Its been 4 weeks since we split up. It was him who left me. I have come to peace with the break-up and moving past it. Sometimes it still hurts, but I'm trying hard to think about myself. I left some items at his place. The most important is my jewelery. I want this stuff back. I don't want to get back with him. I don't want to talk to him even. I just want my stuff back before he throws it in the garbage or something - and then I will be really P.O.ed. It been 1 1/2 week since the last time we had contact. And the last time was not so pleasant. (I acted like some needy, pathetic child-rather than a mature 28 yr old with everything going for her.) I realized my behaviour was irrational - but its too late now. Whats done is done. I don't want to call him because I don't want him to think I want him back. (and i assure you I DON'T) I just want my stuff back....
2006-10-21 08:11:26 · 14 answers · asked by jovy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you really dont have much choice in the matter if you want your things you will have to call him. make arrangments with him as to when you can come and get your things ask him nicely to have all the things ready when you arrive. and bring along a friend so that they can stop any kind of crap before it gets started.
2006-10-21 08:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe text him, or just call him and tell him you would like your stuff, if seems more mature and adult if you do rather than have someone else do it... You can even offer him to drop it off w/someone else, friend or family that way it doesn't look like an excuse to see him...just make sure when you talk to him, don't prolong the conversation keep it short and to the point!!!!
2006-10-21 15:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by angesky2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyone who could help U, like a friend? Even if it is one of his? A relative, teacher, his neighbor if ya know 1. I'd write a note, short, just asking for a time to pick it ALL up for him to leave it on the porch for an example. Be nice, and ask him to please be nice about it and mature. Good luck!!
2006-10-21 15:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and ask him, or send a friend round to collect everything. before he throws it all out or gives it to his next girl friend. Men can be pathetic sometimes. The pain will be there for awhile. And your behaviour is completely natural. Dont worry, one year limit and you will be fine again. Just have to get back out there and start dating and having fun again. Dont shut yourself away.
2006-10-21 15:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by ANGEL-T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get it now. Go over there with a friend. That way you'll have support, and you won't fall into that needy ex-girlfriend routine. You'll feel much better, and it will bring some closure.
2006-10-21 15:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him. But, it'll be much more mature for you to call him and tell him you need your stuffs back. that you want to get it over with, so you won't have to talk to him anymore.
2006-10-21 15:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good friend of yours contact him and set up a time to pick up your stuff. Done. Easy.
2006-10-21 15:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call when he's not gonna answer and leave a message on the machine.
2006-10-21 15:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by small is to big 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna have to call him and ask. Dont tell him you dont want him back. Just be cool. Call him and say " Hey ______ I wanted to know if I can stop by on ________ to get my stuff? "
2006-10-21 15:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest using an intermediary to retrieve your personal things.
2006-10-21 15:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋