how can i changed? i fetl in love with her but she in her past had too many men, i know that this sounds stupid but i have been thinking in her past since i felt in love. I love her and she loves me, just i need help i dont want to think in her past. She told everything about her past even details in bed and now i just see her in her past. thanks
2006-11-22 20:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by jyawatavargas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They say, every saint has their past, and every sinner has their future...
Try to visualize her as how she could, and will be, with you, not how she was...The limitation of seeing her, is in you, not her!
2006-11-23 20:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good discussion with her about it. Tell her that all that talk about her past has caused you to see her in a light you don't find so attractive. You want her to stop talking about that part of her life. Tell her you love her but you need time away from her so you can clear your head of this crap she has shared with you. Take a couple of weeks, get away. Maybe change the places you go together. Make some new memories, start over. Good luck.
2006-11-23 05:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by skooter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have kept it to herself. What's past is past and should stay that way. But she has told you and now you have to decide if you can forget about it because it really is a useless load of information, which may have no bearing on the future. Good luck.
2006-11-23 04:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is important in any relationship. Don't think of her past. If u open urs too it will be an horible story. Forget the past and think more of the future.
2006-11-23 04:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard but everyone has a past .. things happen for a reason, yous found each other, shes with YOU now and maybe shes finally ready to settle down with the love of her life.. think about it. good luck
2006-11-23 04:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, she should not have given you all these details..
She is very indiscreet....A bad trait...
Secondly, it does not appear that you are going to be able to
get over her past...
So leave her and move on....
2006-11-23 04:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to move on..is her past...u are in her present..
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2006-11-23 04:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋