wutsupdog345 2

on how to over come this fear of being with people. Some also call me arrogant and selfish. I try to be very serious around others and i dont want them to know that i really want to laugh inside (not a mean laugh i just try to hold my laugh in) but im really a calm sweet guy, but ive been hiding my real self for so long its almost wierd to let it out. PS im only myself in private, where i conduct my studies on life. other than that i try to keep a straight face when around people and i dont tell people what im doing becuase its private.. My parents think im planning something evil but im not.and friends and coworkers just think im a "mysterious" guy. its almost like you have to "catch me" being myself. anytime other than that, i dont say anything. well its messing up my life and i just want to quit the whole thing and go back to regular life. i dont know where to start.
-trying not to smirk

2006-11-22 14:39:42 · 10 answers · asked by Love Patience Peace and Kindness 1

i need help i realy like him!!!

2006-11-22 14:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by suri c 1

My mom does it to me incessantly, always calling me fat and telling fat jokes (no, she's not kidding). Don't just say "ignore her", because that really doesn't work. I'm really uptight about weight, even though I'm pretty in shape, I work out regularly and eat healthy, so it really bothers me. Any ideas as to how to get her to back off and leave it alone?

2006-11-22 14:37:55 · 18 answers · asked by Alecto 5

2006-11-22 14:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous