Do a hundred things for a Female. 99 good things and 1 that she thinks is bad, and she will go on and on and on about that one thing
until the 'Cows come home'.
2006-11-22 17:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no kidding. they forget all the good stuff. all they see is that one thing and even then half the time it is all in their head. The answer is they are fruit loops.
2006-11-22 17:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Not all women are like that!
And not all you men are perfect you know! Some women just use that one bad thing as a guilt trip. Yes i agree it can be a pain in the rear when that happens but it's one of those things get on with it or get over it!
Quit your whining and ask her what her problem is? That's the only way you are going to resolve the issue without breaking up!
2006-11-22 20:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by ema 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not all women are like that, it sounds like you have got the wrong woman. Women like that are like a disease that preys on innocent males, they are like vampires that draw on our life forces and metaphorically speaking suck out all of our goodness in order to dilute their badness. Best thing to do would be to get rid of her.
If getting rid of her is impractical then she has to be re-trained. You are too good for her so do only 10 good things until she gets used to that and then start doing 99 good things again and hopefully she will start being grateful.
If that fails find a younger, slimmer and prettier woman and start doing some good things for her. When your woman starts kicking off explain to her that you do good things for the other woman because the other woman is grateful and you need gratitude. Then point out to her that if she can't or won't satisfy your needs (for gratitude) then it is her fault that you seek to satisfy those needs elsewhere.
2006-11-22 19:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All it takes sometimes is one really bad thing to throw things off. However, she might be justified in her reaction. Maybe what you did was in fact as bad as she thinks. It's not fair to let us judge her so called 'ungratefulness' if we do not know what you did. And you shouldn't have a problem telling us what you did if in fact it wasn't as bad as you say. Tell us what you did so that we can give you an objective opinion to your question, as opposed to condemning the poor woman without having all the facts.
2006-11-22 19:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Das 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is not a peculiar occurrence. The human mind is naturally critical.. We tend to easily forget the "good" of people when they do something "wrong". Thus very few individuals develop the consciousness of focusing on the right doings!
2006-11-22 18:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by AMINA 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Generalization!! That's like saying all men are drunks who never do housework and watch Sports all day! Some do, some don't! Find a different girlfriend cos the one you have obviously knows how to wind you up. Ignore it.
2006-11-22 18:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because in your mind you think you did 99 good things but sometimes we ignore 50% of the things you do so check yourself
2006-11-22 17:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by mylipshot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lucky you!!!in a tran
well the one thing that you did wrong was probably the most imortant one
Sods law.
2006-11-22 18:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by sonny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HEY! u no we females think of u the same way. Yall do the exact same thing
2006-11-22 17:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dany 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dont do anything for them man , be a jerk they like that i wouldent give a woman sod all and they run after me .
2006-11-22 17:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've dealt with a string of bad ones....
2006-11-22 17:12:12 · answer #11 · answered by Alecto 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋