He is REALLY cute. And I like him A LOT. What should I do????
2007-03-28 15:16:14 · 25 answers · asked by The Way We Are 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
back off if he has a gf!!! wait it out!!!
2007-03-28 15:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well millions of people want what someone else has---the reality is that you can't have him--so stop fantacizing and get it out of your mind. He's cute?? That is the reason you want him?? Not good enough---right now a million cute guys are available and ready to meet a nice girl. How about concentrating on looking for more than just cute--how about smart, respectful, courteous, a good talker and listener...with a job or doing well in school...well groomed and interesting and fun. How about looking for a guy of your own with a real future and knows how to appreciate you for the person you are. Got to forget about this couple--she has the guy and you are wasting time. Be nice, relax, smile, and good luck
2007-03-28 15:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriends are not wives. They date to find out if there is more. There may not, so don't be too sure it couldn't work for you and this cute guy. Always work on the positive thinking end and it will work.
2007-03-28 15:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He has a girlfriend. If he gets back on the market, then hes free game. but definately dont interfere with his current relationship. Both he and his girlfriend will resent you for it. If youre willing to wait for them to part, be my guest. But its pretty bad having a crush on a taken man. get over him and find a single guy.
2007-03-28 15:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lay your cards on the table, be upfront with him. After you tell him how you feel about him , its now up to him to decide if he wants to stay and be faithful to his current girlfriend or end the relationship to give you a chance.
If he decides to stay & be faithful to his girlfriend, please just leave him alone!
Trust me if you were in his girlfriends shoes you wouldnt like some girl lurking around trying to take your man
2007-03-28 15:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tempt r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that same situation once if the guy likes u wat u should do is let him know that u like him not too much though & wen he want to talk to u, u should kinda avoid him a little let him c u often wen he looks at u pretend u dont c him looking then he will come over to talk.
2007-03-28 15:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by *Pices* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to play fair but show him what a charming good hearted person you are and win him over invite him on a casual date. nothing the girlfriend would find suspicious
2007-03-28 15:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by andysmith917 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away! You do not want to be that girl, the homewrecker. Would you want to be with a guy who left his girlfriend for another girl because she wooed him? If he does it to her he will most likely do it to you.
2007-03-28 15:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to do anything? He's not available at the present time. If you want to get to know him as a friend, that's fine...but don't pursue anything more. You wouldn't want any gals trying to take your boyfriend from you, would you?
2007-03-28 15:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING. Trust me. It doesnt feel good to be the girlfriend. You wouldn't appreciate it if some chick was coming after your boyfriend, AND if he strays from her easily to come to be with you, he will be just as likely to stray from you. I know it isnt what you want to hear, but it's my viewpoint.
2007-03-28 15:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by pandabear322 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. If he likes you, he'll come to you on his own time. Trying to break them up won't help - it'll only create tension and worsen the matter. Wait until he's single.
2007-04-01 11:22:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋