All he wants to do is talk about Sex.?

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All he wants to do is talk about Sex.?

So. I met this guy a few days ago...and I really like him...He seems pretty nice...but it just seems like all he wants to do is talk about sex, and when I ask to change the subject, he gets quiet, and it gets very akward between us. How do I get him to want to discuss something else? And, what should I change the discussion to?

2007-03-28 15:16:53 · 17 answers · asked by pandabear322 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 15:21:07 · update #1

17 answers

Sigh. Men that just like to discuss sex seemingly more interested in conversing about something they can visualize than who you are and what you're all about. Perhaps you need to restablish why you like this person? Regardless to what you want to talk about, if your topics are always pointing back to sex you're not going to be able to do anything about it other than to walk away. Obvious to me, and to what I myself have experienced, those looking for sex or just to talk about it, only have one thing on their mind, that. They don't care about anything else and won't let any other topic work between you. Is this what you want? Good Luck.

2007-03-28 15:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by karenramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I don't think a nice guy starts off with sex talk. Other thing is you really like him then why is there any problem with the conversation. You had to have spoke about something else. Work, school and family are safe talk. Talk about what you both have in common. Music, going out and may be friends you both know. Talk is endless. If you really want to know talk of religion and politics. This is either a deal breaker or you may just choose to disagree. lol

2007-03-28 15:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by ascendent2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

some guys view girls like sex objects. i believe that he's some what shy, maybe sex is a topic that he can relate to. but being that u r tired to talk about it then just change the subject without being rude. talk about other stuff 2 get his mind off sex...like his family or something......good luck!

2007-03-28 15:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by nicky4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

He just wants to have sex with you. No need to change the subject. Just change who you are interested in.

2007-03-28 15:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by lslbyd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Im sorry to break the news to you, but face it he's not interested in you. He's with you for sex ONLY! If you want sex, stay with him. If you want a real bf who can actually have conversations that dont involve with sex, move on with this guy.

2007-03-28 15:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Good God, Woman! There is something wrong with him. Maybe he thinks his willy will fall off if he doesn't talk about sex. Maybe he wants to share it with the world. Maybe he thinks it will disappear if he doesn't keep it on your mind!
LOL I would get away from that pervert. Only perverts do this crap.

2007-03-28 15:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Well that is not good maybe he really wants to get some because that sounds like he is just a really horny person well yeah i would like tell him that i dont want to talk about that and then like tell him that you dont want to talk to him if he is going to talk abou thtat

2007-03-28 15:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

If he cant talk about anything but sex I suggest moving on. He's trying to trick you into do something that you might not want to do. That would be my guess.

2007-03-28 15:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Don't Speak! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

Are you sure he likes you or just want to have sex with you. Find some one who you can talk to not just about sex. I understand you like him but i don't think he likes you like that

2007-03-28 15:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

sounds like he needs to grow up and you need to move on or next step you may not like at all. Oh and by the way.. tell em he needs to take a cold shower will help..

2007-03-28 15:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by shakannaglory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋