I have this guy he’s sweet and kind loveable and one day we were talking he tells me a story on how he once thought he loved this girl and she told him she loved him. Later on she left him for his best friend. Than he tells me str8 he never wants to get married have kids or fall in love. But my intentions were to finish college fall in love get married and have kids. Should I give him a chance anyway or find a guy who matches with me?
2006-10-21 08:09:20 · 9 answers · asked by pittsburgs finest Patience 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look for a real man somewhere else.
2006-10-21 08:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, just because he feels this way now, does not mean he will not change his mind later. You could be just the one to do that. It's just the fear of being hurt again. Once someone falls head over heels for another, you forget all the pain, and look forward to sharing your life with someone new. Don't ever give up.
2006-10-21 08:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you two have two different outlooks on your future. It is not going to work out. Your future is the rest of your life. It is good that you know what your future plans are. But I don't see how it could work out. You need to find someone who wants a marriage and children and everything else that you wish for.
2006-10-21 08:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance- the two of u might not work out for other reasons. plus, he might fall for u (even if he doesn't want to) and he may change his mind. he was just hurt
2006-10-21 08:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No find someone who thinks like you do and wants the same things!
2006-10-21 08:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people that have been hurt will say those things. don't worry if your the person that he really loves his thoughts will change. as long as your not pushy about it.
2006-10-21 08:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy who matches with you!!!
2006-10-21 08:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you really want to be with him /just say today/.
2006-10-21 08:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-10-21 08:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋