loser...
Ok..so my best friends like me very much..EXCEPT for one! She makes me feel left out... I shop at A&F, ae, etc... She still doesn't seem to like me.. I hate it when she tries to take my friends a way.. Is there Anyway i can stop her? Why do u think she doesn't like me? I'll describe myself.. I'm asian with rectengular glasses, skinny, short hair with highlights( recently gotten), roundish face, with about 3-4 guys liiking me? Do i sound like a loser? or is she just jealous? plz help!!! thanx!!!
(i'm a middle schooler...)
2007-03-27 11:26:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she shops everywhere too, she's also much prettier but I don't get y!!!
2007-03-27 11:40:00 · update #1
I understand that where you shop, what you wear, & what you look like is important to kids your age, but you need to learn that all that does not matter. If someone is only your friend because of those things then they are not a true friend.
2007-03-27 11:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only all of life's problems were this simple.....
If this girl makes you feel like a loser, why do you include her in the term 'best friends'? Your looks and shopping and how many guys are after you really don't make you a loser, it's your personality, and there is no mention of it.
2007-03-27 18:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by ilovethe90s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we just meet someone and take an instant disliking to them without ever figuring out the reason why. You can't control her or change her opinion just because that is what you want.
You also can't expect your friends to not like those who do not care for you - it's unfair and unrealistic. Spend time with those you enjoy and if this girl is around, treat her kindly.
Your looks have nothing to do with anything. Your attitude will speak volumes for you.
2007-03-27 18:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont thnk you seem like a loser but to me i think she's jelous cause if my friend had 3-4 guys likeing her i would be jelous too but i wouldnt want to steal her friends away from her!
2007-03-27 18:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Livy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her directly then the mystery will be solved, she may not know that she makes you feel this way. She may feel that you don't like her because of your discomfort around her. Its best to just talk with her and figure it out. You could wind up with a new best friend.
2007-03-27 18:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no, you think she doesnt like yu cuz of your looks? no one can take your friends away, if they left then they are lame and not your friends. jealousy is a major problem with girls and women so it could be... some people just dont like other people for their own reasons, have you talked to her, try that, find something in common.
2007-03-27 18:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na Gurl you are unique just the way that you are and if she has a problem with that she is not ur true friend!!
2007-03-27 19:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Stefanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't sound like a loser. Just be yourself.
2007-03-27 18:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not a loser and she iz sooooo jealouz of u its pretty obvious
2007-03-27 18:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by blah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh i realli wouldnt call her a true friend find better ones
2007-03-27 18:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋