I am happily married. But I seem to be having weird dreams that I am cheating or my husband is cheating. I had a dream one night that my son and I moved out because of this? Does this mean anything? Or What does this mean?
2006-10-21 07:42:06 · 23 answers · asked by Nan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have these alot. It doesn't mean much from what I get. This is more internal thoughts coming out than anything. I usually get them when I am 1) really exausted, 2) My depression is acting up 3) insecure or experiencing conflict in my marriage.
The best way to 'exorcise the demon' that I've found is 1) Write down all the dreams in as much detail as possible, 2) Get as much done the morning after a dream (it puts more input into your mind and you won't be as apt to commiserate over them), 3) try to take care of your physical health as much as possible, 4) Conciously focus on your relationship with your husband. Focus on the positive points of the relationship, him and definately yourself. Reminesce about what your relationship was like when you were dating, why you married him, etc...
This is the best that I've got off of the top of my head. Hope this helps!
2006-10-21 07:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by baabaababy77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have dreams like this, especially more than once, it usually means that it is something that is on your mind or that is troubling you. In other words, you are worried that it might be going on or that it could happen. Maybe somthing isn't going so well right at the moment or maybe even everything is just going a little TOO well, you know the whole... too good to be true thing. Either way your subconscious is concerned that this is something that is happening or might happen and it is coming through in your dreams. Maybe you should talk to your husband about it. Get it out in the open rather than have it bottled up. Good luck!
2006-10-21 07:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Gina L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your Dreams are this way, because you worry in real life, or get the urdge to cheat in real life? Dreaming is what the mind is thinking. Could you perhaps, think that he's cheating on you in real life? Are you scared that you might cheat? Talk to him about this, in a soft way, tell him your worries, tell him you don't know why you think this, and maybe you can have some light shed on this subject. Remeber that if you don't talk to you, no matter how hard it seems, nothing can happen that'll help you.
2006-10-21 07:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by kreatorgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams don't mean anything, the only thing it could possibly mean is that you're afraid of losing your family. Dreams are just based on what the mind has been thinking about, but believe me, the brain can't just pick up on weither or not something is going on (in this case, you or your husband cheating).
2006-10-21 07:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are u cheating on him? Well if so why are u? Well if you are having these dreams then if ur not cheating then he must be! So have u asked him? Well if not that is something u need to do then when u get ur answer just deal with it the best way possible. If u love him and he loves u then u need to try to make it work but if not then u need to leave him! I just hope for the best with u and this and hope that no one is cheatin and everything goes well!
2006-10-21 07:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say what you go to bed with on your mind you will dream about it.It means down deep you that you are afraid that he will cheat on you and you show signs of wanting a little cheating yourself. Dreams always tell us what is our mind even though you don't realize it, but your thoughts are going toward cheating
2006-10-21 07:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prehaps you have insecurities in the relationship. Not necessarily physical ones but others that are causing you to subconsciouslly question your relationship. Or it may be that you desire more from life (or love) and the cheating allows you to have both. And when your husband is cheating, you maybe telling yourself that you are holding him back from things that he wants to do... just a guess.
2006-10-21 07:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by blessedwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are little plays your mind writes to entertain you when you're asleep. They don't contain outside-world truths. You're probably very afraid of that situation developing, so your mind is using your nightly down-time to explore different aspects of the cheating situation (notice that sometimes it's him and sometimes it's you, if you want to reassure yourself that all this is what-if land). It's just your mind playing. Get what lessons you can out of it, otherwise don't let your dreams influence your actions. Good luck.
2006-10-21 07:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pray and cancel the dream, sure something is looming around. How strong is your husband, watch him closely he may be having an affair or a lady is planning to snatch him from you. Act fast
2006-10-21 08:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probly is not as happy in your love or sex life as you would to like to be. Look though your thoughts and se if you can spot any trouble or doubts.
Also know that you are not alone. It's human nature to wonder how it would be with soenmone else for both of you.. Everyone feels that way at times and you are no exception.. It's human and natural.
2006-10-21 07:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋