Other - Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

I was in love with a high school sweetheart 20 years ago. After a year of long distance college we broke up. When I tried going back to him a year later he was with someone else. We kept in touch sporadically and then lost touch. Now, 15 years since our last meeting I accidentally found we live in the same state. We are now both married with children with no intention of leaving our spouses and families...however I was suprised to find I have strong feelings for him still and I think he might be "the one." He says that I was his first true love of three major romances, his wife being the third. He very much wants for us to be friends, introduce our families and keep in touch because as he says I reman "dear" to him. He knows I would have an affair with him if he asked, which is sad but my heart is what it is. My question is, is he trying to keep his options open? Its so hard for me to be friends with him but I don't want to lose him altogether. Thoughts please.

2006-10-23 05:20:24 · 5 answers · asked by I'm Trying 3

do you think a family of four that lives off 1,100 dollars a month and has 600 dollars in bills a month can live comfortabley?

2006-10-23 05:16:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was in Disneyland I noticed how wonderful it would be if everyone was naked, so when I got home, I decided to become a nudist. When my kids ( 11, 10, 5 years old ) came home from shcool I was sitting on the couch nude. They were shocked, but I told them to undress and they gave me resistance. So I tore the skirt off of my daughters and jeans off of my son. They started crying and stuff, but I think they're more comfortable now that my wife is nude too. My kids friends came over and we were all sitting nude having dinner, I think they thought we were cool and very hip. Do you think schools should have a no clothes option for people with liberal attitudes ?

2006-10-23 05:15:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was it someone you knew for a time, or someone you bumped into one day?

Thanks!

2006-10-23 05:11:49 · 30 answers · asked by kway_tzar 1

Whats your opinion?

2006-10-23 05:09:25 · 14 answers · asked by Brevin 2

2006-10-23 05:07:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it someone you know? someone you dont know but have seen before? a celebrity? a past love?

2006-10-23 05:06:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this boy has been talkin for about 3 weeks he has just ask for soe money should i give it to him

2006-10-23 05:04:26 · 22 answers · asked by eboni m 1

2006-10-23 05:03:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and him dont go together but we like each other and im scared if i give him the money he will keep askin for some money every time he need it

2006-10-23 05:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by eboni m 1

She needs a some major work done specially some tooths are missing and she needs to replace them, every time i talk to dentists they tells me very expensive price. Any suggesionts what can i do. She cant work for health problems. I know this is family and relation but I need urgent help so please be nice.

2006-10-23 04:59:49 · 2 answers · asked by Alisha 2

I have married virgin and of course, my husband was well aware of that. Even though he did not like it, he would say he was ok with that, so much that he has married me. Neverthless he has humiliated me a lot on our honey moon cause of my inexperience. I have never forgiven him, as I felt it as a kind of stab on the back (what in the earth was he thinking he would get??? I have ALWAYS been honest with him). I have addopted the motto: "If it is performance you want, that is what you will get" and have become the best lover he has ever had (on his own words). Despite being now 'satisfied' he complains I have grown 'less romantic' and 'less caring', 'less emotional' and 'more sexual'. I dont understand why he keeps complaining now and the honey moon issue comes back from time to time and we end up having arguments about it. Is there a chance for us? How can I forgive him?

2006-10-23 04:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by Graça 3

WHY DO YOU ATTACK ME?...JUST FOR FINDING SOMEONE I WANT TO LOVE...MIXED UP...DO YOU WANT ME OR HER...WHY SHOULD A SOUL HAVE TO GO THRU SO MUCH **** FOR LOVE?.

2006-10-23 04:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I have a 18 years old child who still lives at home with me. Legally she is an adult but isn't mature enough to live on her own. I still have to go after her to make sure she does things at this age (ie chores, school work, telling me where she is going.) I can't actually punish her for not keeping up with her responsibilities. What are my options in making sure she does what she is suppose to do. I am tempting in letting her make her own mistakes at the expense of flunking out of school and having my home look a mess. What should I do?

2006-10-23 04:49:35 · 16 answers · asked by loveNromance 2

2006-10-23 04:49:34 · 11 answers · asked by springreed 2

For me, drinking helps me sleep better. And I find sharing my problems with friends help a lot.

2006-10-23 04:46:59 · 12 answers · asked by hespy 5

2006-10-23 04:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by Alisha 2

If you are a man, would you be embarrassed to be with me in public? If you are a woman, would you be ashamed to be my friend?

2006-10-23 04:43:29 · 10 answers · asked by Angela R 1

These were people who did business with my dad around the 1950's and am trying to trace any living descendants of them

2006-10-23 04:42:05 · 1 answers · asked by ke_reliance 1

Is it possible that l can forgive a family member for the emmotional pain they caused me but yet l just can't bring myself to talking to or even being anywhere near them, l moved as far as l can to avoid any possibilities of bumping into her. But in my heart l'm truely convinced that l have forgiven this person. Can you forgive and yet still can't stand the person?

2006-10-23 04:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by G_Pac 2

My husband has broken my trust over and over again. I have forgiven him every time because the lies were about little things that i could get over quickly. We have reached a point where i don't trust him at all and i am wishing i never married him. I love him so much and everything else about him is great, but i almost feel like i was dooped into marrying him. I am willing to stick with him, but i don't know how he is going to prove he is worth my trust. I feel like if i keep checking up on him and not finding anything then i will trust him, but every time i do find something. It is crazy stuff like emails under a different name. I feel like i don't know who he is. I do not want to leave him, but i know he will not change. We are starting counseling this week, but can anyone give me any other advice other then just biting the bullet and giving him my trust one more time.

2006-10-23 04:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by micah z 4

Do you read the Bible.What translation.Do you Attend church if so where and how much.

2006-10-23 04:40:37 · 6 answers · asked by robert p 1

development of children

2006-10-23 04:32:19 · 6 answers · asked by mwana 1

I became a stepfather two years ago. Since then I have become the sole provider for two children from my wifes first marriage. We have moved from Florida to Illinois and since our move her exhusband has not sent any child support. My wife does not want to battle with him because she is afraid that he will take her back to court to sue for custody and neither of us have the time, money or patience for a court battle. I feel that it is his responsibility to support his children. He still calls and expects to see them in the summer and school vacations and wants us to foot the bill to get them to him. I need some help. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-23 04:24:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Besides checking the history (he just deletes it)

2006-10-23 04:22:43 · 10 answers · asked by micah z 4

I have been seeing someone for three years (this week) and other than a possible friendship there is nothing else there. I enjoy their company on the very rare occasions I have it but I feel everything is pretty much one sided. He isn't a bad person but I just don't know if he is worth the effort I put in anymore. It's always me making time, making myself available to his time table, making things nice when we do get together and making any suggestions and initiating everything. I would be sad to give up on his friendship but is that just something I have to live with. Should I call it a day?

2006-10-23 04:19:44 · 35 answers · asked by â?¥MissMayâ?¥ 4

i want to know your experiences, ?
where they too old too young, ?ect

i did he was far too old for me, oh well you cant help who you fall for!!

2006-10-23 04:19:43 · 10 answers · asked by Lola 1

Me and my live-in boyfriend got in a fight on our anniversary on thursday (oct. 19) I mean screaming and everything, and I grabbed some stuff and my son and left. He says he's been getting physically sick lately with how much we've been fighting. He really doesn't look to good. And its only been for about 3 weeks because we've both been high stress. So when I called him after I left he said he wanted to break up, but when i went to get sum stuff saturday night, we kissed and we layed in bed together for a lil bit. I love him with everyhitng in me and he said he feels the same. But how do i convice him to give me a second chance to show him I will quit blowing up on him? The thought of losing him scares the hell out of me. He gives me the cant eat cant sleep butterflies, and these last 4 days without him have been miserable. I feel like I'm just going through the motions. So what should I do to win him back and show him the girl he fell in love with is still here and needs him?

2006-10-23 04:17:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My biological father last week told me that he would no longer be a part of my life if I continued to date outside my race (white I assume). Thing is...he's half white and half Puerto Rican and told me only to date white men. I like a variety of different people because when it all comes down to it, its only our character inside that counts. He said he refuses to have a mulatto grandchild. Yes the majority of men I date are black, and yes I did grow u in the ghetto (with only my mother, no father around). Aren't fathers suppose to be around regardless of who someone is dating no matter one's skin color?

2006-10-23 04:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by jacqueline6001 4

ok i got this text message from my bf saying: "if you could describe me in 1 word what would it be...?" well i sent it back to him b4 answering and he quickly wrote (perfect) and thats what i wanted to say, but i didnt want him to think that i was coping him. so whats 1 word to write back if any describing him as being perfect well basically my everything?

2006-10-23 04:09:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous