Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

Why is it that some people can be so logical in other peoples situations and irrational about them selfs? My girlfriend is always rational and logical in what i should do but, anything with her she will not see reason. I never want her to think i am trying to tell her what to do but, in her life she is irrational. She does or does not do things that will hurt her later. And when I try to explain why she needs to do something she gets angry at me. I do not understand.

2007-03-28 14:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by burn409 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 14:27:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what things are a no no?

2007-03-28 14:27:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-28 14:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by Abdul K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 14:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by Snow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alone for the men. Peace

2007-03-28 14:26:17 · 17 answers · asked by Ashanti W 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and I like talking about boys with my friends (NOT WITH MY PARENTS) I also do have a few crushes on some guys and I think there are a lot of actors that are cute. But, I have never had a boyfriend before and never been kissed. I am a lil bit shy though. Is that weird to be really interested in boys but not be ready for a boyfriend yet?

2007-03-28 14:26:01 · 20 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I answered a question about something like this a few minutes ago...honestly, what is accomplished by making fun of someone else's physical appearance? We're all different. Not one of us is any better than anyone else. That's my take on it, anyways. When I look at someone, I don't see a fat person, skinny person, short person, or a tall person

I see a human being who has the right to be respected.

2007-03-28 14:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by Daniel 4 in Singles & Dating

how do u know if ur pretty. i dont really get guys asking me out, i have a little bit of pimples, but not alot of people say i am pretty. i feel unloved (by a guy) and not pretty. and no matter how much affort i put into my looks, i am a dork and still get no guys!! *sigh* :( any answers are welcome, but only if they help.

2007-03-28 14:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by ummm....i dont know! 3 in Friends

2007-03-28 14:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Singles & Dating

i really dont get, its not like ur doing something bad...its a free countey u can date who eva u want....the marriage age is 16 neway..

2007-03-28 14:24:50 · 3 answers · asked by teanah203 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 14:24:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, well shes not my biological mom but shes more of a mom to me then my biologicaly one so i either call her mommy or mama, but here sister jsut had a miscarriage and she is so sad, it makes me wanna cry just seeing her that sad. How can i comfort her with out making her fee worse or making it akward?? Serious answers please

2007-03-28 14:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family

My wife is very abusive. I take what she gives, cause her good points far outweigh her bad points, and she isnt abusive that often. However, last Sunday night we were at her parents house for a bbq. We were all sitting around talking and joking around. I said something that was insulting to her, in jest, not seriously meaning what I said, and everyone should have known it. She was holding a hot spatula and slapped me with it, and I just snapped. I dont remember doing it, but I punched her in the face. Then me and her father got into a fight, and later I was arrested for domestic violence. She has left me and is staying at her parents now, and I just got out of jail this morning. I love her very much, and I didnt even realize that I was going to do anything until after I did it. It was like it all happened in a split second and I was outside of myself watching it. I know im probably going to serve some time, as I deserve to, but I dont know where to go from here. Any advice?

2007-03-28 14:22:52 · 9 answers · asked by Heironymous Anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is from another country and he is interested in me as he says that's why he wants to speak my own dialect. He is interested in my religion too after reading it previously and more because of me, he sends me gifts, calls me daily sms at morning and night, he said"I like you much" and "I am so special to him". Do I have to believe in that love?
* knowing that I like and respect him as well.

2007-03-28 14:22:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

ok, before I go any farther, I mean like on your head. Just to keep that straight.
Ok, so my question is, does what a girls hair look like really change the opinion of what a guy thinks about her? If she had a great body, great personality, but her hair was. bluh. Like, I mean whatever you think ugly hair is. What would you guys think of her?

i know this sounds like a really gay question, but oh well.

and ps this is not me wanting to know.

[[and please check out my last question and answer if you can]]

thanks

2007-03-28 14:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by brandi l 1 in Singles & Dating

Please someone tell me what I should do. I want them to have a good time, but I don't want to be in trouble if they get hurt.

2007-03-28 14:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At first I felt inadiquit because my girlfriend had been with 5 other guys before me and i was still a virgin. It always bugged me that she was with other guys and now that i don't feel inadiquit any more because... well i don't mean to brag but... lets just say that she is done way before me in bed. but it still bugs me that she was with other guys and one i perticular where she was in an abusive realationship i just feel like busting his f*****g brains in. Is this normal or am i over-jelouse? We have been going out for 6 months and i also wonder if i will ever get over this?

2007-03-28 14:21:38 · 19 answers · asked by dan 3 in Singles & Dating

i asked this girl out and she rejected me out but we still hang out a lot and she knows i'm interested, I recently kind of took her out on a date because i got her flowers, should i stop hanging out with her because i can't really be friends with her, it's painful for me what do you think?

2007-03-28 14:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by "liked" and said No. He then, said, "but you know who gets my attention is..." He explained that he doesn't "like" her either. He just thinks she's cute and "notices" her. It bothered me but no big deal. You can like someone else to a certain extent and not intend to cheat or leave. But I saw him talking to her in karate class today in the side room with a fellow student. Then as they came over to the main dojo, she pretended to kick him. Oh how cute! Blech...It wouldn't be much of an issue if he hadn't mentioned her before (he's a bit of a flirt in general) and she's getting a divorce, so she'll be free soon.

I was mad and barely spoke to him during class. For this and other reasons (some out of his control), I want to break up. But am I overreacting?

2007-03-28 14:20:59 · 3 answers · asked by TopLessOne 1 1 in Singles & Dating

its only been a week and im not ready for a new realtionship and im not into doin for myself so where to turn?

2007-03-28 14:20:48 · 5 answers · asked by tabatha g 2 in Family

Please do be honest... would you date a fat girl?

2007-03-28 14:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tried asking out a girl that i like a couple weeks ago. her answer was yes. i tried planning a day on when to go out, and she told me she was busy, i asked again about another day and she was busy again. i havent talked to her at all in the last couple of weeks becuase i figured she just wasnt interested. whenever i see her, i catch her looking at me and when i look at her she looks away. my question to you all is should i ask her out again, or no?

2007-03-28 14:19:55 · 16 answers · asked by george 2 in Singles & Dating

He was the best man at my wedding 13yrs ago. Should I be hurt?

2007-03-28 14:19:23 · 2 answers · asked by maxsteel 1 in Singles & Dating

how is it decided in a family who can't leave home until younger sibs are raised ; or. until Mom and dad die so they are cared for in the comfort of home,. Some people seem to be expected to give up their own lives with marriage and children to be caretakers. Why? and Why, Why does the person comply ; always has puzzled me. is it more than emtional blackmail of a strong selfish person against a weaker one who is used?

2007-03-28 14:18:53 · 3 answers · asked by Nora 7 in Family

I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm accidentally in love!!!!!!!
I've found a reason for me, to change who i used to be, a reason to start over new, and the reason is Her.

2007-03-28 14:18:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his friend is really nice and sweet but he is not my type his friend is though

2007-03-28 14:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by karina h 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I think that this one girl in my Class likes me. She is 21 and I am 19. She moved her seat and she is sitting next to me. She talks to me all the time. she laughs at myy jokes and yesterday, she start touching me while talking, she was patting me and hitting me, etc.

Now, I am single and I also liike her back, not like "really like" but just like "like". I wouldn't mind going out with her and spend time.

What should I do? Should I ask her out or ask her phone # ??? Or should I let her Make a move??

I don't want to show my interest in her to her cause then she'll think I am interested in her and move away from me Or Maybe she Has a special someone.

I don't know....

2007-03-28 14:18:39 · 3 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok,so i was walking to the kitchen to get a glass of milk right,when,in the crack of my grandparents door,i saw something horrifying.MY GRANDPARENTS WERE HAVIN SEX!!!! Its so disgusting im scarred for life,I cant even look them in the face anymore!please,tell me how i can get over this!!!/~~

2007-03-28 14:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by apple b 1 in Family

Why are guys always on top while having sex? Why don't women take control and be on top for once?

2007-03-28 14:18:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating