2006-11-22 16:43:12 · 16 answers · asked by sexigurl63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
apparently you're somewhat comfortable with the situation or you WOULD break up with him! You obviously "love him 2 much".
Nothing says you have to "break up" with him, but have you at least tried TALKING to him?
2006-11-22 16:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - You can't make someone love you
2 - You need to love and take care of yourself first.
Give him space. The more you try to come close, the more he will run the other way.
Do the things you used to do back when he gave you more attention.
Ask him what he is thinking. Maybe there are things for you to work on.
If he isn't willing to communicate or blames it all on you then you need to move on. You say you love him too much to break it off but you must love yourself more to let yourself go and be free.
the more time you waste with the wrong person, the more time you are robbing from the person that you are meant for.
2006-11-22 16:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this guy in your life? This is not love - he's just using you and trying to control you. Don't you think you deserve better than that. You not only have to ignore him, you have to cut him out of your life. That means no contact at all. Mid life crisis my a** - guys will use any excuse. Tell him goodbye once and for all and MEAN it. Then get on with your life and find a guy that's good enough for you.
2016-05-22 20:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say want you want to hear but honey if he is ignoring you he is already gone. Men don't ignore women they man up and tell you why. If he does come back you will always wonder why. Please take care of your heart and don't allow this to happen to you. Chasing is no good, begging is even less. Either way he is saying it's okay if I use you, abuse you and then throw you away, I can still come back. Stand up and walk away. How do I know this? Been through hurt way too many times. It only makes you appear needy and weak. Either way they seldom come back. Reality sucks and I am trying to be real with you and not say what you would like everyone to say to you. They call it breakup because it is broken...
2006-11-22 16:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you say you can't break up to him. My advice would be to stick it out and hope everything will wind up happily ever after. Once you get to the point to where you are truly tired of dealing with his selfishness, and you decide to care more about what is best for you... then you will finally make that decision to let him go.
Personally, I'd just go the shorter route and realize that he doesn't deserve you and let him go now.
2006-11-22 16:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you or never will be. Get some backbone and some self respect. Get on with your own life as you are too good for the guy to waste your time. There are other guys out there waiting for a nice girl. Get your act together.
2006-11-22 16:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dot 99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im kinda in the same postition as u...well u gota show them that u can do things on ur own and when they notice that u dont need them as much and ur independent and ur on ur feet and u did it all by urself... trust me, they'll come crawling bak to u. or sometimes... guys cud be talking to other gurls thats probably why he ignoring u...but u know us gurls...we dont wanna see the truth...seriously.
2006-11-22 16:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by sWe3tVaNgUrL17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At one time i was at that stage in my life too. My best adivce to you is either try to talk to him about why he ignores you and solve the problem with him. If that does'nt work and he still chooses to ignore you. you should stop wasting your time with him why love someone who does'nt love you. love is not supposed to hurt.
2006-11-22 16:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love. That's just a fear of being alone and being needy. Move on. Have some self respect. It's over.
2006-11-22 16:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been doing this. bring it to his attention let him know that you dont like this bull ****. mine did this **** to me on 4th of july. believe me he hasnt done it to me again. what he is doing to you is crap and well you love him but you also have to love yourself first
2006-11-22 16:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by beckychave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋