we have been going out for a long time but we havent done anything how can i break up with her in a nice way
2007-03-28 15:12:03 · 20 answers · asked by jake S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say "i think it would be easier on both of us if we just be friends instead of bf/gf because i think i have a different definition of a relationship from you and i care about you enough to not want to hurt you by ruining our relationship. i want to just be friends, because i need time to sort things out with my life right now. i love you alot, but im scared that if i hide my feelings from you then i'll only end up hurting you, and i dont want to do that to you. "
2007-03-28 15:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by gina_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you need to ask yourself if you want to break up with her because you are "not getting any" or if you really don't love her anymore. You mentioned that you have been going out for a long time. So, is this a relationship that if you guys worked it out - would you stay? If so - have you asked her why you are "not getting any"? If not - ask her! But, be nice about it. She may be dealing with personal issues that have nothing to do with you. If she doesn't give you an honest answer - then I would consider moving on and let her know that you really want to work it out if you can but that you also need to feel wanted and intimate in your relationship. If you can't have that with her - just tell her you can't stay in the relationship and need to move on. If you are just simple and honest - it will be easier for you.
2007-03-28 15:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by stlfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever had feelings for her...just walk up to her and tell her face to face. Just say "I really think it's time for us to move in separate directions." Be totally as nice as you can, because information like this, even coming from an ex doesn't feel good. Don't BS her, look at her like you were looking in a mirror.
2007-03-28 15:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, this is an example of a loving long term relationship. We should all be so lucky.
You are a real jerk for breaking up with her because she won't have sex with you. I hope she gives it to your best friend instead.
2007-03-28 16:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by country girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're a pig. But if you want to break up with her, at least be nice about it and tell her the truth.
2007-03-28 15:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Spex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't break up with her just because she isn't "giving you any". You should respect her for how she feels, and what she wants to do. If you actually like her you wouldn't want to break up with her for that. That's the stupidest thing you could do. If you do that you don't deserve to be with her.
2007-03-28 15:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by punkxrocker3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like s*x means a lot to you, but you can't help your self. Did you let her know that you been wanting to do something with her? Well if you did and their are no emotional connections than i suggest you tell her that it is important to you and you want to find someone who has similar feelings. But more likly shell get mad and call names but you have your needs too!
2007-03-28 15:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by wolfnativewolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jake S = jackass, sorry coudlnt resist,
ANYWAYZ, if you're not getting what you want, stop leading her on and break it off already, the more you leave it the more ugly the break up will be, she'll be better off without you and you know it
2007-03-28 15:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by knowerofallthings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your talking about sex o my god, you are pathetic, you are the lowest of the low to break up over this, girls are not determined on sex like guys, if you just wanted a screw go to a club, you tosser
2007-03-28 15:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just like a guy to think of one thing. you have confirmed where men's brains are. is that the only reason you went out with her?
2007-03-28 15:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋