Other - Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

2006-10-21 08:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by jayjay 1

Well, I really like this girl (we'll call her "Cindy") I feel like I could spend the rest of my life with this girl. I see her everyday, from 1st period, to after school. At first, it was just a "Hi" kinda friendship. Then she wouldn't talk to me at all... Now all of the sudden, when I step off the bus, I see her walk by and look back at the sound of my voice. She stops and talks to me whenever she can, and now we have long conversations. She looks for me whenever I walk out of the locker room. (I play football, and she's an athletic trainer) I've noticed that she's starting to stare at me, and actually start conversations. Does she like me? Or am I just getting my hopes up? Help!

2006-10-21 08:21:35 · 23 answers · asked by bfnd73 1

2006-10-21 08:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by cj m 2

I usually spend (I wish I could say 'waste' without feeling so guilty) over 9 hours on the internet, sometimes I spend my whole day online. I know a lot of people who spend as much time as me online and unlike me, they feel fine. In their case, there are no consequences.

I haven't been able to acces the internet for a month, and during that time I have solved all the communication issues I had with my family and the usual arguments I had with them disappeared. Although I missed being online, I felt better in a weird, unusual way.
When I was able to access the internet again, I started feeling unusually angry and I started causing arguments in my family with no reason, without even intending to. I just felt somehow disconnected from the world.
I have 2 questions:
1. Do any of you feel like this when you're on?
2. What can I do to diminish this effect that the internet has over me without having to reduce my time online?

By the way, I'm 13, so I obviously don't have much of a life.

2006-10-21 08:15:21 · 5 answers · asked by ava c 1

2006-10-21 08:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-21 08:12:52 · 12 answers · asked by marta9394 1

I want a six pack what is the best way to get that as soon as possible?

2006-10-21 08:12:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most people don’t like my boyfriend because he not as cute as most they make me feel bad for being with him. How do I ignore that?

2006-10-21 08:11:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its been 4 weeks since we split up. It was him who left me. I have come to peace with the break-up and moving past it. Sometimes it still hurts, but I'm trying hard to think about myself. I left some items at his place. The most important is my jewelery. I want this stuff back. I don't want to get back with him. I don't want to talk to him even. I just want my stuff back before he throws it in the garbage or something - and then I will be really P.O.ed. It been 1 1/2 week since the last time we had contact. And the last time was not so pleasant. (I acted like some needy, pathetic child-rather than a mature 28 yr old with everything going for her.) I realized my behaviour was irrational - but its too late now. Whats done is done. I don't want to call him because I don't want him to think I want him back. (and i assure you I DON'T) I just want my stuff back....

2006-10-21 08:11:26 · 14 answers · asked by jovy 1

I have this guy he’s sweet and kind loveable and one day we were talking he tells me a story on how he once thought he loved this girl and she told him she loved him. Later on she left him for his best friend. Than he tells me str8 he never wants to get married have kids or fall in love. But my intentions were to finish college fall in love get married and have kids. Should I give him a chance anyway or find a guy who matches with me?

2006-10-21 08:09:20 · 9 answers · asked by pittsburgs finest Patience 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Im 20 he is 26. When we first got together we had sex all the time. We couldnt get enough of eachother. We did it any where and everywhere. For the past year he doesnt seem to ever want to have sex. If I didnt beg him we would never do it. Half the time he says no because hes tired. I end up feeling like he doesnt want me and he feels pressured. I always thought the guy was one who was really sexual. When we do have sex its the same old possition every time. I even try watching porn with him and he doesnt want to. I dress up for him and it does nothing for him. My self esteem is shot. I dont know what to do anymore. We dont have any kids and he acts like we have 10 and no time to do it. I know he isnt cheating on me because he doesnt really have a chance to. I just dont know what to do please help!!!

2006-10-21 08:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by angel l 3

i have all these costumes that i baught yesturday, but i dont know which one to be. they are all cute but i cant make up my mind. im 14 and trick-or-treating and hanging out with my friends.


~minnie mouse
~cat
~playboy bunny
~saloon girl (least favorite)
~french maid

(support me with a good answer if you want 10 extra points!)

2006-10-21 08:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4

My boyfriend Tyler is cheating on me...he comes home each night drunk, and i read his email and they are usually about porn, or from a random girl. He also abuses me, he bit my arm, and broke my leg two years ago. I have known him since preschool...I still want to be with him. I love him anyway.....i love him so much...how do i break up with him? I dont wanna! should I?

2006-10-21 08:05:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-21 08:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard a rumor they were caught kissing. If you know anything about this, give me the 411. REAL ANSWERS ONLY

2006-10-21 07:58:33 · 2 answers · asked by Angel G 1

Have females changed in recent years so much that they actually prefer bad guys?

2006-10-21 07:58:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance has a 18mo daughter who the mother refuses contact with unless it's only him who sees her and that they be alone! I've met her and the baby before and she was amazed how well we all did because her daughter loved us, then she changed her rules. Since then she has called saying how much she loves him, then she hates him, then she can't be a mom at 22, she freaks out about childsupport which comes out of his check and she hasn't received. She refuses for myself or my 3 boys to meet their step-sister because she doesn't want her confused about who the mom is and who her 'true' family is. We got a lawyer and are awaiting a mediator date to start working things out. We can not realistically talk with her, she lies, she cries all the time, she threatens to send her friends to beat him up, she wants him to take down his myspace because he has pictures of our family and she doesn't think that's right. She wants him to call her but he refuses unless it's about the baby. All we want..

2006-10-21 07:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by llbm3 2

We broke up. We'd been together 4 years and on Monday night after wrk, we got into a heated arguement which resulted in our breakup.I figured it'd blow over like heated arguements usually tend to. I was wrong. I haven't seen him since Monday night, and he doesn't seem to want to see me at all. I've begged in different ways. I've called, I've written, I've texted.. It's almost as if someone flicked an 'off' switch in him. Doesn't he love me anymore? Doesn't he care? How is it so easy for him? I called him last night wanting to talk. I was prepared to beg and sob all night if that's what it took. He didn't even want to talk to me. He said he "couldn't do this right now", and hung up. We've been 2gether 4 years and he has NEVER been this indifferent about us. This cold. I'm hurting so bad that the pain actually feels physical. I was up all night just sobbing. Does it go away? Doesn't he care anymore? How do I come to terms with it if he doesnt? All our memories gone? Done? Just like that?

2006-10-21 07:53:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-21 07:52:45 · 7 answers · asked by Wolfie 7

My husband has a job that I'm not really agreeing to right now. He keeps on staying out late, and he basically doesnt have time for his family.he told me that his work is flexi time but he is always out. I'm starting to get tired of all his excuses and I feel like its pulling our relationship down. I told him to get a job that is more secure and atleast give him time for his family. but he wouldnt do it, I'm to the point where in I feel like giving up on him and calling it quits. It feels like he's not even doing anything to reach out, I tried doing my part but it's usesless. What should I do?

2006-10-21 07:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother and his girl friend they broke up and me and her are really good friends and im really sad and i dont know what to do and i want them to get back together :-(
i need help and hurry!!!!

2006-10-21 07:45:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a boy older than me keeps asking me whetjer I can cook or am i cooking something??

2006-10-21 07:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am happily married. But I seem to be having weird dreams that I am cheating or my husband is cheating. I had a dream one night that my son and I moved out because of this? Does this mean anything? Or What does this mean?

2006-10-21 07:42:06 · 23 answers · asked by Nan 1

i just want to do something different, to make him feel special and me feel good!!!!!!

2006-10-21 07:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by lesa 2

my bf and i have been dating 6 months, he had a child with ex(she got preg on 2nd date) the baby was 3mths early so they went through alot together. She is white trash, been in jail and psycho. we met when baby was 9mths and he left her for me. she went off the deep end, stalking, threatening to kill us, courts said she could not be around baby unless she did drug test(supervised visit) she wouldn't. one day she threatens and the next day its "i wanna be a family, i love you". my bf told me i'm the love of his life and wants to marry, yet she mindf**ks him and makes him feel guilty because we "did" this to her. I just found out he has been calling her and I asked him about it. he says he cares for her but why would he hide it from me? he says its cuz it gets me upset. I don't know if he's lying. i love him and i'm a mature adult (divorced) and i want to believe him but am i being a fool? what questions should i ask him to find out the truth of the matter? sorry this was so long

2006-10-21 07:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by blu_eyed_blonde1972 1

Hey I said to my Mrs about going out lastnight because we have a long distance relationship it's hard ect..

she said she does'nt like me going out because people do stupid stuff when they are drunk and she said this when I asked her if she did'nt mind me going
out tonight...."i really dont know, do whatever you want to..who am i to stop you".So I told her she is my Girlfreind and ofcourse I care what she wants
but this is stupid all i want to do is have some fun i'm 18 and I should be enjoying myself instead i'm stuck in having no life just whilst she gets goes to movies with her mates...Is she just paranoid I might do something with someone else ??? which I wont I love her to much to hurt her in that way... or
is she controlling me too much now and I should break away ??..

2006-10-21 07:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the perfect gift to give for your aniversery. NO PARTIES...

2006-10-21 07:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by pittsburgs finest Patience 1

today is my bday, all day long waited for my husband to wish me but he didnt and at last he faught with me , what a great bday anybody out there cares to wish me happy bday and make my day...............................................

2006-10-21 07:38:16 · 19 answers · asked by dax 2

I've been w/ my husband for 6 yrs now. Just a few mths after we got married, he told me something that really hurt me. You see I've always had a low self esteem when it comes to my appearance. I've been criticized by almost everyone I know from a very young age. I told him of this and how it's affected me. Then 1 day out of the blu as I was just minding my own bizness, he came to me and said, "U have an ugly face!" I responded, "Gosh, ur so mean." I thought he was just trying to be mean, but he responded, "It's the truth!" I went to bed in tears. How could someone who made me feel so beautiful after all those yrs make me feel so ugly just after a few words? That night, I stopped loving him. I still care for him, but I was no longer in love with him. I wanted him to say he was sorry and that he really does think I'm beautiful. He never did even when I told him how hurt I was. Sometimes I want to leave him, but I jus keep thinking that noone's gonna love me more anyway.

2006-10-21 07:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my friend how I feel about him, and he said some good things but he didn't make his self clear to me. I know that i am older than him and he thinks that i my not really want to be with him foreal, but i do. All that has happened in my life for the last past two years he has kept me going, he always there for me and my boys, he makes me feel so good about myself i think that i really do love him, but i do have a problem, my kids dad is staying at my house, he came into some bad luck and, i helped him out, Today he moving out, i told my friend, but he thinks that i am not foreal about us. i was just trying to help the person that help me bring two beautiful kids into this world. we have no relationship what so ever. I was just helping him!!! do you think that me freind will still want to maintain that speical relationship that we have and take it futher?????????

2006-10-21 07:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by lesa 2