Hey I said to my Mrs about going out lastnight because we have a long distance relationship it's hard ect..
she said she does'nt like me going out because people do stupid stuff when they are drunk and she said this when I asked her if she did'nt mind me going
out tonight...."i really dont know, do whatever you want to..who am i to stop you".So I told her she is my Girlfreind and ofcourse I care what she wants
but this is stupid all i want to do is have some fun i'm 18 and I should be enjoying myself instead i'm stuck in having no life just whilst she gets goes to movies with her mates...Is she just paranoid I might do something with someone else ??? which I wont I love her to much to hurt her in that way... or
is she controlling me too much now and I should break away ??..
2006-10-21 07:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your right Mandy i don't get hammered just merry.. i wold rather talk to her than do anything else in the world... that encludes getting merry..but if she not here to talk to i just like to do things to make the time past faster
2006-10-21 07:49:18 · update #1
You are too young to be in a long distance relationship - you need to be out having fun.
I think you need to seriously think about wether you want to continue this relationship.
2006-10-21 07:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well go out but don't get drunk....stay away from bad influences. Maybe ask her which friends of yours that she trusts and go out adn have a good time with them. Prove to her you can have a good time adn stay outta trouble. She muct have had some bad experiences in the past and needs reassurance. I
f you love her and care about her and you feel it is something that you want to last then work with her. Tell her you love her and that you respect her but that you need something to do if she is far away and can't hang out with you all the time. It sounds like you do love her so tell her calmly your dillema.....don't get angry or fight about it because that will only make her trust you less.
Good luck with this one hun....I know it is hard to maintain a realtionship when one person is s little jealous....
Hope this helped you!!!
2006-10-21 07:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by })i({ J and D's Momma })i({ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to reassure her that just because people do stupid stuff when they are drunk it doesn't mean you will. you still have to have a life and your young so enjoy yourself as well. she can't expect you to stay in all the time if she goes out. talk to her about it, i'm sure you can work it out
2006-10-21 07:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by feefee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little double standards going on there, you need to sort it out or you will find your self doind things and not telling her, because it is easier. thats when it will fail
2006-10-21 07:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18, if you want to be told what to do, go home to mummy and daddy.
2006-10-24 07:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats good for the goose is good for the gander.go out and enjoy your self she is.
2006-10-21 08:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋