Friends - December 2007

i have been best friends with two girls for a couple of years but lately things have gotten a little weird. We hang out in this big group and i dont really know or like the other girls. It seems like my friends have just lost interest in me and i want to try and make other friends but im shy...and afraid they will get mad or something

2007-12-03 11:50:12 · 11 answers · asked by swimgirl 2

ok there is a group of friends that I hanged out with all the time last year. Their names are F and AH. But this year its different because F's best friend A broke up with her bf and now she is hanging out with F and AH. At the beginning of the school year i knew that it wasn't a good time to hang out with F and AH and A because I know that A needed time to talk with her closer friends about her breakup. So I hang out with my other friend SA. I like hanging out with her but I miss hanging out with F and AH and A. Except S does not like F and AH and A. But i seriously wanna hang out with them everyday. When i hang out with S it can be boring sometimes but when im with F, AH and A i have a good laugh and lots of fun.
What should I do? Im like stuck in between. Im in grade 10 by the way if that matters. Im feeling so sad about this i don't know why. Please give me advice.
Thanks for reading this!

2007-12-03 11:20:33 · 2 answers · asked by yoyogirl 2

My friend keeps copying me at whatever I wear, listen to, and more. He is basically a mimic. I used to wear a derby everywhere but when he started wearing one I stopped. Also I used to have a bandana hanging out of my back pocket but now he is even doing it. It works like this with almost everything. Everyone is starting to believe Im copying him because I dont hang around people much. I want to be an individual but with this idiot as my friend I cant be whatever I want to be. I need to know a way to make him stop without damaging the friendship and without making myself look like an idiot. I like the *** kissing and all but I hate it when I hang around him. Is there a way to make him stop without me looking like an idiot and tarnishing the friendship?

2007-12-03 11:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by Jakob Sixx 1

I went into college knowing i didn't want to go. the only reason i did is so i could have insurance b/c i have a permanent sickness i have to deal wit and so i could have a place to live b/c my mother likes to put people out on the street. I'm an 18 year old female in northwest indiana just starting out . I'm looking for a job but its really hard b/c the jobs i apply for always say they are looking for more experience but people with more experience had to start of somewhere right? but i was thinking of taking up an trade but i don't know what trade i can do as a female mentally and physically. it would be wonderful if somone could really give me some advice or guidance.

2007-12-03 10:57:06 · 13 answers · asked by Wasting my time 2

Me and my cousin use to get along fine,but the past year he's changed and gone really moody. I went to stay with him for a weeks holiday and he was sarcastic with me the whole time i was there,he even argued with me over something lame. He criticised my new bf saying that he will cheat on me and my cousin is a hypocrite because i know he's cheated on his wife. He is coming down the weekend and i feel like i dont want anything to do with him at all,am i being harsh?i'm starting to not like this man at all,no matter what i say he will always reply in a sarcastic tone

2007-12-03 10:33:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-03 10:25:20 · 13 answers · asked by the girl 1

he has piercings,a big tattoo,escapes from his house ,he doesn't listen to his parents and even when he is grounded he does whatever he wants, about 1 month ago he went to a bar and had sex with 2 girls :s .. i really need your help to stop him doing this horrible things
he is only 14

2007-12-03 09:38:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

M'kay soooo....my birthday is on Thursday!!!
I'm a teenager.
I WAS going to have a party, but changed my mind at the last minute. Instead, I'm just spending the whole day with my two best friends. Besides, movies, mall, restaurant, and skating, what other fun things can we do??

PS. Don't say "go to an amusement" park because there are none around here whatsover.

2007-12-03 09:09:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

like in school or somethin?

2007-12-03 08:42:59 · 12 answers · asked by Lina chan 3

I'm gone all day, guaranteed because of work and school. But I swear my stuff is moved around. I'm looking for some sort of effective, but relatively cheap, way to prove it before I confront her; I just moved in three months ago.

2007-12-03 08:21:37 · 47 answers · asked by rebeccacoons 2

She has also been out of work with health problems. She has had heart problems and been sick alot.

2007-12-03 08:01:03 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1

well... everyday my mom drives me home from school because i normally walk and its way to cold to walk now. there is this girl that not too many people like that asks for a ride home everyday. everyday no matter how fast i run to my moms car she gets a ride somehow because i act too nice. when people see me with her they think im her friend! i am so not and sorry but i dont want to be. i dont have the guts or heart to tell her off. also its so cold out and ill feel bad if i make her walk... I HATE THIS!!!! please help me with ways to get her off my back in a not-mean manner THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!! [:
~Carly

2007-12-03 07:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been her friend for six years but i dont know if i love her or not.. lately i keep sms with her and lately i always thinking about her.. i dont know why becoz everytime she sms me, im very exited to reply her msg.. she said she already give up to be a couple.. she said friend is friend.. i dont know if i love her or not, but my heart tells me that i love her. i dont know what she might think of me.. everytime i ask her out watch movie or bowling, she did not want becoz she afraid being gossip with others.. but everytime she had a problem, she shared her problem with me and i try to help her and i dont know is it work or not.. wut should i do with dis situation.. am i in love.. if im in love with her, wut should i do.. everytime i call her, she didnt want to pick up my call.. how to tell her that i love her.. is it enough if i just make a blog to tell about my feellings to her..

2007-12-03 06:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by raymond 1

How many true friends do you have?

2007-12-03 06:42:57 · 35 answers · asked by love my baby 2

It's a sick love triangle.
In the past, there was very brief sexual with boy (we'll cal him nick) and girl 1 (we'll call her sally). She claimed to be changed forever. Orgasming 20 times in one night. No joke. Later, boy falls in love her best friend (we'll call her Beth).
Beth isn't mad about the past sexual relations, for there was no emotional connection between them... at least from Nick's side... But she doesn't want Nick and Sally to be alone together.
Sally then come clean and says she's in love with Nick. She has lost her sexual drive do to him, because she doesn't think anyone can match up. Sally tells Beth that she's over Nick, and says she understands why they can't be alone together, but then get upset with Nick for "abandoning" their friendship, and says she's still in love with him.
Beth doesn't know what to do. Sally is her best friend, but she's isn't telling her the truth.
Nick is catch in the middle somewhere... What to do, oh, what to do?

2007-12-03 06:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by Nato 2

Some of my friends have made themselves obvious at church but I am not sure where they are coming from, friendly in a christian way or something else?

2007-12-03 06:34:32 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

their aunty is dead?

She was really close to her, and I dont know how to act tomorrow. I am normally a very happy person, We are best friends, and I dont know whether to act normal, - wouldnt this seem insensitive?

and if I act 'sorry' I will seem depressing and make her cry,



WHAT DO I ACT LIKE? ;/

2007-12-03 06:20:15 · 29 answers · asked by Zorro. 5

People always say I'm too quiet as if it's a bad thing but I don't think it is. I'm just not loud and attention seeking. Should I try and be more confident or stick to the way I am? Or am I paranoid?

2007-12-03 04:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by My name should go here. 2

recently, a guy asked me whether i saw him as a friend or something more. i confessed i that i had a crush on him. he said he adored me as his friend and liked me. he also said that i was his priority one and in college he liked hanging out with me the most.
the question: is he interested in going around with me in or not if no then why would he ask me that question in the first place... did i make a mistake by confessing
people please do help as i am really confused...

2007-12-03 04:00:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am acquainted with a very sweet woman who talks too much. She always has to share personal problems with our group of friends. She also calls us at home and doesn't seem to realize she's taking up too much time. I know I sound cold and unfeeling but I'm tired of listening to her! I don't want to hurt her feelings but can't take much more of her yakking. Can you suggest a gentle way to deal with her?

P.S. I don't have caller ID on my home phone and don't want to get it, so please don't make that suggestion.

2007-12-03 03:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Miz D 6

2007-12-03 03:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by smartshady10 1

i know dumb question but me and a mate have dared each other 2 get the most answers. if not then i have 2 something. do not know what he have not decided.i would have just say give me lots answers but thats not playing by the rules. i`m asking 4 at lest two hundred

2007-12-03 03:48:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for a pen pal, I dont know how to go about it. I am not a loaner or anything like that. You sometimes you just want to talk to people that you dont know and they dont know you.

2007-12-03 03:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by Twinkle 2

Ok, my friend who has had a reputation for being a moody cow just put the icing on the cake today. We were walking down from school, and then I said,"Thomas is really hard on robyn" and then she went "so are you", I stopped and then said,"Like when ?", then she stormed off saying "Stfu." She has done this before, every time it gets to me. So I went up to Robyn and SHE even said,"You are not like that at all." She then pulled me so a sub clued area,"Listen, don't let her contradict you, she is a moody ***** and is saying that for the sake of it, don't let it get to you" I know my friend is right but I still feel depressed. Moody cow used to do this (I've asked prev. questions) a lot. She was the one who was the bully. Why do I still feel depressed even though my friend told me that ? I feel so betrayed and insecure right now ...

2007-12-03 03:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by pop 4

My male best friend has been skipping school and I dont know how to convince him to stop, He is a scorpio, he's 15 ysrs old, He has divorced parents, and his step father is a drunk, his best frind isn't helping, he's skipping with him, and he also has his own problems, They claim that they dont want to deal with all the bull sh*t that goes on in school, I keep trying to tell them that they are making their life worst by not going to class, someone please help me out I dont want to be the only one to graduate from my friends alone and I love them way to much for them to ruin their lifes so easy.

2007-12-03 03:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by Thick~Chick 2

she see me,but doesnot talk.

2007-12-03 02:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by smona99 1

this girl in the room with us just turned silent. as we were talking moments later the girl ask what we were conversating about and i said that we were not talking about her and she said that it didn't matter because she already got hers out and that she didn't have any secrets because it's best to get it out because it can make your head hurt and she said she has a husband and a boyfriend. what is she trying to tell us?

2007-12-03 02:34:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My niece is 13 yrs old. She is very pretty, bright but mostly she is a sweet, loving young lady. She is an only child. Since she has been in 8th grade, there are a couple of "mean" girls - girls that just don't like her for some unknown reason. I think they are jealous b/c that is usually what happens between girls. She doesn't get invited to parties that these girls are going to.

I think she is too nice and that's part of the problem. If she fought , I think they would back down. My sister-in-law wants her to be all nice-nice and act like it doesn't bother her that these girls are saying mean things. My niece is a "good girl" - she doesn't date and my brother & his wife made her cancel her myspace page b/c it was becoming an obsession with her.

Some of these mean girls are already having sex!!!

Is there any advice that I could give her to help with this situation? I hate to think of these girls being mean to such a sweet girl.

2007-12-03 01:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5

2007-12-02 23:19:02 · 14 answers · asked by kaylapolin 1

2007-12-02 22:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Polash 2