I thought I was a happily married man, but then I met a girl from work 6 years ago. It started out as friends, but a year and a half ago she moved to another state to be with her family. I couldn't bring myself to ending what I have at home, for both women gave me something I wanted. I thought I could get over the mistress, but I still keep thinking of her, fantasize about her, and even have dreams of her. I know it's not right to be with both, I'm just a greedy man who wants the best of both worlds. I don't think I'll ever be caught, unless I confess, but guilt has taken the best of me lately and I keep wondering if I am just lusting over this other woman or am I really in love with her. I don't think I have been in the right state of mind to make any right choices lately and do not want make any more mistakes that I will regret later, I just want to hear what you, all have to say about it, even if I don't like any answers. Is it love or lust?
2006-11-22 20:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was love you would probably be with the other woman. Your not, you need to think of her feelings. If she cares about you as much as you think you care about her, she's probably getting hurt deeply. You need to think of her feelings and your wife's feelings, not just your own. You're not the only one involved.
2006-11-22 20:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would YOU want YOUR wife to do if she was in the same situation as you? Always put yourself in the other persons shoes. Your mistress is a slut!!! She knows that you are a married man and still keeps a relationship with you?? What a *****!! You are just as responsible as she is. You both will go to hell. I hate cheaters!! It really hurts. What if your wife was doing that to you?? If I was your wife... i would never want to know about this slut, because then I would never love you or respect you like before. Just clean up and stay with your wife if you truly love her. If not, then set her free... but don't do this to her. She probably senses it anyway. A woman's gut feeling is very strong. She may not want to believe it. Maybe that's why you think that you won't get caught unless you confess... because she doesn't want to believe that you would step so low.
2006-11-23 04:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Iris 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's lust! Because if you truly loved this woman more you'd be gone bottom line. And the difference between lust and love is love is from the heart and lust is from the hard which sounds like your problem, not trying to be rude just calling it how i see it. Good Luck!
2006-11-23 04:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 Inches!
2006-11-23 04:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey wake up!..your having a dream..wake up!
2006-11-23 04:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 7ins
2006-11-23 16:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by heronshores 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋