i tried asking out a girl that i like a couple weeks ago. her answer was yes. i tried planning a day on when to go out, and she told me she was busy, i asked again about another day and she was busy again. i havent talked to her at all in the last couple of weeks becuase i figured she just wasnt interested. whenever i see her, i catch her looking at me and when i look at her she looks away. my question to you all is should i ask her out again, or no?
2007-03-28 14:19:55 · 16 answers · asked by george 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wouldn't hurt to approach her again. You could start by saying, 'I haven't forgot about our date if you would still be interested'. (you have to give her a way to decline and save face at the same time) But this time be ready with a plan to present to her so you can make definate date, time and place arrangements. (If she's really interested, she won't care what the plans are, but it's just polite to have them ready.) I have never agreed to a date without knowing exactly what the plan was at the time of agreement. Of course, you have to ready yourself in case she declines but this is the worst that could happen. I would go for it and Good Luck!!!
2007-03-28 14:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's always busy.... it might be ligitimate, or it might be an excuse.... If it's been a couple of weeks.... I would go up to her... and ask her "Hey What day you wanna go to the movies?" Then you will know by her reaction if she's interested or not, If she's interested, she'll come up with a free day. Other than that she's changed her mind... Tell me how it goes....
2007-03-28 14:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wow, she put you in a tough situation. It could be that she's just really shy and she doesn't know how to approach you herself and it's not that she isn't interested.
She might just be waiting for you to step up and pursue her. Next time you see her in the hallway and you make eye contact, just say "Hi ___. Can I talk to you for a second?" and ask if she would still like to do something with you. If she still tells you that she's "busy" and then doesn't make any effort to reschedule, then she might not even be worth pursuing.
2007-03-28 14:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by f0rever_dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!! you mean there are actually guys out there that arent afraid to ask a girl out on a date? wow wish there were guys like that here lol. ya try asking her again, but ask her if she is still interested and if she is then ask when she is available. if she gives you the busy excuse again then its problly not worth your time.
2007-03-28 14:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by ezrawillow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ask her agian, of cousrse shes stillinterested cuz u 2 r still goin out so make the next move again and ask her to plan a day that she can make too. bestz luck
2007-03-28 14:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah....... unless she's looking at you in a strange way like, ewww. then no. But go ahead and ask but instead of you making the date, let her do it. Then there's a chance you wont get her on a busy day.
2007-03-28 14:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try coming straight out and asking her " if she would like to go out with you and she can choose the date time and sec" that way if she does not want to go with you , she wil have no choice than to say so..peace of mind will ensue and you can move on to give attention where it will be appreciated.
2007-03-28 14:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by MiaPocca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her again, ask her if she wants to do something and when she can, leave it up to her, if she is interested she'll let u know.
2007-03-28 14:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by 06` 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I checked your profile and you've already asked this question...don't you have anything better to do than to waste other people's time with the same damn questions? All this time you wasted writing questions and reading answers couldve been substituted for a date with that girl.
If you're gonna waste ten points and post two questions about it, I'm sure you want to go out with her again. If you want to then ask her out, if you dont want to then dont but please Get a life!!
2007-03-28 14:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try asking her out ONE more time... and ONLY one more time. If she's ignoring you, she either REALLY likes you and is just being shy or doesn't really like you at all. You can't spend all your time chasing after someone who ignores you though, right?
2007-03-28 14:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by nobody's home. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋