i asked this girl out and she rejected me out but we still hang out a lot and she knows i'm interested, I recently kind of took her out on a date because i got her flowers, should i stop hanging out with her because i can't really be friends with her, it's painful for me what do you think?
2007-03-28 14:21:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey man,
I'm currently in the same situation myself, I'm gay and there is this guy that I always hang out with he knows I'm gay and suspects I'm interested in him. Hanging out with him is so hard knowing I have feelings for him and they won't be returned.
I say if it's a good friend and you think you have a good friendship try to make it work otherwise if it's to painful to be around her, maybe let her know that and go your separate ways for a while. Good Luck I know it isn't an easy choice to make.
2007-03-28 14:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tigrecub82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain is part of life. Do you mean that because she's not interested on you, you're not interested in her as a friend? I could say it's kind of selfish, for I keep friendship in high standards. Maybe you just don't need to hung out so much and take more time to know new people, but not necessarily cutting on the friendship. You can always let her know how you feel and find out if she really is not interested in you. Maybe she doesn't trust you 100% to make the commitment. Or if it's like she says, just friends, remember that a real friendship is not always easy to find, but do take your time to know more people. good luck!
2007-03-28 21:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to stop hanging out with her...just let it go for a while and you guys hang out like once a month or so...that way you don't have to see her too much that it's painful for you or bother her too much.
2007-03-28 21:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she not really your friend she only went out with you because you got her flowers no don't because she is take you for a joke you don't have to believe me
2007-03-28 21:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Ms. Independent Bitches 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her go and move on.guys have a funny way of thinking that as long as she accepts gifts or is friends with them that eventually she'll come around.no means no.don't keep hoping and breaking your heart.
2007-03-28 21:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like not hang w/ her but like email or somethin just no hangin out k?k
2007-03-28 21:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by joshbillyfred 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think even though you like her you guys should be friends
2007-03-28 21:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Terry S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋