Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

By in shape I mean:

1) not fat
2) toned
3) to the point where he does not get winded, walking up a few flights of stairs, going for a walk in the park etc.
4) some muscel definition
etc

In other words, the kind of guy anyone would look at and say to themselves: "He definitly works out."

I don't mean someone who wins body-building competitions on a regular basis, just someone in very good shape.

Thanks ladies!!!!

2007-03-27 11:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

loyalty, honesty, trust.......(just wondering)

2007-03-27 11:35:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This girl was cheating on her boyfriend with me, i thought she had broken up with him but it turns out she never did, she hurt me pretty bad, but i was wondering if I should send some "bad pictures" of us to her boyfriend because her boyfriend don't even know about me, so should I? shes been pissing me off and don't even want to talk to me anymore, i'm also tired of being Mr. Niceguy.

2007-03-27 11:35:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:35:03 · 28 answers · asked by hunkyhucks 1 in Singles & Dating

Because I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. And I live in a small town so I don't have that much to choose from. Also I am kinda shy. WILL I EVER GET A BOYFRIEND???? When was your first boyfriend??

2007-03-27 11:34:51 · 13 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:34:45 · 1 answers · asked by BILAL khan 1 in Friends

not an edited version....the truth, muck an all?lol

2007-03-27 11:34:25 · 23 answers · asked by KEEP 'ER LIT 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex is on and off with me. He can't really make up his mind. He used to be annoyed with me, but then, he says sorry for being a jerk the next week or so. Well this time, we have been friends for a record-breaking week. It makes me really happy because I still kind of like him in an odd way. But at the same time, I sit there thinking,"Why am I doing this?"
For once, I just want to get along with him for a long time and I want it to stay like this because I hate the arguing. So how do I keep us together as friends longer?
By the way, I am going out with his friend and he really doesn't mind, because he likes someone else already. So I have partially done my part of moving on to forget him.

2007-03-27 11:34:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a friend once who told me him and his buddies used to talk about who they had sex with and if it was good or bad. Honest answers please!!! Is this really a topic of conversation amoung guys or this guy and his friends really immature?

2007-03-27 11:33:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:32:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:32:51 · 30 answers · asked by Trixarella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 11:32:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and a half and in january of 2007 he was deployed to iraq where he'll be till september of 2007. this is the first time that we have been apart for any extended period of time. i miss him more and more every day and in all honesty dont know how to tell him exactly how i'm feeling. i've tried writting letters and emails and for some reason they all sound corny. i do i go about explaining just how i feel without making it sound like i'm bitching and complaining about him not being here?

2007-03-27 11:32:02 · 4 answers · asked by yv060183 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 11:31:55 · 18 answers · asked by Sad Eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy i am in love with that i dated, but he likes another girl named emma! Emma hates his guts! And today i was upset so i told his to kiss my butt(not literally)! After my class i told him why I said that and how it made me feel......... "i said i am still in love with you,all my friends say i need to get over you but i cant!!! I said i tried to be nice to you and be your friend but you just keep pushing me away......! He responded sorry im just going through a hard time with my friends and ya....!!!! so i told him im trying to be your friend........and i went through the exact same thing with my friends....... i thought they were true ones but apparently not, i found a great person to hang out with and thats you and some of the other guys. He said bye and left! Before he left he said you can come to my practice its at **.the reason we broke up was because he liked emma and it made me upset. but a week later he came to me and said i dont like her any more.Advice PLEASE!!!!

2007-03-27 11:31:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 and I'm a virgin what are the chances of me in the next few years spending my 1st time with someone around my age who is also a virgin? My guess would be slim to none.

2007-03-27 11:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like they don't know what they want. They are all talk and no action. What's the big deal? Is it because they are afraid or something?

2007-03-27 11:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend met a guy on cupid. He has 3 kids and is just a bit older than her. He thinks only 1 kid is his (says his exwife cheated). He told my friend he might fight for custody of the one kid, as long as it doesn't mess things up between them. He recently told her he hates using condoms. He also complained when he couldn't make her climax. When she said she wanted to wait to have sex, he asked he if she needed flowers, rose petals, music- he could run out and get them. She already calls him honey and they have already talked about getting married one day and that he would move in with her. He said his ex wiped him out financially. I am afraid he is using her. What should I do? I told her to have him get tested and make him wear condoms. She is normally SO much slower in a relationship and SO much smarter.

2007-03-27 11:30:52 · 1 answers · asked by natsuko1 3 in Singles & Dating

So me and my girlfriend live in a duplex, and she lives on one side and I live on the other side, and well we decided to move in together so we tore down the wall. wWhen the property manager found out, she threatened to evict both of us. Now we have 48 hours to rebuild the walls that seperated the two houses, and I'm suppose to go on a business trip and my girlfriend is pregnant. We don't have any money, and I can't take out a loan cuase I'm so in debt. I haven't told her yet, cause she was at work when the propery managercame by. What should I do? I can't tell my girlfrined that will stress her into premature labor, and I can't hire any one. HELP!!

2007-03-27 11:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3 in Singles & Dating

If tomorrow you knew your time was up what would be the one thing you would do and what would be your biggest regret?

2007-03-27 11:30:47 · 16 answers · asked by Richard L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 11:30:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a guy asks you out on a "dinner date to catch up"... this would mean he likes you ahy?

2007-03-27 11:30:07 · 9 answers · asked by purple_85 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy is shy and I am shy. I don't know what to do. How do I tell if he likes me. We talk on the computer a lot. I mean once for 5 hours. And we emailed each other over the summer. But I don't know if that just as friends. Can someone post ideas how to tell if this guy likes me or not. I know he likes someone and it probably is me because no one else likes him. It's pretty sad because he has horrible hair everyone says but he is really nice to me and has a great personality and is funny. I don't really care that his hair is horrible. People think I can do better, but I really like this guy a lot. But how do you tell if he likes you back? He knows I like him also. I'm so confused I don't know what to do. And the last guy I liked didn't like me back and I don't want that to happen again. So if anyone has any ideas for what I should do please post them. Thanks
I'll try my best to go with your ideas. Please remember I haven't told him I liked him face-to-face yet

2007-03-27 11:30:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this boyfriend as sweet as can be but you see I don't know what to do. My ex also known as my current's cuzin wants back together with me. I want to go out with him but I don't want to break up with my current boyfriend-I couldn,t stand to break his heart again- But I like his cuzin as well and if I'm just going to stay with him for a little while then what am I going to do because I don't want to lose him and the other guy but ugh....I NEED EDVICE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

2007-03-27 11:28:52 · 4 answers · asked by Boff Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't believe that I fell for his line- the, "I'm not looking for a relationship." line. Well, the relationship found him and I'm at a loss for words. We are close friends. I can't avoid him. We've been on several dates; so it's obvious that I'm interested.
Do I congratulate him? Do I try to get over myself and mope in silence? Do I tell him how offended I am? I"m kind of new to this crash and burn thing. Thanks.

2007-03-27 11:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by iambic_chatterbox 4 in Singles & Dating

Ladies - could you love a person that could not have sex was physically unattractive but was a nice person and would give anything just to be with you.

Would you be able to spend your entire life with such a person?

2007-03-27 11:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is wrong with me?
I can't make a relationship last. I get bored and want to get out anywhere from a year to a year and a half into it. I have done this so many times. i really want to stop, but have some issues I guess. I don't cheet when i am dating, but after about 8 months I start thinking I could be happier. Am I too picky?

Additional Details

13 minutes ago
btw, i am 33. I was married young (16)and it lasted 7 years. I left because I felt we changed so much in our views and personalities from when we were younger.(no, i never cheated)

2007-03-27 11:28:19 · 21 answers · asked by my_thoughts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought she was the one but I caught her cheating on me with the quaterback from are rival team. sucks cause I'm quaterback for my team. Plus I loved her she said it was just a one nighter but I don't belive in that. She says shes sorry what should I do?

2007-03-27 11:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love to reduce tough macho guy in tears - maybe you will say that is wrong but I see it as a challenge. Maybe that is cruel but plenty of guys clearly get off reducing women to tears so why not turn the tables?

2007-03-27 11:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by Skyblue Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

His name is (Boy), and I knew him since 2nd grade._

2nd grade- he sat next to me and I thought that he was weird._
3rd grade- i kinda missed him b/c he wasn't in my class_
4th grade- he was in my class but i didn't really care_
5th grade- in my class, everybody started liking him, and i didn't, but when noboby did I did, and had no idea what to do_
6th grade- in my class, I didn't really care about him in the beginning, seems to be a close friend of my friend, and then I wanted to be friends with him, and now that he's asked one of my best friends out, I like him._
WHAT SHOULD I DO?? Please help me

2007-03-27 11:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating