Why is my cousin so nasty?

Question

Me and my cousin use to get along fine,but the past year he's changed and gone really moody. I went to stay with him for a weeks holiday and he was sarcastic with me the whole time i was there,he even argued with me over something lame. He criticised my new bf saying that he will cheat on me and my cousin is a hypocrite because i know he's cheated on his wife. He is coming down the weekend and i feel like i dont want anything to do with him at all,am i being harsh?i'm starting to not like this man at all,no matter what i say he will always reply in a sarcastic tone

Answer 1

Call him on it. Part of being a friend (yes in ever relationship you should strive to be THIS sort of friend) is SMACKING the crap out of a person for being stupid, because you know them ENOUGH to know when their being stupid. And give them a big old hug when their being smart, because you know them ENOUGH to know when their being smart. That said, tell him that he's being a sarcastic ****** and your just not going to deal with it, unless he acts like he's got a heart, and an f'in pair between his legs, instead of acting like gods OWN whooping boy. Trust, I've done the same, if your heart-felt, honest, and NOT A BIT PRIDFUL about it, he'll listen, because in the end, love is what the heart wants, its what the heart needs. And love can be cruel, if it needs to be, now go love this man! BROW-BEAT HIM FOR HIS STUPIDITY!!! If he fights you, you'll win in the long run, becuase he is being a sarcastic ******, that takes energy thats HARD to keep up, so be surprised if not THEN, later, he well owe you respect, anything less, is what you've been doing.....