See a family counselor, or go on the Jerry Springer show.
2006-11-22 16:01:11
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answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5
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Angie… from the previous questions you have asked, you sound like a very bright girl. I will assume your mom or dad works and has insurance. How about asking if you can talk to a counselor by yourself. It can be a really nice and safe place to unfold and talk about the things that bug you. This can be someone that is in your corner, who cares about your best interest and what is really great is they are not a family member or a friend so they are not biased. Often they can help you come up with better ways to cope with difficult home issues.
If your parents have insurance from their jobs… you can look at the counselors on a web page their company provides. And YOU can even pick the person out yourself. There is often a profile and you can pick a man or woman, a specific age of the person you are looking for, maybe the location, etc. This way you are in charge of who you pick :)
Can you ask your mom about this and look into it?
2006-11-22 16:05:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Actually Angie, if you just want to vent out, it's okay. But ifyou really want to help us your pointing out that you have been arguing continuously doesn't really help. What have you been arguing about is what we need to know to be of any real help. And why it's just been a year that you both are arguing? Were you getting along well with each other before that? What changed in the past year that made both of you argue so much? If you cannot point out a particular problem, perhaps you can add 2 or 3 incidents where you argued, so we can try and figure the problem out.
2006-11-22 16:02:58
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answered by Smriti 5
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You didn't really say what the problem is. It's kinda hard to give you advice when we don't have a clue as to what she's doing that's so bad. At least you did say you love her, but do you respect her? Most young people think their parents are clueless as to what it's like to be young, but that's not the case. We all started out at the same place, children. So all adults have been teens and have a good idea as to what teens go through. And when we were teens we thought we knew more and were smarter than our parents. Of course we all found out we were wrong. I don't know what your problem is but in most cases we want to know and trust our children so why not try talking to your Mom and really getting to know her, you might be surprised. Show her your growing up and not some spoiled brat that just wants her way and you'll see a change in your relationship.
2006-11-22 16:06:40
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answered by Just Me 4
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Do you live with her? You tell us nothing, and you want to have an opinion from us?
If you are living with her like you are a leech - move out.
If you are so special, take care of yourself, and see if you may end up liking her any better.
Are you a User? Do you just stay there and use your mom? Mooch off her and live in her home?
Are you a Loser? Are you not able to earn enough money to take care of yourself, and act like a grown up? To live on a budget?
Without telling us any details, you only leave us guessing what the problem is. But it seems like when somebody leaves out the facts it is usually the above - and they cannot face the reality of having to put it down as a fact.
Good luck to you in your new adult life. Good luck to your mom, too.
2006-11-22 16:06:13
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answered by NANCY K 6
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How old are you? Find out the things that you are mostly arguing over, and fix it, talk to her about it, tell her you love her, and that you appreciate everything that she does for you, and tell her that you are tired of arguing every day of every minute. That all you want to do is make her happy and you dont know how to make her happy. Tell her that you are going crazy because she is not the mom that she used to be and that you really miss that mom and want her back.
2006-11-22 16:00:45
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answered by Michelle_204 2
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Well...
Hun it's like this She's your mom you've known her all your life and she's known you all Of YOURS, I know at times I get annoyed at my mom and think to myself God I hate her!! but I really don't. When moms give you advice they are trying to help you because they have been in the same situations or know best and everytime Me and my mom argue is when she thinks she knows best but most of the time she does and when I make those dumb *** mistakes she is there to help me even if I was wrong and didnt listen- airgo your mom is your BEST FRIEND no one can ever replace her not even your own friends I mean I have friends that dont talk to their mothers and they have really crappy lives because they are either stuck with a guy that is treating them wrong or pregnant and have noone to talk to when things are going on and much worse noone to help so I would say even though you and your mom argue just know its nautral to have disagreements if you didnt that wouldnt make you your own person but I wouldnt recomand cutting your mom out of your LIFE Ever!!!
2006-11-22 16:09:30
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answered by Ragina 2
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nicely maximum dad and mom are extremely uptight approximately their childs relationship, reason it could that the guy they raised is growing to be up and that they don't elect to stay as much as the info. they only elect the convenience in understanding that they nevertheless have their toddler. If that helps.
2016-12-29 08:51:46
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answered by schwager 3
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Sounds like you need to set up some relational boundaries.
Just approach your mom matter of factly. There are things that you will not accept her talking about, or advising about. Tell her which those are. If she chooses to ignore your boundaries...walk out of the room or leave. There are things you probably pass over on her boundaries...allow her to tell you what they are...try to respect that.
2006-11-22 16:21:46
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answered by Anonymous
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love your mom and respect her. just do whatever it takes to humor her. one day your mom will die like mine did and you will be sorry for all the arguing. it will be too late to say your sorry then and you will have to live with it forever just like me.
2006-11-22 16:00:19
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answered by I know, I know!!!! 6
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