me and him dont go together but we like each other and im scared if i give him the money he will keep askin for some money every time he need it
2006-10-23 05:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by eboni m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's your definition of "need?" If he's going to die if he doesn't get his $10 medication, sure, one time. If he's going to not make it big if he doesn't get his $150 guitar, bad idea.
Just be aware that if you give him money, you will never get it back, even if he says that you will. This happened to me with my bf in high school, when we broke up he went all out saying how it was a gift (I was the one who loaned him money for his guitar, in front of his mom and grandma who drove us there) and spreading stuff so he wouldn't have to give me the money back. Little did he know I was over it and considered it "keep away" money so he wouldn't bother me.
2006-10-23 07:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know him? Do you trust him to pay you back? Unless it's someone that's close enough to practically call family, I wouldn't give it to him. And if you're hoping for a romantic relationship with this guy, I'd definitely say no. It sets a really bad precedent just like you think it will--he'll just treat you like a bank and will always expect you to pay for stuff.
2006-10-23 05:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by florafall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your mind? You'll NEVER see it again. If he truly likes you then he wouldn't keep bothering you for money. Sounds like a complete loser. If he needs money why can't he go to family, friends or get a job?
2006-10-23 05:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/Keith S.------------do not give him the "buckaroos".....If this boy wants to be part of contributing to the working class, then he should look for a J-O-B & earn his share so that he can get things he wants & needs just like most folks.......If you give the dollars, he will be back for MO' the next time! So on that note, trust your 1st mind & if you're scared or in doubt, don't give in!
Peace******************
2006-10-23 05:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by LuvlyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give it to him, he will use you like a bank every time he needs cash, and I bet he does not pay you back. Steer clear and tell him it would be wiser to borrow money off his family. You are asking for trouble, honestly!
2006-10-23 05:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not give him the money.
He will keep asking if you give it to him.
Instead offer to help him make some money by helping him to find a job. He will be happier if he earnes it himself.
2006-10-23 05:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by keith s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does he need it for? it would be wrong to not help him if you could and if he really needed something like food or busfare or something, if he just wants to have money to blow then dont give him anything, tell him to get a job
2006-10-23 05:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by proudest_mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go with your instincts.. If your mind is telling you not to give the money then dont give it up.... Play as broke as he is....
2006-10-23 05:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by kamillion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Given money to a friend is the best way to loose that friend.
2006-10-23 05:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a JOB, and that your not a Bank, You dont make loans.And yes, once you let him have some, he will keep comeing back.Dont do it.
2006-10-23 05:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋