Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

My husband and I have been married almost a year and we hardly ever call each other by our first names -- we use names like, "honey", "baby" and a variety of other pet names -- but very rarely our actual first names. Anyone else do this? Is there a healthy limit to this kind of behavior?

2007-03-28 15:23:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you could roll the dice to completely change ur looks (not ur personality) know ing that u could be angilina jolie or quazie moto, would you? i mean you could be ANYONE? i think this question kinda makes one apprieciate what they have already.

2007-03-28 15:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been sexually addicted to one very unlikely person? you know nothing would come out of this, but you dream about him day and night, and when you are finally together, its like a vulcano eruption. I just want to eat him alive. I dont remember feeling this way before. And i dont know if he is on the same page, i know he likes it though... i want to stop, and i feel i cannot, becase i need my fix. what can i do? it all feels wrong....but so unbelievably good.

2007-03-28 15:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by chuvachka 1 in Singles & Dating

The first week of school, this guy caught my eye because I thought he was cute. As soon as his friends noticed me glancing at him, they reported to him that I was staring at him and that I was into him and the next day, I see him in the hallway telling at 10 guys that I'm just so obsessed with him and then chuckling and smiling widely as I walked by. And then I see him again and he does the same thing, except this time with a new group of people.

I could tell that he wasn't even into me - his friends were more than he was. So, obviously, I was completely turned off.

I thought he'd get the pt. when I ignored him, it's been months and he's still convinced I'm interested. His seat got changed so he's directly in front of me in class and I am forced to look at him if I want to see the board behind him. To make things worse, he makes fun of me under his breath to his friends. What can I do to make this loser completely forget about me?

2007-03-28 15:22:21 · 7 answers · asked by f0rever_dreaming 2 in Singles & Dating

My father always giving me what i want as in everything i need. He is so nice to me but he really hate my sister. One day my father told us who was his favorite but and he says it is my sister. He always getting angry with my sister because he dont want that something will happen to her.But how about me? He dont care about me although he wants me to be happy.Is it already?????

2007-03-28 15:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by crizza 1 in Friends

..i was on my way home from work at night when this guy tried to approach me on the street. i was walking and he kept staring at me hard. then he came up to me and asked me my name and age (but i didnt give it to him) and then he said "i see ur in a rush to go home, does that mean i cant talk to u" and i said ye pretty much and then he was like "ok ill see u later". its not like i knew him, he was a total stranger. it was really weird and uncomfortable, like i hate being approached during the day much less at night..i jus dont understand why they think its ok to do that..dat aint right...

2007-03-28 15:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP me cause i don't know how to tellhim i like him!

2007-03-28 15:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i first got together with my ex gf she once said " i was too nice" , "that she wasn't use to nice" , i was just being myself, i can't help that there were jerks in her life.

2007-03-28 15:19:43 · 10 answers · asked by Doug T 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you change it if you could?

2007-03-28 15:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Mystery 3 in Singles & Dating

I should explain. My wife cheated on me, ok a one year affair. I filed for divorce & that is where we are at. I love her, but she says she no longer loves me. She wants to raise her new baby that came out of the affair alone. He is not in the picture, his wife didn't like the idea of him having kids behind her back, & since she didn't want me around I filed for divorce. I didn't want one but I didn't want to sit around wondering what was going to happen. We have two boys of our own and we have only been talking during the divorce in order to inform on the boys or during the trade off. Now she has started calling me at work, at home, and whenever else. She is asking me to lunch and tring to talk outside of the kids or the divorce. I am at a loss. I now just want to know how to tell her to go away without it hurting me. I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I filed it is over, and she wants to have everything from the marriage. That is everything but the sex, love, & responsibilities.

2007-03-28 15:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by Bradley F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok we're good friends, make each other laugh, "touch" each other a lot, and there really isn't a private "bubble" between us! I once told him in the heat of the moment that I liked him more than a friend...and thankfuly it didn't harm our friendship. Today I was fooling around and I told him that I was "disappointed" in him. He almost freaked out and kept asking me why for the next 5 mins. I didn't pay much attention to it and started talking to my locker partner about shorts. Then he was like was it bcuz i took ur shorts?? and i reassured him that I was just kidding. In addition, I catch him starring at me sometimes and when I look back he just waves at me. Well he waves a LOT at me ...in general.

BUT: The problem is (even if he likes me) is that we have a mutual friend who admits to liking him. And neither of us wanna hurt her... :( (atleast thats what I believe he thinks)

2007-03-28 15:18:05 · 2 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend got told to ask a girl in my class to prom. Shes a total jerk to us to. Him and i dont like underage drinking and the clique (group that the drinkers hang out in 5 girls). My friend is thinking of doing it but im telling him its a stupid idea. He really wants to get some what should he do your opinions.

2007-03-28 15:17:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a few months ago, i received a message on myspace from this guy asking me who the girl on my profile was i told him she was my cousin and he explained that she was his cousin too turns out he and i also go to the same school. he is not my biological cousin, but since he has no other cousins in the u.s. i didnt mind when he told his friends i was his cousin, things were ok at first although after a while he started butting in too much, once he told me that my bf was not good enough and we got into a huge arguement about that. then about a month ago when my bf and i decided to take a break, it seemed like my "cousin" took over me. now i have a performance on friday in which i wear a skirt and he is telling me im not allowed to do the dance because he will not let me. and he told me that when i want to put up a picture on my myspace i have to ask him first and i can only have 1 pic up. it is my life and im old enough to make my own choices, how do i tell him to back off w/out hurting him?

2007-03-28 15:17:08 · 9 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 15:16:56 · 5 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Friends

So. I met this guy a few days ago...and I really like him...He seems pretty nice...but it just seems like all he wants to do is talk about sex, and when I ask to change the subject, he gets quiet, and it gets very akward between us. How do I get him to want to discuss something else? And, what should I change the discussion to?

2007-03-28 15:16:53 · 17 answers · asked by pandabear322 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my friend had told my boyfriend that I was only going out with him to get this one girl named Kylie mad since she liked him! But I would never do that to someone, I am going out with him because I like him and he likes me but my friend thinks different and I have told her a bunch of times that I am going out with him because I like him not to make some other girl jelous but she still continues to tell him other wise! I am just sick of it!! What should I do?

2007-03-28 15:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by Lexy♥ 2 in Friends

He is REALLY cute. And I like him A LOT. What should I do????

2007-03-28 15:16:14 · 25 answers · asked by The Way We Are 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has recently been hanging out with my ex who hurt me a lot in the past. My ex used me, lied to me, neglected me, yelled at me, put me down with insults. I dont miss him at all, & I dont want him back.
Although this friend of mine has been good friends with BOTH of us since before we broke up, seeing him hanging out with my ex now hurts me a lot. My friend knows what he did to me and when he first found out he thought my ex was a complete jerk. But recently, it seems like he is accepting my ex as a friend again. I know that they have been friends too for a long time & Its none of my business who he is friends with but It just kind of hurts to see him hanging out with my ex when he knows what he did to me. I sort of tried talking to my friend about it last night but he just told me I have to forgive & forget.

I dont know how to talk to him about how this hurts me. Any suggestions? Should I even talk to him about it at all? Am I just being ridiculous?

2007-03-28 15:16:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it starts with a v

2007-03-28 15:15:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 15:15:02 · 7 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I heard that my exbf said that he broke up with me because i was cheating on him. (Which is not true.. I always loved and respected him. We broke up because he wasn't in love with me anymore.) What's odd is that he actually said this after he found out that i was dating my actual bf and he said it to my bf's brother in-law. I really don't get why he said such a thing?
What do you think?

2007-03-28 15:14:38 · 6 answers · asked by loving_girl_05 2 in Singles & Dating

leather mask?

2007-03-28 15:14:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 months ago my husband of 4 years went out with a few men on a hunting trip to try & network with them better. He said he didn't like the idea of hunting but really wanted to go with them to also talk business. He comes back from the (deer) trip & raved about it & talked about how much fun he had and wanted to go out more with them. I didn't like the idea of hunting AT ALL & told him that. He's been out with them a second time & is planning on going with them for a "big hunt" in a week. He's a business man, lives in the city, and is very trendy. I never thought he'd get into this "sport". Well, he's buying guns, having a deer stuffed to hang in his office AT HOME, & even thinking about getting a trained hunting dog. I wont have any of that in our house. We got into a big fight about it last night & said he's going to do this & that is final. I was shocked and left the house. If hunting is something I feel really strongly about, did I do the right thing by leaving if he wont stop

2007-03-28 15:14:19 · 22 answers · asked by platinum_civic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend diched me for some peeps she meet this year i said it was over now i regret it what should i do
she wouldnt hang out with me at all and said its not. But now its really over and i dont want it to be what should i do?

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my other friend told what she was saying behind my back and it really hurt cause weve been friends for so long!

2007-03-28 15:13:39 · 19 answers · asked by Asya♥ 3 in Friends

tough one isnt it

2007-03-28 15:13:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there is this EXTREMLEY hot guy I like and I don't know how to get him to ask me out. I need to know what to do to make him like me as much as I like him.HELP!

2007-03-28 15:13:31 · 18 answers · asked by kam4388 1 in Singles & Dating

to make him FEEL me, like to sense me as a wonderful girl. Any scents? any lip twiching techinques? or something?.
Thanks oxox.

2007-03-28 15:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my father was never in my life since i was born he doesnt call me or anything he doesnt even know my birthday.. i guess the thing that hurts the most is he has other children and takes care of them but not me when im his real child..im not saying dont take care of them but what about me...Also i try to get over and get the nerve to call him but wheni do he never anwer or calls me back..i have a step dad and he is the best but i still think about my dad and wonder why he does this stuff but i can't get over it..i keep thinkin that something wrong with me.... is there?..how should i get over it???or can i

2007-03-28 15:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by unique_and_Petite 2 in Family

We have been dating for one year tommorow, and I still have no Idea what to do. I don't want to sound cheap, but we have both been having financial problems lately, and sadly, I can spend around $30. Any Ideas? (she is 23 and I am 20)

2007-03-28 15:12:13 · 16 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been going out for a long time but we havent done anything how can i break up with her in a nice way

2007-03-28 15:12:03 · 20 answers · asked by jake S 1 in Singles & Dating