Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

People always say wait till marriage to have sex!! My old friend said she was going to wait to have sex till marriege. Six months after that she broke both of her legs, and strives around in wheelchair. She said people look a her differently and she regrets waiting for it. You never know what could happend and never have that chance. So why wait?

2007-03-27 11:27:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

loser...

Ok..so my best friends like me very much..EXCEPT for one! She makes me feel left out... I shop at A&F, ae, etc... She still doesn't seem to like me.. I hate it when she tries to take my friends a way.. Is there Anyway i can stop her? Why do u think she doesn't like me? I'll describe myself.. I'm asian with rectengular glasses, skinny, short hair with highlights( recently gotten), roundish face, with about 3-4 guys liiking me? Do i sound like a loser? or is she just jealous? plz help!!! thanx!!!

(i'm a middle schooler...)

2007-03-27 11:26:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girlfriend is a virgin

2007-03-27 11:26:48 · 12 answers · asked by clethis 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

In May of this year we will be five years I keep asking him when are we going to get married he tells me that he loves me and we will be married, and for me to wait I don't want to be married after another five years I think that on our 5 yr anniversary he will pop the question and if he dosen't what should I do?

2007-03-27 11:23:44 · 19 answers · asked by JENN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to ask my best guy friend if he likes me tomorrow. I'm going to tell him that what i look for in a best friend and a boyfriend is basically the same thing so i usually just follow the cues that they are sending me to decide where things are going, but i've been getting some mixed signals from him so i was just trying to see where he wanted to go from here?
cause i really do like him
but i would be happy going either way
is this a good way to put it
and i would love suggestions or any other ideas
thanks!!!

2007-03-27 11:23:31 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Singles & Dating

[Hi again, I'm making a survey, so please take a sec of your time and answer this simple question. Thanks.]

If colours were people and had personalities/characters., how would you describe them – their personalities/characters, moods, age, culture/country, gender......etc etc (anything else you can think of)

How about describing the colour RED?

Thanks a lot everyone :)

2007-03-27 11:23:02 · 7 answers · asked by just_D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I try to help someone out at least once a week by giving them with a ride somewhere or just visiting with them or helping them with even the littlest of tasks.Do you think I will become a better person by doing this?

2007-03-27 11:22:24 · 24 answers · asked by pantherchelle24 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

yesterday, i posted a question about my ex's friend talking to me on msn but i don't consider him as a friend... i broke up with my ex like 5 months ago.... and suddenly his "friend" tells me on msn that my ex is kissing his now gf in front of him, asks me if i have a new bf and tells me that my ex asked him for condoms a few months ago...

2007-03-27 11:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

We were married for 4.5 years when he decided to leave. I found out later that he had an affair for 6 months and left to be with her. It is 4 years later and now he wants to talk. What do you think?

2007-03-27 11:21:35 · 49 answers · asked by Sippy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy who i ttly adored just told me i was tryin to black mail him which i don't think i was, and he hates me now and deleted me from everthing!:-(

2007-03-27 11:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Murder 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:20:36 · 20 answers · asked by Kenzie 1 in Singles & Dating

when some chick almost tripped on my chair, she hit me softly with a notebook in the face and i didnt even do anything. What does that mean?

2007-03-27 11:20:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i have friends who are all going out or like somebody and well lucky me i have glasses and braces but my mom says i have great hair and my friends say i have a great body!(but their not gay or anything so don't think that ok!) So what do i do?

2007-03-27 11:20:16 · 11 answers · asked by fun_fun_ 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I "met" this guy online over a year ago. Evidence points to him being truthful in all he has said, and I know I have told only the truth. Both of us have been careful not to give away anything too personal, such as where we live or where we are near... But I like him, as a friend. He says he is 18 - was 17 when we first "met" - and I am 16 now, 15 the. So, the thing is, I would like to meet him someday, when I'm 18 if we're still in contact, through instant messaging mostly, though we have emails too, which I believe we will be. But, is this a good idea? How would I go about asking to meet...? When should I do it, if at all? Please any advice and personal experiences would be well appreciated. Thank you everyone.

2007-03-27 11:20:10 · 3 answers · asked by Mailman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think? I would like to know

2007-03-27 11:20:03 · 22 answers · asked by Tom M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the title says it all

2007-03-27 11:20:00 · 10 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you show your husband you want him around all the time no one is above him. He thinks I dont love him

2007-03-27 11:19:34 · 20 answers · asked by Sad Eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were together all through high school and was each other first... but after high school, I was all about work. That ment less time to spend together and she didn't like that so we broke up. We would still hang out and sex but still date other people. That was a mistake to still have sex bc now we don't trust each other on dates with other people but at the same time, its nobody's business. 2yrs pass sense we broke up and we haven't talked 1yr. She email me out of the blue and said "Hi" ask for my #. I give it to her and she call me ASAP. I ask how she doing and she says "I have a man now and I love him so don't call me and talk about our past. It's disrespectfull to him. Matter of fact, I don't want to talk to you ever again." I didn't know what to say, think, anything bc she called me and all I said was "how are you?". It made me think she is bipolar now. I still care about her and hope she happy now but what is her problem with me? Has anyone been through something like this?

2007-03-27 11:19:32 · 13 answers · asked by The Legend 2 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago I ran into a girl when I was getting food to go from a grocery store. I was wearing an Italian World Cup T-shirt and she asked me if I was Italian. I told her no, and she told me she was born and raised in Europe, and that her mom was from Croatia which is across the Adriatic from Italy. I told her that my Grandmother was Croatian, and she seemed excited and asked if I spoke any Croatian. Unfortunatly, I don't

I've see her from time to time when I go get dinner to go or lunch, and she always seems friendly. One evening I bought some wine, and she asked me if I had a date that night. I told her no, showed her my ID, paid for my icecream and wine and left.

I suppose I'm getting longwinded. I just would like to get to know her better, it seems as though we would get along well. I was wondering the best way to ask her out, since there are usually coworkers of hers around and other customers in line, I'm at a loss of how to do it without making it awkward for her.

2007-03-27 11:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by _ 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and we're very serious about the realtionship. We both love each other but we're from different countries. He is Jamaican and I'm Bahamian and he was living with his mother in the Bahamas since he was three illegally. His mother recently moved back to Jamaica along with his little brother and sister. Its not easy for him to live here illegally. He cant get a drivers license or bank account or anything like that and he's tired of it. And i feel horrible because he just told me that the obnly reason he didn't move with his mother is because he thought he found the love of his life! I however have another year of high school left and i want to go to college and then marry him and get citizenship in Jamaica. But i might miss my family or (God forbid) our marriage may not work out! What should I do?

2007-03-27 11:19:23 · 8 answers · asked by blackninjagal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For me I was probably 14 as that was the first time I decided to sleep with a guy - on reflection a dumb move (more in terms of the guy than the timing).
When I was 17 I really was in love with a guy who made me happy for several years but I could never be with forever. I still loved him and that made it hurt all the more when he betrayed me.

2007-03-27 11:19:19 · 14 answers · asked by Skyblue Princess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know what to do.my best friend will beat the crap out of me if i cheated on his sister.marie wont let me see charlie(my daughter).what am i to do?
i dont want to be with a guy right now.but i still get turned on.i really do love marie.oh man why did i ever get her pregnant.
her brother,my best friend,even though hes 29 years old.he and i had a fling 2 years ago,so he was mad when he found out about me and mar.i dont want to lose anything or anybody.not my friend,not my daughter and not marie.how can i stop these urges for other guys?

2007-03-27 11:19:17 · 9 answers · asked by dream_hawk22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My para married a christain and she is so mean to me, one night i went to the youth center and they started dancing and i started dancing to and she claims i was rap dancing and I was just claping my hands and just having a great time trying to make friends. and she said that when i grow up i will be hard to handle, I wasn't doing nothing wrong. What do I do? she treats me like a Baby!

2007-03-27 11:19:06 · 3 answers · asked by kimberly a 1 in Family

my ex girlfriend wanted a cross for her necklace for christmas, I couldn't find just a cross, then she said she could take the cross off a necklace and put it on hers,but it was too late then, now it's been 3 months since she broke up with me, and I've felt bad ever since that I didn't get her one. I saw her in church sunday and noticed she didn't have one still. Today I bought a necklace and am going to send it to her, with a note saying that I'm not expecting it to change the way she looks at me now, but that I just wanted to feel better that I got her one. I know some may think it's foolish of me, but I still care about her and in my heart I thought it was the right thing to do. I just pray that she won't be offended in any way.

2007-03-27 11:19:02 · 5 answers · asked by Doug T 1 in Singles & Dating

About two years ago, I met a man online. We talked online, on the phone and he wrote me the most romantic letters I girl could want. We talked every night till the early hours of the morning. But after a while the distance between us started to get to us. and we mutually decided that it might be better to see other people. Since then we still talk sometimes, but I still love him so much it kills me that I can't be near him. Recently I've met someone, and we've been living together for about 6 months. I love my boyfriend very much, and would marry him as soon as he'd ask. But recently I drempt of him, and since then I can't get him out of my mind. I know he still loves me, and I still love him, I was thinking of writing him, nothing major, Just to catch up. I'm afraid if I do, it'll only tease me. But If I don't i'll never get him out of my head. My BF dosn't know anything about it, and I wouldn't dream of ever cheating on him.

2007-03-27 11:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by needthecoast 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and there is a girl from high school that I've seen a few times since graduation but never really socialized with. We didn't talk in high school, but since we are all older, I would like to ask her out on a date and see how things go. The problem is that I don't have her phone number, ONLY her MySpace profile. How can I go about asking her on a date (or asking her for her phone number) without looking childish? I think MySpace is a great networking tool, but asking a girl out seems too high school, and that's what I'm trying to avoid!

2007-03-27 11:18:19 · 8 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Singles & Dating

the song is if i could just dance with my father again. he's not dead yet but wants to be. i so need to talk to someone about the lose of four family members in two weeks. it is so ......

2007-03-27 11:18:07 · 8 answers · asked by kelly d 1 in Family

been married for more years than i care to remember two fab kids but i am so unhappy my husband is not a bad person i just cant stand him we have no interests in common we had our first holiday without the kids a couple of years ago and it was a wash out and we have no conversation unless its about the kids he is not interested in anything i would like to do i feel as if i have spent my whole life doing wot will make him happy and what not to do like go out with friends cause i just get too much grief also i am starting to resent that i have given up family and friends as we come from different parts of the country and i have made all the changes and he carries on as normal i am bone weary of trying all the time even though the discountent is all on my side wot worries me the most is i thought i could stick it out till the kids were at least 16 but now i cannot even focus on next week let alone another three years but i am very worried about my eldests reaction ( daddys boy )

2007-03-27 11:17:56 · 22 answers · asked by axj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Say you had this really good female friend who you had an absolutely noticable and strong connection with. The girl is also real pretty. You have the exact same sense of humor and you think the girl is an absolute genuinely nice and hilarious girl, would you try and take this further, into a dating relationship or would you be happy just being friends?

I'm the girl, and just wondering what other guys in the same situation would think. I'm thinking about asking him if he likes me as more then a friend.

2007-03-27 11:17:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating