Friends - December 2007

ok, im super shy, and im in 8th grade. and this year i made a friend named kate, and yesterday she told me this, "Lexi, wen i first met u i thot u were a stuck up brat, because u were so shy, u kno" and i didnt like that she thought this. it made me feel bad. So, my question is, When i meet new people or friends, how can i act friendly and fun and get them to like me right away? i dont want people to think i am stuck up or anything.

Plz dont say Be yourself, cuz being myself is SHY and i dont like that. Plz tell me some things that wud help. thanx.

2007-12-06 12:46:49 · 1 answers · asked by _♥Lexi♥_ 1

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2007-12-06 12:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my mom grounded me from going to one side of my town. how stupid is that? its where all my friends live including my best friend. but its also where everyone drinks and stuff. but like she cant ground me from half the town? shes basically saying i cant hang out with half my friends which is so unfair and she grounded me because i wouldnt tell her what i was doing one night, because i didnt want to get my friends in trouble. i had to go help my friends cause they needed me. but i cant tell my mom. but anyways she was liek you're going to be ruining our relationship for people you wont even know in a couple of years? and i was like yes. and now shes all nice to me all the time and trying to get me to spend time with her. i just dont get it. help please with all these stupid problems

2007-12-06 12:35:02 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met these two guys when i first started working at my job 3 months a go. Until just recently, about a month ago, we have been joking a lot with each other. With christmas comming up i can't think of anything to get them. They both have a girlfriends so it's not that type of a relationship. Any advice on what would be best to get them???

Oh one is my age, which is 19 and the other is 26.

2007-12-06 12:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by aquarius7air 3

People are often surprised that I am best friends with the person I am because we look radically different to the casual glance. However, deep down when you get to the nuts and bolts we are very much the same.

2007-12-06 11:37:14 · 3 answers · asked by genaddt 7

theres this girl at school....and she really drives me nuts, we have never got on but its just getting ridiculous now, she is always muttering little comments ( we are both friends with this girl that we both get on fine wid ), and its like if i look at her she'll go What the F**k are you looking at youre so f**king ugly, or if i dont understand something shes's like " oh your so stupid " and today in dance when i was sitting down she " accidently " kneed me in the side of the head, i hate her so much, all she does is makes nasty litlle snippy comments at me, but she doesnt do it in a horrible in my face way just in a yappy irritating way...does this still count as bullying though?
I ended up crying in dance today coz i couldnt do the dance and she was just going on and on at me so i kind of snapped and called her a stupid little dog..is it bullying what she is doin even though it isnt in a menacing way..just in a way that puts me down?

2007-12-06 09:06:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ahve this friend well she is my best friend really i have know her since i was a little girl but i just found out that she has sleeped with my boyfriend who i have been with 4 years what shall i do
do i forgive her on not she brake my heart

2007-12-06 08:40:34 · 26 answers · asked by kim 2

i was coming out of computing, and some yr12s were waiting to come in, and one of them i know quite well, was like "oh abby. it's not going to work out, he's gay. get over it. i mean, i know he's tall and..." then he basically started describing the guy standing next to him. then the guy looked at me all disgusted and walked into the class.
and now i don't know what to do, because we were becoming like, quite good friends (the gay guy, not the c*nt). i tried explaining to him that i rly don't like him in that way, but he just turned his back on me and prowled off.

what should i do pls?

2007-12-06 08:32:42 · 5 answers · asked by . 3

I have been asked to provide a reference for my housemate who is moving shortly, what information should be on there?

2007-12-06 08:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by spikycacti 2

My best guy friend is dating one of my best friends. They used to hold hands and stuff but now the seem like they never talk, shes being mean to him. I dont think she likes him anymore but I'm not sure and same with him. What should I do?

2007-12-06 08:13:37 · 42 answers · asked by Shopaholic905 2

im in 8th grade and i have to deal with picking high schools and every thing. i am the only one actually doing something. My parents have not helped me one bit and im stressed like crazy. All my friend's other parents are helping them but i am the only one doing it all by my self.

im afraid im not going to get into any of my schools and that i will get into a bad one!

what should i do?

2007-12-06 08:06:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend lost to me in a bet and he said i could dress him in anything. he is a guy, and he could pass as a girl i think, but what should he wear. i am gonna go all out because i finally won, after losing 5 prior times. he will see how hard it is.i cant wait. i no this sounds mean but he has got me even worse so dont hold back on the details

2007-12-06 07:57:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 07:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i won a bet while playing basketball, and now i get to dress by friend as a girl for a day. i have some ideas, but i want to know what you people think. he has to do everything we tell him and he has to go in public with us. were talking the whole nine yards. he has long blonde hair that could cover his eyes, and he is a good height. i want to get back at him really bad becasue we have made bets in the past and i hae had to humiliate myself, but now the tables have turned. please no mean comments or anything like that. thanks for your help.!!
1 hour ago - 1 week left to answer.

please if you can though give me links to places with good ideas so me and my girlfriends can choose

should we make him wear a thong.?i mean he is my good friend, but what ive had to do for loosing is so bad i dont wish to say it. so i think he deserves all.what do you think

2007-12-06 07:14:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do to try to help him/her?

2007-12-06 06:52:26 · 8 answers · asked by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7

Olivia or Blanca? My friends name is Blanca and her middle name is Olivia, and we are trying to see which one is better because i like Blanca cuz its not common, and she likes Olivia.

2007-12-06 06:52:07 · 17 answers · asked by housedoglemons 2

Basically, We were both in the same class in high school, she's a couple years younger than me. We were really good friends in High school, used to talk every day, talk to each other at lunch and used to talk for hours online. I graduated, and had so much course load, i did not get a chance to talk to her for more than year. I finally talked to her a couple times when i found her on facebook, but that was deleted almost immediately. A few weeks back without even meeting her for over a year, i felt i liked her. So i talked to a friend and asked her if she can ask get me her contact info. thats when i found out that this girl feels i stalked her. even though, i havent met her in 2 years, and talked only a couple times on facebook, and a couple times i asked her friend about why she deleted her facebook. this was almost 6 months ago. what do i do? how do i fix this? its wierd situation. because i cant talk to her, because i'm worried that would make me look worse.

2007-12-06 06:46:43 · 34 answers · asked by blaze149 2

2007-12-06 06:42:42 · 11 answers · asked by xxx 2

but how to i tell them without them geting upset at me. I am talking about 15 year old friends... what should i do

2007-12-06 06:31:23 · 22 answers · asked by Jonatan 1

I got talking to my mate since aug when he asked me to lunch which i went and we had a good time and since then ive asked him three times to lunch which has always been lunch sounds great and sure thing. But how can u tell if they do like u or just being polite. My instincts say he does like me as were always laughing n joking bout stuff and he is a tease. But i worry that maybe hes just being nice so how can u tell. If he cant make lunch hell phone me and applogise and if we go and he has a curry he asks me

2007-12-06 06:26:52 · 4 answers · asked by shelley 1

What should i do? im scared?
Im scared i don't know what 2 do. if something happened to him. He normal pick up or at least he normal txt bk wt should i do? i kept ringing him all day but no answer.

A friend of mine was called “weirdo” by a girl he doesn’t really know. He got really upset, then he went home crying. I rang him a couple of times but he didn’t pick up. He doesn’t like it when people judgei him and he doesn’t like judging people. It has been 2 days since she called him weirdo and he still doesn’t pick dup.

I’m worried because hes suffering from depression and shyness and he might do something dodgy. He might commit suicide because he has told me couple of times about death. He always says that he doesn’t understand the people, himself and the world.

His really friendly, kind and very caring but people don’t understand him because of his shyness. His really shy.

I do understand him because i stuffed from depression and shyness but i asked ofr help. he doesn't want anyone to know about his depression and shyness.

What should i do

2007-12-06 06:07:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a question before about someone who says they aren't ready for a relationship with a girl i've dated a little over a month.

I said I would leave for good eventually because it hurts caring so much for a person that wouldn't have the same feelings and couldn't have that pain forever.

A couple people stated that a good/true friend would still be a freind and there for someone even if it did hurt.

Do you think thats true and right, or is it right to break it off completely because you are in pain?

2007-12-06 06:02:41 · 9 answers · asked by Robert R 3

she still blames for this /my freind asked me to hold her cell phone for her i told her to remind me to give it to her,she said ok so i put it in my jacket pocket but i had forgoten i wasnt wearing MY jacket i was wearing this other girls jacket so at the end of the day me and my freind switched back jackets but i had completly forgotten about the phone so when i got on the bus my freinds goes you can give me my phone now i was like ok ,i searced my pockets and was like omg,i dont know where it is,she got pissed at me and was like stop playing give me my f*cking phone,i was like im not kidding,so she gets mad and tells everyone i stole her phone,4 days later my freind ali comes up to me and says,oh you forgot your phone in my jacket,i took the phone taped it to her locker w/a note that said hers your "f*cking phone" p.s ali had it..but still all the time when we argue shell always bring up that i "lost" her phone i tell her it wasnt my fault but she says it was, whos fault was it?

2007-12-06 06:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by meow!!! 1

When did you had to pee very bad but you couldn't go?
Funny Question :-P.
Don't take it to seriouse, to me it happend some years ago, I was on a highway and there was very much traffic.
Have you ever had an accident :-D?

2007-12-06 06:00:49 · 17 answers · asked by Sunshine 3

My friend says his father is black.My friend has no black traits.And on top of that he has blond hair and blue eyes!!!

2007-12-06 05:41:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found this text on my boyfriends phone, it says (OK i have trousers on today, what pic would you like? X ) Am i being paranoid or should i be more than a little curious about this?

2007-12-06 05:11:28 · 23 answers · asked by cc 2

What would my friends and family think if I commited suicide?? Would they be sad or mad at me? What would my TEACHERS think??? I am really quiet at school.

2007-12-06 05:08:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought an item off beay on the 26th of november i payed for it instantly the seller says they sent it 1st class on friday and it hasnt arrived she hasnt given me proof that it was sent so at the moment its just her word for it.She says she cant do anything for 2 weeks what can i do?

2007-12-06 04:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by Alicia27 1

i'm really bored... would you share your thoughts to a stranger?... any random thoughts?.... hmmm

2007-12-06 03:43:35 · 3 answers · asked by ♀ 2

Do you think its a good or bad idea for old friends to become new lovers?
I don't know if I really want our life-long friendship to be ended if we ever dated and broke up.

2007-12-06 03:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous